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Why is he so adamant about being friends?
Posted Monday September 17 2012, 9:08 pm
My bf and I of 4 years recently broke up cause of my school schedule and every time we make plans it doesn't happen. Well I always told him I could never be his friend cause it makes it impossible to move on cause part of me will always love him. however, lately he's been texting me all the time saying just cause we can't be together doesn't mean he can give me up altogether. I keep telling him I'm not his "buddy" and he always replies with "you don't really have a choice if you don't wanna be friends ignore me " I can't just ignore him though I end up missing him and I do want to talk but I can't just be his friend... What do I do?
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I've only known this guy for two weeks and he's demanding compliments?
Posted Monday September 17 2012, 1:47 pm
So I've been talking to this guy for like 2 weeks off and on. I think we get along really great and have a ton in common and could have possibilities but he's being really insistent on me consistently complimenting him and it's really irritating me.
I can not stand attention whores and he's starting to act like one. He was away for one single day and he left me this message saying he'd miss me with a heart on fb before he left which I didn't respond to since he was going to be away without internet I knew he wouldn't get the message so I just assumed I'd wait until he came back. Well then he came back and acted all hurt that I didn't leave a message but I told him I was going to when he came back and he got upset and said I s...
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staying or leaving
Posted Sunday September 16 2012, 10:04 pm
how do you get over youe boyfroend if you left him from calling you a bith or a hoe everytime he gets upset with you?
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Should i give up?
Posted Sunday September 16 2012, 7:20 pm
I've been talking to a guy for about two months now. He has asked me to hang out 4 times and all four times he has not been able to go. We went to a game together 6 days ago. He had his arm around me and we had a great time. The day before we had made plans to hang out this weekend as well. He didn't call or text me to confirm anything official. The last time we talked is when I texted him and he quickly said he had to go. Ever since the game he has acted differently. Someone told him I liked him and now it's like he has been ignoring me. Should I give up? Maybe I got the wrong idea thinking he liked me or maybe I'm over reacting. What do you think? I don't want to be the first to contact him again because I don't want it to be like before where he said he had to go.
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Im am really confused about my sexuality
Posted Sunday September 16 2012, 5:58 pm
I'm 14, female and is doubting my sexuality. I know this is the age of finding yourself but I have a suspicion that I may be bi. This girl(not putting name) said she liked me, and ive said I have been bi now for 2 years for I have had relationships with girls and boys. but after I said no im straight. But now spending more time with her im growing feelings for her, and when she told me about another girl who was hitting on her I got really annoyed and jealous and now I find myself telling myself im bi then that im straight. I don't know what you do in a lesbian relationship so don't want to go out with her, im scared if the truth I think, doubting myself. Please help its tearing me apart.
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Here's a disappointing story...
Posted Sunday September 16 2012, 5:27 am
Hey everyone! Here's a disappointing story...
I went to a friend's house today. When we got there we were talking in the kitchen for a minute or so then he told Hendricks & I to come to his room and there we watched tv with the two of them. After about 10 minutes his dad left and went to his room to watch tv because we were preoccupied, talking and he was actually watching so he left and so did Sam and then when Sam came back I laid down where he was (on purpose) & then he went over to me an asked if he could borrow our iPod charger so that he could download music onto his iPod and I said sure and then he told me he would charge mine on his deck thing and wanted me to follow him, and then it was only me and him in t...
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ugh. mole: How do you get rid of a mole?
Posted Sunday September 16 2012, 2:19 am
ok, so I have a mole right above my pubic area. it keeps me from wearing bikinis!!! I'm only 13 to i dont want to get it like cut off or anything, and whenever i tell my mom about it shes like, 'its just a birthmark!' (its a mole, but no hair, but its raised, definately a mole.) so is there any place like other than walmart or a pharmacy that i can like get cream or something for it? are there any proven home remedies? (ANY!) thanks I really appreaciate it.
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Is he the one? Girls, would I be stupid to let him go?
