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Are these people making fun of me? What to do in this situation
Okay, so first in gym class I'm the only freshman in power volleyball, cause typically its a class that only upperclassmen get into, but im one of the few freshman on JV (no freshie team) so i convinced the gym teacher to let me do it. So on the first couple days there was this guy who was acting like a dick to me. like he'd become one of the team captains who picks people, and he'd say he was gonna pick me but never did.. and liked he'd be like motioning for me to come and then i'd start walking and he'd be like "not yet" and then by that point people had already picked like 5 people on their team so the teacher divides the rest.. so he never picked me for 2 days and I'm like.. and the 2nd time I fell for the thing again and like some other kids chuckled.. is this just cause im one of the 5 girls in this class and im the only freshman? and then like now.. a few weeks later that guy is like saying hi to me in the hallways and stuff and its awkward cause its like.. is he making fun of me? i mean in 6th grade i was gullible so like once i fell for it when some guy was like "i love you" and he was just kidding cause nobody had like done something like that to me before.
once someone does something like this.. i dont trust their true intentions of when they talk to me. i dont want to be made a fool of again like back then so i guess its like my natural reaction to situations like that.. to put a border up. or was he just messing with me and actually wants to be my friend? hes like a sophomore i think but hes pretty popular.. should i just let it go or not trust him cause of that? cause like if i think he just maybe wants to be friends and i act friendly when hes really making fun of me.. i'd hate that. how to tell btw if this isnt enough info?
& another time, actually today, this one girl in my class was like saying she saw this info about me on some site.. like my nicknames.. even ones some of my good friends know. she said she saw it on a website her friend showed her and im like.. what the heck cause she was like it was on a dance or volleyball site and i never posted something like that on a site like that. like today i went looking for where this info could be.. but i cant even find it! when i type my name on google nothing shows up. but she said she wasnt a stalker or anything and i dont think she is but thats just creepy.. and idk if she's making fun of me too sometimes.
ughhhh i honestly wish i could read minds to know peoples true intentions. that would make life so much easier and i'd be able to kid around with certain things easier. like i take certain things seriously and hold grudges a bit and thats annoying but like i said before like i dont want to be made a fool of or something. idkkkk i need help. btw sorry this is mucho long
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I'm like that. It's one of those are they laughing at me or with me kind of things???
Well, your 2nd story with the girl...I don't think she was making fun of you. It was probably just one of those conversation things. Think about it...what exactly is there thats funny about that situation? If it's because your worried she thinks your nicname sounds dumb, well that's just silly. Nicnames are suppose to sound stupid and crazy!
Your 1st story. Well, honestly I can't tell you for sure if that boy is true or not, but I can tell you this. Don't put a guard up in that class. Doing so will make you seem biotchy and the upperclassman will just want to pick on you more. Kid around with them. Say hi and smile when you see them. Since he's already "lied" twice now about picking you for his team, next time he tries that, just be like uhh I'm pretty sure I'd rather be on the winning team ;) lol But say it in a kidding way!
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Shouldn't take to much serious. You're young enjoy life, joke alot play alot.. Also why do you care what other people think? There all just a bunch of hooligans Lol. Look be friendly to all till you are completly positive there fucking stabbing you in the back. Teenagers are the worst people. So just take stuff slow, sniff situations out well.
The guy who said hi to you in the hall way and you feel is picking at you (maybe), probable isn't he probable likes you. I'd just be friendly.. Maybe question him away from other people..
The girl who found out something about you, that you have no idea about, just ask her where she saw it and ask for the exact website, get her to write it down or email it to you.. So you can check it out, and find out how perhaps it got there. :x
Don't take stuff to serious, and enjoy life you're young dumb and full of cum.. Jk <3
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