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I got my way but I want him back.
Hi. So long story short there was this guy I was in love with last year, and he liked me too. We went to different colleges but hung out whenever possible. in the nicest way possible I think he was a little bipolar he would always randomly get short and cold with me and the next day act like nothing happened. Then one day when everything was going perfect he told me he was busy and would text me later. (we texted every hour we were awake) and then he never did. So i texted him the next day and he explained i did nothing wrong and he was just busy. But he didn't talk to me for a month. I was never so heartbroken so when he did text me he built me up and then stopped talking to me again after a week. He knew what kind of power he had over me and took advantage. He has the biggest ego which was really aggravating. I decided not to text him on his birthday to show him i don't care anymore (when i still really do) so he texted me and was being so not like himself. He was being really perverted and asked me if i touched myself if he could get a nudie. So i told him off once and for all saying he meant a lot to me and this conversation proved it was never mutual. He never responded and hasn't talked to me in 4 months. I know i should get over him but i want him back more than ever. Im so tempted to contact him. any opinions on the situation?
thanks so much for the advice and help in advance (:
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It sounds like maybe college has changed him a little. The two of you have grown apart. If he asked you for a naked picture, he's probably become that kind of person. He's not just asking you, it's who he's become. A guy doesn't just ask one girl for a naked picture, they ask pretty much all the girls that they think they can without getting into serious trouble. You know that the right thing to do here is to cut him out of your life as you have been doing. Do not fall for the temptation to contact him. You will get over him in time. It's dangerous for you to talk to him until you get over him. He could hurt you more or worse, you could end up in some sort of already-damaged relationship with him. He's not the guy for you and you know it. You've just got some lingering feelings for the guy that he used to be, the guy that you think he could be, or the guy that you thought he was. He is none of those. Just let it go. You know in your heart that that's what you need to do. Good luck. You'll find someone better, really, you will. :)
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