Posted Sunday September 16 2012, 2:16 am
First of all I'm 18 but I've always been into guys who were older than me and I've been told I'm very mature for my age by a lot of people.
I went on a dating site a month ago because I chose not to date in high school rather to focus on my grades,competitions and volunteer hours. I talked to quite a few men but none of them really interested me and a lot of them just sounded like they were out to sleep with somebody.
Then I met this guy who seems so perfect for me.
He's 28 but he looks younger than that as he stays physically fit and healthy. I've messaged him a lot and I also have his facebook with his family on it and I've talked to him on the phone for 5 hours so I know he's real.
We...
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I got my way but I want him back.
Posted Saturday September 15 2012, 10:48 pm
Hi. So long story short there was this guy I was in love with last year, and he liked me too. We went to different colleges but hung out whenever possible. in the nicest way possible I think he was a little bipolar he would always randomly get short and cold with me and the next day act like nothing happened. Then one day when everything was going perfect he told me he was busy and would text me later. (we texted every hour we were awake) and then he never did. So i texted him the next day and he explained i did nothing wrong and he was just busy. But he didn't talk to me for a month. I was never so heartbroken so when he did text me he built me up and then stopped talking to me again after a week. He knew what kind of power he had over me ...
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Does he really still have feelings for me or is he just using me to fill the gap until he finds someone else?
Posted Saturday September 15 2012, 10:33 pm
20/f: I broke up with my ex 1.5 years ago (together for 2 years and last few months were long-distance). Since then, there have been times when he wanted to get back together but I didn't, or when I wanted to but he didn't. We tried to stay friends but one of us would eventually be unable to keep that up.
He told me that when I went home, he wanted to see me, but he never contacted me. I didn't contact him either because I assumed that since he brought it up, if he wasn't making plans, he didn't want to see me anymore. The summer passed, and he brought it up only a week before I left, so I didn't have time anymore. I was annoyed that it had taken him so long, so I was pretty cold to him. I told myself that this whole mess wit...
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i feel bad that i cheated but i couldnt control it.what do i do?
Posted Saturday September 15 2012, 5:34 pm
i have a bf,i like him especialy before..he cheated on me once we broke up and came back together.we went on and mean whle i was developin a crush on a guy i study with.it came stronger as i realised he likes me too.lately my bf has not been like bfore,doesn text me often,we dont talk much and the othr guy txts me al the time we talk.and yesterday we kissed and had a wild rmance and he wantd to have sex but i refused.i feel bad that i cheated but i couldnt control it.what do i do?i told the guy to stay away frm me but he cant.pls advice
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Sex: Why is my girlfriend delaying sex?
Posted Saturday September 15 2012, 4:50 pm
My girlfriend delays when we must have sex. What might be the cause of procrastination? And our relationship is doing well
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Girl likes girl
Posted Saturday September 15 2012, 4:45 pm
There's this girl who I like (im a girl too) and I know she's bi curious as am I. Thing is we both have boyfriends and she doesn't know I'm interested. Or even if she thinks the same. I don't know where to start. Help?
17/f
My boyfriend knows I'm bi-curious
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Why do people pretend it's a good thing to have never been kissed?
Posted Saturday September 15 2012, 3:53 am
it really sucks to see your friends act lovey dovey with their mutual crushes/boyfriends when the furthest your love life has ever gotten is just having crushes (that you don't know are returned). it's just confusing because I don't think it's a fault on my looks.. there's nothing I'd change about my appearance. people with far less looks have been on dates and all that, and I get complimented pretty regularly. not being conceited or anything, just being honest, cause normally when you say you've never been kissed at like 18 you'd think it's cause they're not good looking or something. It just makes me insecure because I really don't know what to think.. I've never seriously been asked out and its not that I'm not friendly or anything, eith...
