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Broke up with my boyfriend, now what?
Posted Saturday June 2 2012, 5:37 pm
So I broke up with my boyfriend of over 1 1/2 years because he was not paying enough attention to me and we had been arguing a lot lately. I also don't like the way he is so narrow minded. Well I broke up with him over skipe and I could tell he was upset, he argued with me than as well. The he wanted me to come to his family memorial party. I said won't that be akward and he said no, if we were still going to be friends that I needed to come. So I went and afterward he text me yelling about how I ignored him the entire time at the party. I calmed him down by the next day. I didn't talk to him until 4 days had passed and I texted him. He said it was perfect timing because he was on his break at work, there was just some small talk an...
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Two guys like me and I like them both back!
Posted Saturday June 2 2012, 5:17 pm
Hey, umm two guys like me. I've liked them both for a while. Please don't say the second one because I don't really like the first guy after the second one came along; I know and I honestly say I can't remember which one I've like for longer!
Guy #1 Is lovely and we have a few things in common like music and stuff and we talk more than I do with the other one. However, he gets on my nerves sometimes, is very much more outgoing than me and other things I can't really expand on for the thought of being rude. I've known him for 3 years but only started talking to him in the last 6 months. He's sweet (sometimes gets a bit sickly for me ahaa), funny, talkative and a bit attractive. But I'm not sure whether we should just be frien...
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Lost in his love
Posted Saturday June 2 2012, 4:46 am
I'm a 23 yrs old girl, I met someone online, and he was just the way I like.. I liked him & and he was so emotional, romantic, and caring. after a while, I fall in love with him, then I discovered that his real age about (37) and that he's already married and thereis noway for our relation to work. however, I continued with him and we had a cyber relation and met him only once in real.. now, we still talkin' to eachothers on the internet, and I we still like eachothers......... what is the expected future of this relation?
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my boyfriend....
Posted Friday June 1 2012, 3:45 pm
well!almost 1 month back everything was fine between my family and my boyfriend,he often used to come to my place n my parents used to like him lots...but since a month my parents have started disliking him lots due to some misunderstandings that cropped in from nowhere..the major problem being that m 21 and he is just 18....we really love each other and want to marry after few years...though we have not discussed about marriage with our families....we love each other a lot and want to marry in future..plz give me few ideas so dat everythin wud be fine between my bf and parents again
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Has anyone ever been in this situation?
Posted Friday June 1 2012, 1:59 pm
Okay, so when I was almost 17 I lost my virginity to a guy who was 22 at the time, he cheated on me, so I decided to quit trying to be with him, even though I cared for him a lot. We didn't speak to each other for a year. He sent me a message on facebook one day & we have been together for a little over a year now. When we first got back together I was the happiest I had ever been. We have lived together for 9 months, might I add, but the last 3 months things feel really different. I'm 18, almost 19 now, and he is 24. It kind of feels like the tables have turned. Like he's crazy over me now & idk how I feel anymore. I know that I love him with all of my heart & every time we fight and we break up I just can't let him leave &...
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i dont know what to talk about with my boyfriend on the phone
Posted Friday June 1 2012, 1:24 pm
we have been together for 4 years and i love him so much, but i just don't know what to talk about when he calls me. a lot of the time he is ill when he calls and it seems like no matter what i say, he tries to make me look dumb or that i don't love him. also, he always thinks that i am cheating on him and will call me a whore...but i am not cheating on him nor do i talk to any other guys. so please give me some things to talk about with him. i am a 18 year old girl and he is 19.
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how can get attention from my bf
Posted Friday June 1 2012, 7:19 am
Hi.I am 17 yrs old girl.I am from India. I had read that you shouldn't phone your bf more than twice a day as it will make him thinking about me and he'll wonder when i'll call him. I had tried it once but instead he was so angry with me that he didn't speak to me for 2 long days!! what can i do??? please advice me!!! I want attention from him
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Why would he cheat?
Posted Friday June 1 2012, 5:26 am
this is a bit long, but it is some juicy stuff! (I'm 21, almost 22)
So, there's this guy and I used to like him back in high school and maybe a bit before. I've known him for.. 14ish years. we were never really friends.. maybe early on in like 3rd/4th grade. We kind of had a mutual hatred for each other in High school as well. ANYWAYS
So it all started with a FB poke. I poked him, because.. I still consider him the hottest guy I've ever liked. and a few weeks later I was super surprised when he poked me back, whatever. No big deal. Then on april fools day, he said hey text me (and put his number). I didn't it being april fools day. I was convinced it had to be a prank, because to me nothing else made sense. I a...
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I feel like I'm not that happy anymore with him think that it'd be best if we just finished our relationship?
Posted Friday June 1 2012, 12:00 am
So I have worked things out with my boyfriend after a terrible situation we both went through,I wanted so much to sort things out with him once again so we had a second chance,but now that everything seems to be right again,I feel like I'm not that happy anymore with him and just think that it'd be best if we just finished our relationship,help?I just don't know what to do since I know this is not quite normal.
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He's all I can think about!
Posted Thursday May 31 2012, 11:34 pm
I feel so lame for seeking out advice on something like this at the age of 20, but I don't know where else to turn. My family friends have this cousin who I am completely and utterly in love with, and I don't know what to do about it. I don't know if he would ever bother giving me a chance, or if I'm wasting my time because he is so close with my brother that he would never want to screw up their relationship. It's literally to the point where I can't even date anyone else because he's all I think about and I don't want him thinking that I want anyone else. Help!
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A key to his place.
