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Am I a slut? :(
I recently broke up with this guy, who ignored me and never spent any time with me. we went out for 4 months, we only kissed that's all.
But now his best friend really likes me and I reallylike him, I always did but I thought he hated me.
The problem is, the best friend guy has an older brother, who I kissed 7 months ago at a party, like it was only silly and a joke kinda, but still..
I'm really reluctant coz of this, but would it be super inappropriate if we went out? I just don't want everyone to tease me or hate me if its slutty
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If you really like him, it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks, you need to do what YOU want. It seems from how you described the previous relationship that it wasn't one in which he deseved your time anyway, so I don't think it would be unacceptable. If you are still friends with him however, it may be viewed as disrespectful towards him. As long as it doesn't bother his friend either I think you should just do what will make you happy :)
And to reply to your title "am I a slut?" absolutly not. My definition of a slut is definitely not anything you have stated above, and is also not even a person who has sex with a lot of people. In my opinion, that is just their life choice. What makes someone a slut/whore in my eyes is when they are a) cheating on their significant other with whomever they are hooking up with or b) engaging in any type of sexual act with someone just for their benefit (such as a girl going to visit a guy to give him a blow job and then leave, with no intention on getting anything in return.)
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It wouldn't make you a slut. If people call you a slut because you kissed his older brother 7 months ago and it was a joke then they don't exactly know what the definition of a slut is.
I don't see it as inappropriate either. It's not like you dated his older brother. It was a kiss that was a joke.
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