About a month ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We were together for about four months, and it really hurt me when it ended. I was super upset about it, but figured I'd feel better eventually.
Like I said, it's been a month and I'm not feeling any better. I haven't talked to him much (because I want to give him some space), but it's really eating away at me and I feel like I have to do SOMETHING, because I miss my ex boyfriend SO much.
Should I talk to him about it? I was thinking of writing him a note and giving it to him (we have a class together), is that a horrible idea?
Any help is really appreciated =/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Genesis17 answered Friday February 27 2009, 3:23 pm: although the other advice given was good... i disagree. honestly if you sit him down and talk to him, he'll most likely look at it as if you are clingy. and guys dont like clingy. you're doing the right thing in giving him space, that gives his mind some room to wonder if you miss him, wonder if your still sad.. etc. guys dont want to have the girl completely figured out. thats to easy, and it takes the fun away. they like it when you kind of leave them guessing. so for now, act as tho you're ok with things, that you're happy. spend more time with your friends. the key to getting over a relationship is keeping yourself BUSY! and get rid of anything that reminds you of him! hope this helps! [ Genesis17's advice column | Ask Genesis17 A Question ]
kaleighlashley answered Friday February 27 2009, 2:48 pm: It's a hard thing to get over someone you like really alot.
If it's already been a month well I dont know about your situation exactly like all the details like why you guys broke up and stuff but,
If I were you, I would talk to him about it, not in a note but in person. Sit him down and tell him how you feel like speak from your heart.
Hopefully he will know you're sincere and mean it.
I hope i helped a little bit. [ kaleighlashley's advice column | Ask kaleighlashley A Question ]
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