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grounded. depressed.


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 6:09 pm

i was grounded about a week ago for staying out waaaaaay too late. my parents are a little strict, so they took this seriously and grounded me for a month. i cant use my phone or get online, but i can still play sims and solitaire.

but i cant see my boyfriend. and i get really depressed when i cant see him because hes the only thing keeping me living. im a very depressed person, but now its worse than ever. i want nothing more than to kill myself immidiately. it uses all of my energy just to keep a happy face on in front of my family. when im not around anybody ive completely broken down and cry myself to sleep every night. this has been going on for 3 or 4 days. im wiped out and as pessimistic as i can get and just a total m...

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im all alone and going completely insane!!


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 6:02 pm

my boyfriend and i got drunk together recently and got caught. now we're both grounded for a long time. my mom wanted me grounded for a month, and my dad just said i was grounded until he says im not anymore. -.-''

i have no idea how long my boyfriend is grounded. his mom at first said a month, and then she said two weeks, and then she said 2 months...im just confused.

i dont have a very big social life. frankly, i dont want one. i have a few good friends and a boyfriend and im fine. thing is, im not grounded from the phone or from my computer. im grounded from PEOPLE! i cant hang out with anyone for as long as my dad says, which could be from 1 week to 5 weeks. i usually see my boyfriend every day, and this is...

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replaced


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 4:27 pm

Ok so my friend (A) has been my best friend since like 3rd grade but this year she made friends with this new girl (B) A doesn't know it but B has been talking about me behind my back and has been pulling me away from A. A thinks she is the best person ever and they hang out everyday. That used to be me. I miss hanging out with A and we used to have sleepovers and stay up late. We have wayy too many good memories to blow it now but today when we planned for her to come over I asked her about it and she said she was going to B's house. She was supposed to come away with me this weekend to a cheer competition and she said no because she was going to hang out with B. I was crying earlier. A lot of my friends have been doing that and I thought ...

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Online sweet talk?


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 3:40 pm

Is it okay if you are online on myyearbook (which is like a get to know other people type of site) and you tell other people of the opposite sex that they are pretty,hot,sexy,gorgeous,ect when you are in a relationship?

(im not, my boyfriend is and i dont know if im just being over dramatic and jealous or its really not okay)

thanks!

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hes "no good" and im giving him a chance.


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 3:21 pm

im 16/f
and hes 18/m

ill try to make this as short as possible.
we've been dating for a little over a month.we kinda rushed as you would say, we've been through the sex and i love you stage. and im geting kinda lost. hes on probation, and he has a bad rep of being a man whore sort of. well he gave me his password to change his about me, because i wanted to write it, so i was looking and i found sent messages that he sent girls on those truthboxes, saying, well nasty things, just weeks before we dated, and he was telling girls i love you and all this other things. we've already been through the "your not cheating on me are you" and then people all say hes not good news and i get frustrated and tell him ...

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Violence


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 12:03 pm

what do you do when you have a very very rude violent sibling who gets extra violent coz there on drugs and your mum's a single mother and disabled...I could physically stop him, but abuse gets you know where. && I wouldnt stoop to his level. he is younger, and I would get into trouble...it tears my family apart. and he's only 12

15/f

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DISLIKING my guy friends girlfriend.


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 11:38 am

18- female

how can i cope with DISLIKING VERY MUCH, my good guy friend (bens) girlfriend taylor? i pretty much don't like her, because i'm jealous of her. she's been with him for almost three years now. one of my friends is neighbors with ben and EVERYTIME i went to hangout there i saw taylor's car at bens which killed me to see. my friend plays hockey with ben and so when i go to watch i always have to see taylor and i hate it. i think she's pretty too which makes everything worse, shes an athletic all-star and a very popular girl which doesnt make things easier. its awkward when someone brings her up in front of me and ben because we have alot of memories together and he's tried to "get with me" which explains why...

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Boyfriend.


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 11:35 am

(16/f)

About a month ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We were together for about four months, and it really hurt me when it ended. I was super upset about it, but figured I'd feel better eventually.

Like I said, it's been a month and I'm not feeling any better. I haven't talked to him much (because I want to give him some space), but it's really eating away at me and I feel like I have to do SOMETHING, because I miss my ex boyfriend SO much.

Should I talk to him about it? I was thinking of writing him a note and giving it to him (we have a class together), is that a horrible idea?

Any help is really appreciated =/

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Dating, and age differences?


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 5:20 am

Now I know that everyone has their own personal preferencese when it comes to dating. My question though is, is there something wrong with a 17 year old guy going out with a 15 year old girl? I mean do you see anything wrong with it? I know i'm going to get many different answers and that's what i'm hoping for. There's just this guy that I really like, but he said that youngest he would date is 16, and i'm 15, and he's 17. He's a really great guy. We both have a lot in common, and are a lot alike. I'm not saying that because of these things that we belong together or something I just want to know everyones ideas on this. Any and all answers are greatly appreciated, and thank you in advance.

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She flirts with this guy that I really like, what do I do?


