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I feel like I'm not that happy anymore with him think that it'd be best if we just finished our relationship?
So I have worked things out with my boyfriend after a terrible situation we both went through,I wanted so much to sort things out with him once again so we had a second chance,but now that everything seems to be right again,I feel like I'm not that happy anymore with him and just think that it'd be best if we just finished our relationship,help?I just don't know what to do since I know this is not quite normal.
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Actually it is just quite normal for you to feel that way. You guys had a second chance at love and you just don't feel the same anymore. maybe i would give it another week and if you feel like you really want to end it then tell him frankly.
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I have been in similar situations where I am not happy in a relationship, for whatever reason.
When I wasn't happy and I tried to continue on with the relationship, it didn't get me anywhere. It wasn't until I ended the relationship that I felt such a heavy burden lift off of my shoulders and I felt happy again. It's hard hurting others, but in the end we have to look out for ourselves and make sure that we are happy. It isn't fair to others if we stay in relationships just because we don't want to hurt them. I hope I helped. If you have any questions shoot them to my inbox and I will try my best to help. :)
- Chrissy.
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it's your life! you need to be happy and so does he. if you don't think it's working anymore then talk to him and be completely honest & see what he has to say, if he truly cares wait it out & if it goes back to normal then just say you have to end it because it's not working and if he doesnt care at all dont scream & shout and everything because your going to make everything worse just say something simple like "well i guess this is it" and smile at him hug him and just leave and don't go back. if you do something like that he will think about what he has done but if you just scream and yell and call him names (like most of us girls do haha) he's going to be glad you too are done with and prob think your weird loll
just be honest & see how everything goes and be calm
the best way to get someones attention is to stop giving them yours! :)
well i hope i helped, good luck, hope everything goes well
if you have any questions or anything just message me
melissa! :)
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well, my advice for you would be maybe wait a bit longer to see how you feel (maybe a week or two). If you continue to feel like it isn't really right it is better to break things off then stay in a relationship you aren't happy in. It's not fair to either person in the relationship.
Maybe you could make a list, one side have reasons you may want to stay with him, the other side be reasons you don't want to be with him, or reasons you think it'd be better to just end it. I know this sounds obvious, but it really does help to have things written out to compare side by side. And it gets you to think about the good things and maybe help you realize you want to stay or confirm that you want to leave.
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