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I'm 21, pregnant, jobless and not married.
Posted Monday April 1 2013, 7:43 am
I am a 21 year old female. I am 5 months pregnant. I was dating my boyfriend only 4 months when I got pregnant, and it was a month after he invited me to live in his apartment. He kicked me out at 3 months pregnant. I was sleeping on the street in February. I had to sleep in parking garages and eventually my dad sent me some money because he feels bad for me, so I now rent a room in an aquaintence's apartment. My family lives 3,000 miles away in New York, my ex boyfriend lives in Tijuana and is a Mexican National. I am in San Diego and I am an American citizen. He is not going to marry me, he won't tell me he loves me anymore, and we only talk online. He always says he's too busy to see me, yet once a week or so, he invites me over to his a...
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Am i being a good girlfriend?
Posted Sunday March 31 2013, 5:16 pm
I'm this really great long distant relationship. its almost like we're not even apart.
But i still have feelings for my ex. Iv had them for three years now and i cant seem to quit get over him. i told him the truth and he said it was alright that i still had feelings for him. that he just wants be to be happy. but i still cant help having feelings for my ex. i honestly dont know what to do.
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i asked a question about, 2 days ago about weather i should be sexually active... how do I tell him NO without him dumping me?
Posted Sunday March 31 2013, 3:49 pm
i asked a question about, 2 days ago about weather i should be sexually active...i have to come to realize that i shouldn't, but theirs one thing. we have been together for 5 months as of Thursday. But, I'm only 13 and hes only 14, and wants to have sex. I've told him multiple times that i don't want to but he continuously talks about it. And he seems to get irritated when i say no. i don't want to break up with him, nor do i want him to break up with me...how do i tell him no so that he finally stops talking about it, without getting irritated? HELP!
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I need advice: I feel like I am the only one putting effort into our relationship.
Posted Sunday March 31 2013, 4:14 am
I have been dating this girl for a good 4 days but before we started dating she would hug on me and all that good stuff and now she does not and she would text me every day and now she does not sometimes i wont hear from her all day if i text her she wont text back some times and its like she is not even putting an effort into or relationship and there will be opportunities for us to see each other but she rarely takes it and just the way she talks and even texts me sounds well here is just one example. the other day we went on a double date and latter that night i sent her a text.
me: i enjoyed spending time with you tonight and i hope we get to be together more
her: i enjoyed it to. we had fun. i wish to hang out more to. go...
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i am 17 my boyfriend is 22 do u feel it is ok
Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 11:07 pm
Hi i am 17 my boyfriend is 22 do u feel it is ok but we start talking when i was at the age of 14 an he was 19
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He won't talk to me
Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 10:52 pm
13/f
My boyfriend and I haven't talked for the past week.. I tried texting him but he won't reply.. I can't meet up with him or anything like that bc I'm not allowed to date..but my friend said hat he was thinking about breaking up with me but then he said he loved me to much to let me go.. and I really like him. And I don't know what to do and I don't want to mess things up with him.. We have been dating for a month
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he now wants to become "sexually active."
Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 10:24 pm
HI,i'm a 13/f and my boyfriend is a 14/m. we have been dating for 5 months...but he now wants to become "sexually active." i do as well but, i dont know how. like idk what to do. some one please help so i dont embarrass myself!
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help!
Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 9:07 pm
Soo...im 13, and my boyfriend is 14. We have been dating.for 5 months, and he wants to now become 'sexually active'. I do too its just that i know its not right. And its not him...its my body. I would love to become active with him...but, idk what to do during it. Help?!??
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i hooked up with someone and now idk about anything
Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 6:09 pm
15/f two nights ago i hooked up (made out) with an older guy he was my first kiss/hook up and i was wasted really bad to the point where i couldn't walk straight but i hooked up with him and it was fine and now there was a lot of people there and my friends know about it and when we go back to school on monday i dont want it to be awkward between me and this guy. like i have never talked to him before at all but we knew of each other and then it just happened but he texted me and asked me to hangout again and i said i couldnt and said i just want it to be one night thing. but if i see him again i dont want it to be awkward how do i make it not awkward? thankyouu
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I like a shy guy and he knows it.
Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 1:11 pm
I am in need for advice. I like this guy that i go to school with. I guess he knows that I do. We have talked a couple times. Ever since he found out about me liking him he hasnt talked to to me. Its as if he was avoiding me. Everyone says that he is this shy guy and that he is probably just scared to talk to me because I am very attractive and intimidating to talk to. He has told people that he just doesnt know how to talk to me and that hes nervous. I have caught him getting quick glances of me and doing lots of cute and stupid things around me. Just recently i asked for his number. I texted him once and it took him hours to text back. People have told me that he does do that a lot. How can I get him to be more comfortable around me witho...
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is it cheating if...
Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 1:00 pm
A little background info, met my current boyfriend in September. Dated from then and made it official in November. During the dating time we both said we weren't seeing/talking to anyone else. During this time he went on a trip out of state and had sex with one of his best girl friends. The night he got back, we had sex and he asked me out officially. I was unaware of the fact he slept with his girl friend I actually just found out last night from a mutual friend. Not to mention he has slept with 2 other girl friends. All these girls are still around and they all hang out regularly. I feel so gross, I know we were not officially together when he slept with them but the one on the trip bothers me since we got together the day he was back fro...