Posted Thursday May 31 2012, 8:16 pm
Chris and I met on May 11th. We met on match.com. Our first date was a movie night at his house. We clicked instantly. We've spent every single day together since then, with the exception of one day that I drove out of state. He lives in a quaint little apartment in a nice part of the state with two cats.
I guess it started with our multiple trips to the beach. We'd go to the beach, part ways to go to our own home, shower, and reconvein. He asked one day why I didn't bring over my shower stuff and shower there. I forgot my shampoo and conditioner there that night.
I told him the next day, I'd come by and pick it up, but he told me not to worry about it. As time went on, he encouraged me to keep more stuff there like snacks, m...
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Crush Rumors
Posted Thursday May 31 2012, 7:24 pm
Well, my crush is one of my good friends. I really think he likes me back, and all of his friends that are my friends think so too. But he had a crush on one of my friends, and he still sort of does. He also jokingly accused me of liking him. I'm afraid it's going to be awkward, what should I do?
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My boyfriend isn't attracted to me anymore!
Posted Thursday May 31 2012, 5:48 pm
I met my boyfriend just over a year ago via a mutual friend, we hit it off straight away and 6 months later we were moving into our own place together.
I've always had awful relationships and made bad choices with my past relationships but he was different, we both wanted the same things, and showed that we loved, respected and cherished eachother.
4 months after we started our relationship he dipped into his depression which he has had for most of his life. When this happened he started rejecting me intimately. His work was stressing me and the fact that I shared an apartment with a stuffy Flatmate, he eventually changed job and we moved Into our own place.... 6 months living together and we still have the no intimacy issue...
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How can l stop caring about a cheating my husband???
Posted Thursday May 31 2012, 5:46 am
Hie, l would just like to know how l can stop caring about my husband. We've been together for 5 years and we have a lovely boy. He is an educator and he flirts with his female students(emails, whatsapp & messages) l am really tired of checking his phone and asking questions all the time. This whole insecurity is making my life miserable. l want to STOP caring about what he does. Am l obsessed?? He has hit on a family member & my friends in the past. Please advice me,l don't know how long l can go on like this.
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What does my ex really want?
Posted Thursday May 31 2012, 3:09 am
Im a female in my 20's with a lot of uncertainty. I was with my ex for 6 years. Our families grew up with each other so we spend many holidays and events together. He was way too jealous which is why we broke upp. I moved to another state with a new boyfriend that did not work out and continued with my life, but always having him in my heart. He began dating his fiance. I then met and married my husband feeling that there was no chance. Well, my husband has been the worst relationship ever. He has lied and cheated on me dirty from the beginning and i didnt find everything out till after we had a child. Now going through a divorce. Every year when i go back home for the holidays, my ex contacts me. From what my family says, his current girl ...
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My past life and my present love
Posted Wednesday May 30 2012, 3:29 pm
Okay so I've seen the answers to a previous question that I asked. in my eyes I think that I am very mature for my age. It's really not a good thing of why, but I've been through more than an average 20 year old has went through. I've been abused and misused over and over agian. When I lost my stepdad it's ike everything got worst. I started having sex with any and every man that wanted to. I let them take advantage of me and kept letting it happen. I met a guy my age and we stayed together for like four months until he thought that i was pregnant then he left me without any last words or anything. I stopped looking for love and stayed to myself. Then in July of 2010 I met my current love. We didnt start dating right away. We just talked al...
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My boyfriend is way older than I
Posted Wednesday May 30 2012, 3:49 am
I am a seventeen year old female and I a 25 year old boyfriend. When we first started dating he didnt ask me my age nor did i ask his. We feel deeply in love and then the age came into play. We've had sex alot and He haseven proposed to me a couple of times. I really really love him. Both our birthdays are in july so i'll be eighteen and he'll be 26. Please tell me what I should do. I don't want anything bad to happen to him because of me. Thanks...
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What to do with the guy I like that likes me back?
Posted Wednesday May 30 2012, 1:44 am
Okay so this year I became really good friends with my friend and we had a class together and all but it was only for the first part of the year. For about 4 whole months we talked a lot on text/chat and the last two months we have talked basically every day from the moment we get back from school until one of us goes to sleep. We have become very good friends and I throughout this whole thing I started to notice that I actually have a thing for him. The problem is that I'm going to college next year and he is staying because he is a year younger.
My friend actually asked him if he had a thing for me and it turns out that he does. She told him to just enjoy the time and have fun since I only have two weeks left.
I am actuall...
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Posted Wednesday May 30 2012, 1:44 am
Hey. So I'm sixteen, female. And this guy is eighteen. So basically, for two years I've been in love with the kid. He's been my best friend since freshman year (his sophomore year) and I never told him how I felt because I didn't want to lose our friendship. So we both dated other people but remained really really close. The only time we had an issue was when he started dating this one girl and he started ignoring me for her. And it really hurt. He realized what he was doing and he apologized. He told me there was no excuse for what he did and that he'd never do it again. This year, my junior year his senior year, we were both single and we started hooking up. And it went on for about six months... I knew it was a bad idea but I thought tha...
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Still love him... even after he cheated on me and moved on?
Posted Wednesday May 30 2012, 1:02 am
19/f. About four months ago my first love and I broke up after he confessed that he cheated on me. We were not together for a very long amount of time, but the feelings I had for him were both very real and very strong. For a few months after that, I wanted absolutely nothing to do with him. A few weeks ago we had a very long chat, and the memories of the great times we had together came back and washed away any bitterness I might have felt towards him. Since then all I can think about is trying to get back together with him when we are both back at school. I just feel so silly. I know he's moved on and I should too, but I also just want to be with him again. What do I do?
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