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Boy trouble!!!
So this whole school year I've liked this guy. I've been taking time to build a realllly strong relationship with him( that's why I haven't told him yet) and I thoughtbhe liked me, friends told me he liked me too.
But Wednesday he asked another girl out. Their personalities don't click, try have maybe 1 class togther, and they rarely talk. I've been really depressed the last two days ( crying all night) because I was about to tell him.
I was thinking he wouldn't ask her because they're complete opposites! (were in 8th grade btw) They shouldn't last log (especially until prom, 2 months away) I think this because they have barely any relationship at all and long lasting couples have had long and good relationships right?
How do I cope with this? And what are some signs if someone likes you?
(if I got it wrong I just put me in a bad spot; I definately thought he was leading me on.)
Thanks for any help!!!
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he might not have known that you had feelings for him. he might have just htought you guys were really good friends. guys never know these kinds of things. i bet he wasn't trying to intentionally hurt you.
and you can't know how long they're going to last. they might end up liking eachother more than you would expect. that might hurt you but just know he probably didn't mean to do that to you. so he probably still really cares about you. so just know he is a part of your life. but that might also hurt you so if you really can't deal with them being together just back off talking to him and avoid seeing htem together. this way you won't have to cope with it as much.
hope i helped.
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ok well maybe he does like you and you took to long to ask him so hes trying to make you jelous
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the thing is guys often lead girls on without really realizing it. i'm not exactly sure why he would randomely ask this other girl out.. maybe they've been talking for a while and you just weren't aware they were? i dont know the details of your guy's relationship.. but if your sure this thing wont last then just play it by ear, and see what happens. u may be right, and they may only last for a week.. u never know. so hang in there. hope this helps a little..
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