how can you tell if your boyfriend wants to breakup with you?
Question Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 11:08 pm
im a 16 female. and hes a 17 male. he acts normal but sometimes it seems like hes losing interest. just the other day he told me hes not having 2nd thoughts on us. so im not sure. but this girl txtd me and told me today that he told her last week that we broke up.well he plays around alot. and idont know if that was meant to be a joke. and sometimes he acts like hes going to breakup with me like if i ask him he goes along with it then says hes kidding. please help me! i really dont want him to break up with me. but i dont know what to do. please and thankyou in advance. oh. and if it means anything. weve been together for 2 months... since xmas eve '08
The key to a good relationship is COMMUNICATION. Once you lose that, your basically screwed. That's when couples start getting pissed off at each other because emotions build up that weren't let out when they should have been.
You should talk to him. Tell him you really don't like when he kids like that so would he please stop. If he does, good. A 1 out of many more to come obstacles you have already concurred together. If he doesn't, then he's not ready for a relationship and basically what I'm saying is, get rid of him and find someone who IS. [ Andreaaaa's advice column | Ask Andreaaaa A Question ]
JulieP answered Friday February 27 2009, 4:25 pm: if he wants to leave he'll leave. i'm sorry, but i'm just being honest. don't change at all to try to keep him like that other person said. it might prolong the relationship, but if he is planning to break up with you, when he does, it will just hurt all the more.
Sami143 answered Friday February 27 2009, 12:14 pm: Well sometimes they think that two or more girls is better than one and so they will stay with you but have interest in other girls. Im being completly honest here and it sounds like he is just a player but you could try to fix it by talking to him and telling him that you feel like your losing him and you dont like it. So just try to flirt more and that might keep him with you for longer and maybe he will realize what he has and he wont leave you. Hope i helped =] [ Sami143's advice column | Ask Sami143 A Question ]
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