i dont know what to talk about with my boyfriend on the phone
Question Posted Friday June 1 2012, 1:24 pm
we have been together for 4 years and i love him so much, but i just don't know what to talk about when he calls me. a lot of the time he is ill when he calls and it seems like no matter what i say, he tries to make me look dumb or that i don't love him. also, he always thinks that i am cheating on him and will call me a whore...but i am not cheating on him nor do i talk to any other guys. so please give me some things to talk about with him. i am a 18 year old girl and he is 19.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? melissa123 answered Saturday June 2 2012, 12:37 am: in my opinion if he's is disrespecting you & calling you a whore and accusing you of cheating on him, i would rethink everything about being with him. you should not be treated like that or called that... no girl should. that's not right! talk to him and tell him the truth. tell him something has been bugging you and tell him you guys have dated for 4 years and he's the best thing that came into your life (if that's true) and tell him there is no reason for you to cheat. and if he does accuse you of cheating play along but MAKE SURE you do it in a jokingly matter and laugh, say something like " yeah your right, so i met this one guy named bob, he said he knows you" or whatever you bf name is say yeah i met this one guy and he's "blah blah blah" and name all the things your bf is and say the name of your bf haha and be cute about it or something!
well i hope i helped! good luck. if you have any questions, just message me!
luluboo101 answered Friday June 1 2012, 7:25 pm: Phone calls aren't really that big of a deal. But, since you need some advice, talk about how his day was. Ask how his family is, how he's feeling, ect.. Phone calls don't really need to last more than 15ish minutes or less.. If you guys talk normally in person than nothing should be a problem. Oh, and just explain to him that you're definitely not a whore.. He's probably just scared because you're so gorgeous. <3 [ luluboo101's advice column | Ask luluboo101 A Question ]
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