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Is it weird that I'm usually only attracted to guys outside my ethnicity?
Posted Friday November 9 2012, 3:10 pm
I'm black, and for some reason most of the guys I crush on end up being white. I've grown up in diverse areas, but with mainly white people and asians. My family is African, and most of the other black people I've known growing up have been either extended family or family friends, so none of the guys would be seen as potential romantic interests. I did like one guy in elementary school, but he ended up switching schools. And someone like Jimi Hendrix attracts me too, cause I'm into "underground" music and he just seemed to be with that whole mentality, too. I've been attracted to a few black guys I've seen at concerts, too, but unfortunately I only see those kinds of guys at concerts, and then I'd be too afraid to approach them u...
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If my dad is having an affair... should I tell my mom? Advice please!!
Posted Friday November 9 2012, 1:47 pm
I have recently been told by my 13 yr old sister that my dad is having an affair, she knew this because she read a conversation on skype with a woman and I read that conversation myself yesterday and from what I read he is having an affair but I don't know whether i should tell my step-mum as i fear she wont believe me and I feel I may create more problems. I am constantly thinking about it as I am always around my step-mum or my dad and I don't know what to do. My friends think I should tell my dad I know and tell him to stop or ill tell her but i dont think that is right, I need some serious advice, please help!
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Posted Friday November 9 2012, 11:57 am
last year in grade 6 a guy named shane asked me out at after care where we were by the junior side he went on his knees and asked me out i said no because i would have to tell my parents and one of them would have to come with but i like him so much
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Ex Boyfriend: I am helping my ex cheat on his new girlfriend...
Posted Friday November 9 2012, 10:34 am
Me and my Ex have been broken up for a month or two. He has a new girlfriend and they have been dating for like a month now. When We all are at the same place he pays no attention to me. Like this one time at a football game he was up in the bleachers and I looked up and smiled, he smiled back. His Gf wasn't with him so he did it back. He wants me to do stuff with him. We've already done other stuff while they're dating. I don't want to tell her but I would hate to be in her place and be cheated on. What do I do? Age 13, 8th Grade.
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25/F is it a coincidence or something more?
Posted Friday November 9 2012, 2:50 am
So I reached out to my ex,we've been broken up since july 2011-she dumped me,just to say what's up and surprisingly we have been talking/texting everyday now going on 2 weeks. But it seems like everytime I tell her something sweet I.e. I still love you,I remembered it because its about you,or that's something about you that I fell for, etc..there is a noticeable halt in her response. Like I won't hear from her for hours and when she does respond its something completely different than where we left off. Is it a coincidence she gets busy/distracted when I happen to say these things or am I making her uncomfortable or is there some underlying thought that she may have the same feelings and just doesn't know how to respond??
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Did i make a mistake by having sex with my boyfriend?
Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 9:48 pm
Okay so im 15 and i went over to my boyfriend's house (of about 5 months) and we started making out and his parents werent home and so he took my shirt off which is normal, and then he took my bra off, also normal (for us) and then he unzipped his pants and i sucked his dick and then he fingered me then he took his shirt off and things got realy heated and long story short we ended up having sex and im not sure how i feel about. I mean he seemed to enjoy it, but it hurt me. He's a good guy and we are still together (2 weeks later) i haven't seen him yet, but we've been texting and he wants to "see me" meaning sleep with me again this weekend and i think i want to, i just don't know if i should. Did i make a mistake??
P.S. he is 16 and was also a virgin before this
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He lacks the drive to work
Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 8:00 pm
My boyfriend Brian and I have dated for a year now. Everything in the realationship is great and everything but there's one thing that my parents and myself worry about: the drive to work. We worked at the same supermarket for a month then he quit because he said that he felt stressed there. U wasn't going to argue with him if he felt that way so he quit. But I worried that in the future if and when we take a further step into the.relationship if he's going.to still lack that drive to work. I love him, he's such a sweet guy, romantic respectful everything. And he tells me he wants to work but when he applies no one ever calls him.
What should I do??
I don't plan on breaking up with him...
Help
17/f 18/m
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Why's he still staring and trying to be cool?
Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 5:22 pm
okay so theres this guy who i'll call Popcorn who i used to talk to for five months this past year but then after i told him how i felt he said he didn't like me and liked some other girl. and so then we stop talking but he always acted interested and flirted but we never met in person.
and now the school year restarted and so every time i see Popcorn or get close i start to shake really bad. (why's that?)and now his friend Tire set me up with one of his friends Van and we've hit it off.
but then again Popcorn tends to stares at me whenever he sees me. like in the hallways passing by me and anywhere else. and then so today i was in my cafeteria because i didn't have my teacher in school. so i was in the cafeteria and t...
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Hypocrital boyfriend
Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 6:42 am
I'm not sure what to do. I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for over 3 years. We've had our fair share of problems in the past. But the thing I need help on now is he has always been jealous and hypocritical about so much and right now he's currently living in my house with my family because he needed help with things. Over the summer we werent dating. We both expirienced with other people. One girl in particular he had a thing with was very obsessive and begged for him back when we got back together. Now they are friends and yes, it bugs me. But she offerred him a job with her at a small store in the mall. And he accepted it. Right when he good me this I was not happy. I told him he would hate it if I did this to him. But he just doe...
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I miss hikm. A lot more than I thought I did...
Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 12:41 am
F/15
I know some of you might think i'm a little young, but there's this boy who I miss terribly. Him and I broke up about 2 weeks ago I think. We almost dated for a month and I know what you're thinking but we have known each other for a while and we have dated before. Anywhore he broke up with me because I was jealous of one of his friends who is a girl and she would always have her hands on him, she was always either messing with him or hitting him and obviously I didn't like it. One day i confronted him about it and told him I didn't like it. He told me that if I didn't like it then it wouldn't happen again. I said okay and just kept an eye on him. Well she was still messing with him all the time, but I just started to let it g...
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I think my boyfriend is loosing interest in me.
Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 3:09 pm
A few months ago I caught my boyfriend talking to many (like 50) girls through his facebook, email etc. He was flirting. Saying he is single (we have been together for over a year) asking for their number, talking sexually to them to hook up. When I confronted him all he could tell me was he doesnt know why he did what he did and he said it would stop. I decided to give him a chance. See if I could trust him again but ever since he has not been the same. He is more on edge, secretive. He doesnt hug or kiss me ever anymore and he used to have trouble keeping his hands off of me. He used to want sex everyday now we are lucky if it is once a week and the last few times I have had to initiate because he seems to have no interest. He always has ...
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how can I make a girl friend
Posted Tuesday November 6 2012, 6:23 pm
Hi everyone, im 20 years old guy, I was pretty busy with my life minding my own business and I never had a girl friend. I,m a good nice guy, help others and good friend but never made a girl friend. Now I feel alone and need support but it seems to me that no girl likes me in that sense. I feel they don,t want me to be their boy friend. I,m really isolated how can I make a girl friend ant suggestion and please don,t advice to use dating sites they are useless.
I want a real girl in my life.
Thanks.
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HELPPP! what should i do about my relationship with this guy?!
Posted Tuesday November 6 2012, 2:34 pm
15/f and hes 15/f we've known each other since elemenatary school but we never i think had a class together or in middle school never really had classes together that we even talked in or hungout in the same crowds. but now that im a freshamn the classes are kinda divided into really smart, average, and below average. so we are both in the average classes and we have like every class together and talk in most of them. he got my number and we started talking(texting) about a month ago and we got along really really well if felt like we were really good friends for a long time. we are good friends i think of him almost like a brother to me becasue we can just talk about anyhting and everything and were just really open with eachother, i mean ...
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Do I have a right to be mad?
Posted Tuesday November 6 2012, 11:41 am
So I was bored one day and I know this is immature and lying but me and my friend made up this screen name and instant messaged my boyfriend. Who is 5 years older, (20,25). He is very opened to talk to anyone so I brought me up. I was completely devastated and crushed when I read the things he had to say about me. He said that I was obsessed with him and liked him a lot more than he liked me. He wasnt sure about us because we had nothing in common when he always tells me when we talk he loves how we don't because we still work. He said that I am constantly looking to talk and he hates it. When he breaks up with me i am going to be devastated and he doesn't know how to do it. I told him a lot of personal stuff thats happened and he mocked me...
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Boyfriend Issues: He watches porn which makes me sad and angry.
Posted Tuesday November 6 2012, 11:06 am
My boyfriend keeps telling me that he is masturbating and this bothers me. We are having a long distance relationship and its a 2 year relationship. We've met several times over the summer vacations but when he tells me he is masturbating I get saddened and angry. He knows that I get mad but he doesn't do anything. He also watches porn which makes me sad and angry. He knows how I feel but yet he continues.
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Should I ask him out.
Posted Monday November 5 2012, 11:09 pm
So about a year ago I asked out this guy that I worked with, at the time I was 20 and he was 26. He flirted with me all the time at work so i thought he might have liked me too. So I told him I liked him and asked him if he wanted to go out sometime, but he said no.
I asked him why and he said that he thought I was to young for him. I'm not sure if that was the only reason but that's what he told me.
My friend that worked with us talked to him about it a couple times. The first time she told him I liked him and he said He knew but he thinks I'm to young. Then probably like 6 months after that they talked again. She told him I still liked him, and he said to her I know, I probably should have said yes.
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Religious or Cultural beliefs?
Posted Monday November 5 2012, 12:01 pm
I'm looking for someone to give me a little insight on a situation regarding my best friend. She is a Caucasian female who was raised Christian in the United States but decided to convert to Islam due to her strong beliefs in the religion. She met a Muslim man from Pakistan and they began falling in love with each other. However, his family would never approve of their relationship and would not want him to marry her even though she did convert before meeting him. Is this more of a cultural belief than a religious one? Does it have to do with race? She is very heartbroken about this and I don't know what advice to give her. Thank you.
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I say I Love You already...
Posted Monday November 5 2012, 1:42 am
I'm 11, and I already say I love you to my boyfriend.
We haven't kissed, and we've been close friends for a year before we started dating. We've been dating a month now, and we say 'I love you.' all the time.
Is that bad?
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To grovel or not to grovel when you may have said something hurtful
Posted Sunday November 4 2012, 9:01 pm
it seems like every 3 to 4 months he gets pissy I cant say anything without him taking it out of context and then flipping things around it seems as if he is bipolar.when he does get upset he goes a week without talking to me almost as if he is waiting for me to grovel to him and when I give him a couple of hours then grovel to him he is better but then I feel upset cause Im sure I did nothing to hurt his feelings he sort of makes me feel like i am crazy. So the question that I have is when he tells me to leave him alone or calls me a dumb bitch just so I can cry do I just stay quite and distant myself untill he comes around or do I wait awhile then go grovel to him for something I am not even sure what I am saying sorry for. Oh and also he...
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my ex boyfriend wants me back and these other 2 guys like me also...
Posted Sunday November 4 2012, 3:00 pm
ok so my ex boyfriend wants me back and these other 2 guys like me which way do i go
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