Ok so my friend (A) has been my best friend since like 3rd grade but this year she made friends with this new girl (B) A doesn't know it but B has been talking about me behind my back and has been pulling me away from A. A thinks she is the best person ever and they hang out everyday. That used to be me. I miss hanging out with A and we used to have sleepovers and stay up late. We have wayy too many good memories to blow it now but today when we planned for her to come over I asked her about it and she said she was going to B's house. She was supposed to come away with me this weekend to a cheer competition and she said no because she was going to hang out with B. I was crying earlier. A lot of my friends have been doing that and I thought she was different. She is always the one who is nicest and cares the most. Can you help me with what I should do to try to get her to come over and stuff more often and how I should handle it??? Any advice is greatly appreciated.
orangebutterfly answered Friday February 27 2009, 6:32 pm: I know how you feel! you know something you don't drama in your life. maybe try sometimes see if you ask A if she like invited b over sometimes try be b friend.. if that not work out. then if a blowing you off then she not real friend. but you souldn't let it upset you. there alot of poeople out there in your class or school love be your freind. don't relay on her to be there and if she not talking to you or anyhow she probly want to do new stuff with other freinds. maybe you can do same thing. if you meet a freind and see if a come back to you. if not then jsut move on and take care of your self and you better off having freinds that cares and freinds that would indunce u do there freinds. and stand up for you. how ever maybe you try make plans for the weekand and if she blow you off min becouse b then just ingore her for few days. becouse real freinds and true freinds come back. [ orangebutterfly's advice column | Ask orangebutterfly A Question ]
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