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Lost in his love


Question Posted Saturday June 2 2012, 4:46 am

I'm a 23 yrs old girl, I met someone online, and he was just the way I like.. I liked him & and he was so emotional, romantic, and caring. after a while, I fall in love with him, then I discovered that his real age about (37) and that he's already married and thereis noway for our relation to work. however, I continued with him and we had a cyber relation and met him only once in real.. now, we still talkin' to eachothers on the internet, and I we still like eachothers......... what is the expected future of this relation?

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rainbowcherrie answered Thursday June 7 2012, 11:19 am:
This relationship has never been real and he is a liar and a cheat.

If he is prepared to cheat on his wife, then he will cheat on you. He has already lied to you about his age and being married. He does not respect you (nor does he respect his wife, apparently) and you would be better off without him.

I know it's painful and difficult but you need to move on.

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askjane answered Wednesday June 6 2012, 11:48 pm:
honestly, i think there is no future. sorry but don't you think you should stop your relationship with him after all the things you've found out? he's married and it's just not right for you and him to still have a relationship with each other. i'm sure your matured enough to understand. it's really unfair to his wife and to you as well. just try to put yourself in the wifes position. you should end your rel with him before things get messed up, and try to find someone who deserves all the love you will give him, and someone who will love you. ONLY YOU.

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lightoftruth answered Sunday June 3 2012, 4:08 am:
This relationship will not go anywhere. First of all, he lied about his age. Second, he's married. All he is, is a liar..and a cheater. He's not the kind of guy you'd want anyway. Even though you do care about him, you should cut contact. He's not worth it. You deserve someone who won't lie to you at all. Good luck!

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chris12677 answered Sunday June 3 2012, 3:58 am:
He lied to you. That's a big nono. Lying about his age. Pretty much about his life is not good at all. He based whatever you guys had on lies. A relationship founded on lies most of TW time doesn't end up too far.

Once you found out that he was married, you should have cut the whole thing off. It's disrespectful to talk to a married man. Just imagine how hurtful it would be if you were being treated the way he is treating his wife. You don't deserve to be a side chick. You deserve a guy who will put you first and not keep you a secret. Think of all the other girls he could have met just the same way he met you (especially within being a liar t not only you but his own wife).

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Razhie answered Saturday June 2 2012, 7:16 pm:
Nothing. You can't expect anything from a cheater and a liar except more cheating and lying.

He doesn't want a relationship. He didn't go online looking for a relationship. He went online looking for an affair and he found you.

End it before you get hurt and damage your reputation. There is nothing dignified about being the other woman.

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orphans answered Saturday June 2 2012, 4:31 pm:
This will never last.

If there is no trust, a relationship cannot exist.

And cyber relationships are not real relationships.

Look for someone real, who does not lie to you.

Good luck.

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