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Is he a player or a lover (kinda long sorry)
Posted Friday September 14 2012, 10:16 pm
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(im a girl and Im 13. My boyfriends 14)
So Im dating this guy and he dumped his ex for me. Which is kinda cute yet kinda mean and scary. So its only been one day weve been dating and I want to trust him. His ex keeps telling me (and a whole lot of people) oh dont date him he's a player and he dumped ____ for me and dumped me for you and now who will be next? and all this non sence. But, I have only known him for 2 weeks. He said I was cute the first day we met while he was dting his ex and I said arnt you dating ____ and he said yes but, its not cheating. Im just calling you cute. and we passed notes all the time and payed 21 questions or would you rather. He said I seemed like a really nice pers...
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I like him and his best friend? :$ (sorry for the length)
Posted Friday September 14 2012, 8:30 pm
Ok so I am 14/f and Ive recently started liking this guy named Sam. He is a year younger than me (13). I talked to him on facebook throughout the summer and Ive come to really like him and I'd call him my friend. He acts different with me, a good different. He is really weird at school but he is super cute and nice and funny. We kinda flirted throughout the summer and I found out a few weeks ago that my best friend lives next to him! I told him a liked him the last week of august before I went to my cottage for a week. He told me he liked me too and I was happy. I came back from my cottage a week later and tried to message him on facebook or text him but he next replied. School came along and he still wouldnt talk to me. I asked my friend a...
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PROM PROBLEMS: How do I tell my twin sister that the guy she is counting on to ask her... isn't going to?
Posted Friday September 14 2012, 7:24 am
My twin sister and I are very good friends with this boy Sam.
I am actually very close with him, and introduced them. I thought they liked each other more than friends, and she was very happy.
Prom is coming up. She thought maybe he would ask her. I told her he DENFITELY would. i thought they had hit it off...
anyway, I got her hopes high.
and yesterday I talked to him, he totatllyyy doesn't see her like that, and said he FOR SURE is not asking her.
He didn't mean this meanly, i don't want him to come off like adick. but my twin is counting on him to ask her...and he isn't going to.
How do i tell her this??
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wt should i do right now. pls advice me. (I cheated on my boyfriend, people recorded it and played it for everyone in school)
Posted Friday September 14 2012, 5:28 am
I feel lyk i m d wrst creature in dwrld.. He loves me so mch... Even after i ve cheated him. I am 19 and female...frm india.. I done sex talk with a boy who i ve nt seen even.. He bcame frnd of mine by one who i thought as my bst frnd as well as a well wisher.. I was true to thm.. I blievd them and even said abt sex hpnd btwn me and my boyfnd.. Bt those mthrfuckrs wr cheatng me they hav rcrded evrytng wtevr i ve tlkd wit thm. And even they wr sayng me to do breakup with mybf.. Bt cz of sm gudness i came to knw tht thy r cheatng me. And stpd tlkng wit thm.. I was hpy wit 1 who loves me thn ths tot wrld. Bt thy wantd to mak me feel sham in frnt of evry1. And thy said and shwn all my talks wit thm to my bf in frnt of the whole clas wen i was a...
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I told that guy that i like him but he doesn't like me how to get him ..?
Posted Friday September 14 2012, 3:39 am
I told that guy that i like him but he like me only as a friend he is friendly with me but how to get him in my life i really like him a lot I am from India and my age is 18
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I keep doing 'bad things'.
Posted Thursday September 13 2012, 6:33 am
I'm a sixteen year old girl and have been sexting a guy for seven months. I have known him since I was eleven and have had strong feelings for him almost as long.
We sext a couple of times each month and at the time I enjoy it. A lot. However, not long after I regret it because I know that he only sees me as the girl he sexts, and as nothing more or less. I know I'm the only one he's been sexting but I don't want to be used for this anymore, though I can't seem to stop myslef from doing it.
My friends are disappointed in me because of this as they know of the upset this boy has caused me in the past. I know I shouldn't continue to sext him but like I said, in the moment I like it. I'm not even sure why I like it, I assume it'...
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