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How do i choose which guy is for me?
This is a long long story/dilemma. So brace yourselves.
Okay, so a while back, I went out with guy A but we broke up. We broke up because of guy B. B and A used to be best friends until they both liked the same girl and B got the girl. That girl wasn't me.
So while be and A were going out, i was still friends with B and that was part of the reason me and A broke up, he was jealous of B and didn't want the same thing to happen again. before, i thought me and B would never happen..but ever since the break up, me and B have been hanging out a lot and i've just felt so......relaxed with him around. him and I are really good friends and just recently, he told me that he had feelings for me. of course, i felt an attraction too and had feelings for B as well..but under the circumstances, i think that wouldn't be a great idea as........it would definitely be uncool to A even though we broke up already and i sorta hate his guts.
also, ever since the break up with A, me and B were best friends and i told him about my new emerging guy stories. guy C was in my class and i liked him a lot.....and B knows that. me and C spent some time together and i found that he's really charming and funny as well........and i can tell that he's starting to be into me as he is now calling and texting me often.
brace yourself, there's another guy.
guy D..a good friend of my girl friend has just started texting me and we have been texting back and forth..he's really cute and funny but i've never actually met him. D seems like a really cool person and i know it's not anything fake as he is a friend of my close girlfriend and i know she would "approve" of him before introducing us.
so, i'm really really in a dilemma.
guy A is totally out of the picture.
guy B is like my best friend. he knows a lot about me and makes me feel happy but if he and i were to date, it would cause a lot of unnecessary drama with guy A
guy C is in one of my classes and we've just begun to get to know eachother and he's very very funny and cute and is into me.
guy D is.....still a little bit of a mystery but the way that he talks.......just hooks me yenno?
so..i'm kinda stuck. help!
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wow, ok this is a tough one.I'd have to say if you can have a little 1-on-1 time with each guy.In my opinion,dating your best friend can go bad.I just got out of a relationship with my best friend.Let's just say he got too attached.Anyway,but pick the guy that you are the most comfortable around,who makes you happiest.
I hope this helps!
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WOW. haha.. well the best i can do for you is tell you about my experience..
k so there are four guys, well one is out of the picture.. k well last i really liked this guy, he had been my best friend for a couple years.. i was really attracted to him..and finally he told me that he really liked me. i was sooooooo happy i could hardly contain myself..
then it was summer, we talked every night.. i was so happy and couldn't wait for school to start. august rolled around, and school was back. i will never forget that first day of school... when i was told by one of my friends that he had a thing with one of my friends.. i wanted to cry, slap, scream at him.. i was so angry and hurt.
long story short he went back and forth between us all year long. i allowed it, and that's my biggest regret. if i was put in that same situation i would tell off the guy and walk away. i deserved more than to be treated like second best.
the whole thing was a MESS. it ruined my year... it really did.
so my advice for you is to be EXTREMELY CAREFUL! these guys have feelings too, and shouldnt be treated like this. think about it this way.. put yourself in their position.. would you like some guy that you really liked, picking between you and your friends? it would hurt :(
right now i dont know if a relationship with any of these guys is a good idea, because it sounds like you dont even know what you want. so give it sometime and dont "pick" any of them.. because you'll leave the other 3, hurt and upset.
and as far as your guy B... i think he's the one out of all of them that truly likes you and isnt just messing with you. my guess is he doesnt mind you calling him just your best friend because he feels closer to you with that title. he feels like he's maybe ahead of the rest. but he really cares about you. so dont hurt him. because then you wont just lose a guy... you'll lose your best friend. i'm talking from experience.. this guy i had, was my best friend... after everything, we dont even talk.. i miss him so much, but there's nothing i can do.
so stay strong, and remember that these guys have feelings too and dont just play with them.
you must be a pretty girl, u got so many guys after you! so good luck, if you need more help just ask ;]
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