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 4:46 am

There is this guy that I really like a lot. The thing is i've never met him. He lives a state over. Anyway I told my friend that I really liked him, and i'd talk about him and how great he really is. Well when I showed my friend his picture, she wanted to talk to him. So they started talking, she has nick names for him, they talk more than him and I do. I just don't get it, she flirts with him all the time, everytime they talk. She says that's just how she is with guys. Also she has a boyfriend. So i've pretty much hit rock bottom with what happened tonight. They were talking and she told me what part of what they were saying because it was funny. She said he needs to go to bed, and he said she needs to go to bed, then she said alright fath...

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Gonorrhea


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 3:29 am

Why is Gonorrhea also know as "The Clap"?
P.S I didn't know which category to put this under, so...

Peace.
xx

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How do i choose which guy is for me?


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 2:10 am

This is a long long story/dilemma. So brace yourselves.

Okay, so a while back, I went out with guy A but we broke up. We broke up because of guy B. B and A used to be best friends until they both liked the same girl and B got the girl. That girl wasn't me.
So while be and A were going out, i was still friends with B and that was part of the reason me and A broke up, he was jealous of B and didn't want the same thing to happen again. before, i thought me and B would never happen..but ever since the break up, me and B have been hanging out a lot and i've just felt so......relaxed with him around. him and I are really good friends and just recently, he told me that he had feelings for me. of course, i felt an attr...

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Boy trouble!!!


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 12:58 am

So this whole school year I've liked this guy. I've been taking time to build a realllly strong relationship with him( that's why I haven't told him yet) and I thoughtbhe liked me, friends told me he liked me too.
But Wednesday he asked another girl out. Their personalities don't click, try have maybe 1 class togther, and they rarely talk. I've been really depressed the last two days ( crying all night) because I was about to tell him.
I was thinking he wouldn't ask her because they're complete opposites! (were in 8th grade btw) They shouldn't last log (especially until prom, 2 months away) I think this because they have barely any relationship at all and long lasting couples have had long and good relationships right?
...

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lady gaga


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 12:52 am

in alot of lady gagas songs she goes cherry cherry boom boom what does that mean it's bugging me I got to know

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will it ever go away? [eating disorder plz help!!!]


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 12:50 am

17/f

i have had an eating disoder, it comes and goes since the first time i had it. the 1st time was the worst when i was 15. it came back at the end of last year and its been on and off since then.

when it comes back i start to feel sad all the time and i dnt no why... its like the feels come back when the eating disorder does.

i dnt get it, each time its different like the 1st time i stopped eating for 3 days to get my mum to notice and then when i started eating again i had bulimia, 2nd time i was so stressed i just stopped eating for like 2 weeks then i had bulimia again and this time it started from me bindge eating and throwing up. atm im scared to eat and im trying not to, i just dnt trus...

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Ex in the head


Posted Friday February 27 2009, 12:41 am

My ex and I broke up several months ago and it was a messy breakup. We have barely talked since. Now, almost a year later, I have gone through old letters and pictures, and realize I miss him terribly. Our relationship was long and serious, and we had more great times than bad, so it's hard to even justify the breakup. I thought I was over him, but now tears are coming back! Should I just throw all these things away or contact him in any way? I don't know if I should really move on or if something could happen again. (20/F)

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who owns the internet....


Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 11:58 pm

I just wanted to know who "owns" the internet. I want to claim a domain (my name) which no one has bought or uses yet, but every time i look into it through google they say "buy this domain" or "this domain is not taken yet buy it!" who the hell has a monopoly over the internet isn't it supposed to be open territory... seriously it's equivalent to someone owning all of earth..... is there a way around it?? for me to get the website which i believe should be mine since its MY NAME??

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serving alcohol


Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 11:42 pm

ok, i've been a server for two years but the place i have worked doesn't serve alcohol & i just recently turned 18 in september anyway. well, im quitting that job and going to another restaurant which DOES sell alcohol. i applied for several jobs, and got interviewed at one where it was a "scored interview". one of the questions was along the lines of you have a table where a customer has had multiple drinks but reaches for her keys to drive home, what should you do? i answered that i would ask another member of her table if they could drive home or if she'd like to call someone to come get her and drive her home. well i guess i didn't score high enough because i didn't get that job but i got this one instead. i start this wee...

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Are these people making fun of me? What to do in this situation


Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 11:38 pm

Okay, so first in gym class I'm the only freshman in power volleyball, cause typically its a class that only upperclassmen get into, but im one of the few freshman on JV (no freshie team) so i convinced the gym teacher to let me do it. So on the first couple days there was this guy who was acting like a dick to me. like he'd become one of the team captains who picks people, and he'd say he was gonna pick me but never did.. and liked he'd be like motioning for me to come and then i'd start walking and he'd be like "not yet" and then by that point people had already picked like 5 people on their team so the teacher divides the rest.. so he never picked me for 2 days and I'm like.. and the 2nd time I fell for the thing again and like...

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how can you tell if your boyfriend wants to breakup with you?


Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 11:08 pm

im a 16 female. and hes a 17 male. he acts normal but sometimes it seems like hes losing interest. just the other day he told me hes not having 2nd thoughts on us. so im not sure. but this girl txtd me and told me today that he told her last week that we broke up.well he plays around alot. and idont know if that was meant to be a joke. and sometimes he acts like hes going to breakup with me like if i ask him he goes along with it then says hes kidding. please help me! i really dont want him to break up with me. but i dont know what to do. please and thankyou in advance. oh. and if it means anything. weve been together for 2 months... since xmas eve '08

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