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What to do with the guy I like that likes me back?
Okay so this year I became really good friends with my friend and we had a class together and all but it was only for the first part of the year. For about 4 whole months we talked a lot on text/chat and the last two months we have talked basically every day from the moment we get back from school until one of us goes to sleep. We have become very good friends and I throughout this whole thing I started to notice that I actually have a thing for him. The problem is that I'm going to college next year and he is staying because he is a year younger.
My friend actually asked him if he had a thing for me and it turns out that he does. She told him to just enjoy the time and have fun since I only have two weeks left.
I am actually so devastated that I am leaving. I think about it all the time and I can't get him off my mind... I never thought it would come to this.
I barely see him at school though, and I see him some weekends if there is an event going on but we don't hangout just the two of us.
But we have many inside jokes and we talk for hours and when we see each other it feels nice.
I leave so soon and I don't know what I should do... should I tell him something? Confess somehow or what? I really wish he could invite me to hangout or something that would be so amazing and perfect. Im dreading the day I have to say goodbye to him. We are going to be thousands of miles away and I have no clue when I will see him again. All I know is that we will be friends for a long time.
I just need help with how to handle this situation and how to get over someone I never went out with.
Thank you :)
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if i were in this situation, i would try to have as much fun with him as possible, but not to much fun ( if that makes sense) you don't want to have so much fun and hang out with him 24/7 because then when he leaves your going to feel even worse. and it's not like your never going to be able to talk to him or see him again! you can always visit or he can visit you and you guys can text and talk on the phone and webcam.
you guys can ALWAYS be friends, but i was in this same situation but the guy was leaving for college and my dad told me not to get to caught up in him because once he leaves im going to miss him like crazy and even if we were to have something big once he left for college he's going to find another girl. no one really waits for anyone. it goes both ways, you can find another guy in college and he can find another girl.
i'm not bringing your hopes down because no one never knows what can happen,!
just think both ways!
have fun though, im not saying don't but dont have to muchh!:)
i hope this helped, if you have any more questions or anything message me! :)
melissa
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I totally get how you feel. Me and this guy had a thing but we never went out. The only difference is that I was 2 years younger and he left for college.
I think you should make the most of what you have left. It couldn't hurt to ask him to hang out right? I mean you'll hardly see him after all this so there won't be any harm in it. I think you should just enjoy what the two of you have right now and make the most of it.
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