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End it or risk it?
Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 11:10 am
I've been dating a guy long distance for over a year. He wants me to stay with him for awhile so we can work on our relationship. He doesn't want to do long distance anymore so if I don't come, he's going to break up with me. However, I have bills to pay and feel like it would be too difficult to. He said he can help me out with things until I find a job. But he's always saying how broke he is. And I don't know if he would even be able to really help me. I try talking to him about it, but he just says not to worry. Advice?
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I get extremely nervous around my crushes
Posted Friday March 29 2013, 3:41 pm
So I get extremely nervous around my crushes. Always have and it gets REALLY bad the more I like them. Theres this one guy that I used to like that just passing them in the hallways Id get all hot and nervous and couldnt talk right. I know its normal to get nervous but it just becomes so unbearable that I can't even talk or look them in the eye or I just avoid them so I dont have to deal with feeling that way. And I hate it so much and I dont want that I wanna be able to look them in the eye and have good convos w/ them and not feel incredibly hot and stupid and ugly and that I dont have to feel like the only way I can kiss someone is if im drunk or something idfk. Just please help, how can I be normal and do things other ppl can without fe...
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Am I a slut? :(
Posted Friday March 29 2013, 3:26 pm
I recently broke up with this guy, who ignored me and never spent any time with me. we went out for 4 months, we only kissed that's all.
But now his best friend really likes me and I reallylike him, I always did but I thought he hated me.
The problem is, the best friend guy has an older brother, who I kissed 7 months ago at a party, like it was only silly and a joke kinda, but still..
I'm really reluctant coz of this, but would it be super inappropriate if we went out? I just don't want everyone to tease me or hate me if its slutty
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should i break up with him ^.^
Posted Friday March 29 2013, 2:47 pm
Hi im 14.. and confused like crazy. Ive been dating my bf for 6 months now and i heard that he kissed some other girl and was being unfaithful to me. He tells me how beautiful i am and that he really likes me and nice things like that. Can you believe he doesnt even kiss me no more!!! Its been like 3 months now. We hangout with each other alot but i dont think i trust him now more. Please help.. thanks
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i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15 and i'm really want to have sex with him..
Posted Friday March 29 2013, 2:14 pm
i realy lovemy boyfriend and he loves me more than i do.i really want to let him take my virginity becase hes the one i love.he never ask me for sex.but i really want to do it with him.hes gonna use a condom and he always tell me that he wants me to be his baby mother and his wife.i want to get pregnant for him because hes always there for me.we've been togeter for 7 months now,if i get pregnant i know he will be there for me and the baby no matter what....anyways i really want an good advice what shoulhd i do.nd i'm from
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I have no idea whats going on in his mind, boys feel free to answer.
Posted Thursday March 28 2013, 9:08 pm
So i am 17 and a Junior in high school. I never really have had an official boyfriend because i am so picky. I have known this guy for 4 years and he is a really close friend, just this year I started to develop feelings for him he says he has had a "crush" on me since freshman year. He is very physical, he is always wanting to do more and more but i always say no because we aren't dating, but he lacks emotion BECAUSE he is also talking to this freshman in college which he is obsessed with but she pretty much plays him. Just yesterday i was getting to just end whatever we have but he started being really sweet and i told him he needs to choose, he said he didn't know who he would choose then he was like "you know i love you r...
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HELP!!!!!we arn`t dating but we r touching and showing each other parts of our body
Posted Thursday March 28 2013, 8:18 pm
Hello I`m 13 years old and there is this guy(he is 14) and we really have a connection...we arn`t dating but we r touching and showing each other parts of our body...well i grabb him alot and he grabs me...we are at the fingering stage and before he fingers me i want to give him a boneur...I`ve made feel well a llil horny but i want to give him a bunour help me
ohh and please dont say nything about our age evn tho we have talked about having sex we are smart enough not to do it with out protection and we really like each other thanks a million:)))!
from:Ready4LoveButScared
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stay with the man that i made a life with or leave with the man i love
Posted Thursday March 28 2013, 1:47 pm
I have a baby and with this man and once was in love and I just don't feel anything when he kisses me or when we talk but I do care for him we was going to get married but it kept getting cancelled we don't fight really but heres the thing this guy I have known for years we got together before I got with who I'm with now and we really had something crazy we felt like it could have been love at first sight but then he had to go away for 3 years and we just started talking again and all the feelings came back that fast and I let the one I'm with know everything and he said he will change and the other one won't give up its like a Bella Edward Jacob thing lol should I stay and try to fall back in love with the man I made a family with or do I ...
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I feel like he wants "Space" but he doesn't agree?
Posted Thursday March 28 2013, 1:14 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a year now, I've been having car troubles so I do not have a car at the moment. We're both in college and I commute to campus when I had a car,but now since he lives near campus and usually bus to classes I've been staying with him. He also does not have a car. So I've been staying at his place-eating, sleeping, showering, studying etc.
Lately I've been feeling like he wants space because he always come home late..late..later. At the moment he isn't back yet because he wanted to watch one of his frat bros set up his computer. I feel like every time I bring up the fact that I think he wants space, he somehow turns it around and then I end up feeling bad, mad and then we go for a coup...
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