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can kissing and fingering causes late periods
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No it can not cause late periods. The only reason your period should come late is from pregnancy which is only possible through sexual intercourse, or any other activity where sperm comes in direct contact with the vagina. If this did not happen you have nothing to worry about. Your period is only late because you had a change in body weight, you are stressed out, or you just have an irregular period. If you have just recently started your period, it will naturally be irregular for probably at least 6 months.
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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
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Do you know this guy? If you have his information you can turn him into the police if he does do anything with your picture. Of course you don't want to wait until it gets to that point, but I'm not sure if the law can do anything about it unless he has actually posted it. Either way, I'd tell him that what he is doing is not only manipulative and disgusting but extremely illegal (at least I know it is in the US) and tell him that you will turn him in if he posts your picture anywhere. This may convince him not to do anything with the picture because he wouldn't be sure if you'd do it. If he does post anything anywhere be sure to contact the police though and give them whatever info you have on him and where your pictures are posted if you know. That way they can prosecute him and get the pictures taken down.
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I'm a lesbian, and i'm always getting used by my straight friend. She is always dirty texting me, and touching herself when she's talking to me, but she says that only i turn her on and she wouldn't date me because she doesn't want to be a lesbian. She has a boyfriend, yet she comes to me when it comes to pleasure. I love her as a best friend, maybe more, but only if she accepted. But, it seems like lately, all we've been doing is "making love" and she doesn't even love me.
Is she gay? Why is she using me like this? When she asks me to turn her on, etc, she tell me to "Make love" to her. Does that mean she loves me? because she normally says sex, unless she's talking about me. We've never actually done it, but we talk and touch ourselves. (link)
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Don\'t let anyone use you. I wouldn\'t suggest being a part of anything where the other person is in a relationship because that will only cause drama and people to get hurt and their emotions to get confused. If she actually likes you she will be with you. She can\'t base her sexuality off of whether she \"wants\" to be straight or a lesbian ect. She can be bi, or a little curious about girls, but if she still likes men she isn\'t a lesbian of course. I don\'t think she loves you, but she may want to experiment with you because she seems very unsure of her sexuality and it\'s much easier to do something you aren\'t sure of with someone you trust instead of a random person. She might say make love to differentiate her sex with a female from calling it sex when it\'s with a guy. Might make it easier for her to accept if she isn\'t calling it sex since you\'re a female.
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i am 13 and my boyfriend is 19. he wants to have sex with me ? what should i do ? (link)
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Please don\'t do anything unless you personally are ready. I wouldn\'t recommend you do it for several reasons. The first reason being that he is 19. It scares me a bit that he suggested you have sex with him because he is probably well aware of the law that states that anyone under the age of 17 can not give legal consent to sexual acts or any kind to someone 17 or older. So basically, if he has sex with you, in the eyes of the law it is rape. If your parents ever found out they could sue him and have him charged as a registered sex offender. So on his part, it is stupid to risk it. Not only is it illegal, and disturbing given the huge age difference, but being 13 your body is not physically ready for intercourse. You are still growing and maturing so it is likely sex wouldn\'t feel very good for you, in fact it may hurt a lot more than it should for a first time. Don\'t let him pressure you into doing anything you are uncomfortable with or that you feel your body isn\'t ready for. I also wouldn\'t suggest having sex with him if you haven\'t been together long because this will be a person who you are sharing your first very intimate moment with and you will remember it forever. If he hasn\'t been with you for long and is suggesting you have sex with him, he may be using you for that. If he isn\'t then he wont mind waiting a few years until your body is not only ready, but legal as well.
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my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
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Well I\'m not sure what you mean by \"weird stuff.\" If it\'s beating irregularly you could have arrhythmia which is usually not harmful, especially in someone that is 16. But don\'t rely on any online research to diagnose yourself. See a doctor if you feel like something may be wrong. If nothing else, your doctor can at least clear you from having any issues which will help make you feel better about it. The more you think about it and worry yourself the more your heart will beat irregularly from your nervousness.
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I have a FAFSA loan thing that I have to do for school. Do you know how long I have until the deadline for it to be turned in? (link)
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Every school has a different deadline but generally this should be in well before the end of June for the fall semester.
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I met the guy through some friends, let's call him A. We began talking for a year, but we never met privately. We would always bump in to each other and talk that way, but never meet personally on our own. Through the year of speaking, we stopped for almost 3 months, and in that 3 months, I got myself in to a relationship with a guy who I were close with. A came back in to my life and I decided to give it another go, then we stopped talking again, and I met a guy who I was interested In. Again, A came back and I decided to give it another go. Whilst I was on these dates and in another relationship, I still really cared for A, he was still my first thought of every morning. Anyway, when he came back, we decided to give it a go in to an official relationship, our first 2 months of our relationship was amazing, pure love everywhere, we were great together and then the arguments started again, I began ending us every time we argued, now we have been together for 6 months and this past month has been stressful, we argue over the stupid of things and we haven't been together for almost one month now, but we do text sometimes. I feel like I've pushed him away because of the fact we kept arguing and I kept ending us. He knows he has me wrapped around his finger and I'm guilty of that, no matter how long he goes without calling or texting me, he knows I'll always be there. I want to re kindle our relationship, I want it to be like it was at the start, but I don't know how to. He called last night after 1 week of not talking and he was being cold, he was asking if I'd met anyone yet. I told him I want to move on and I'd appreciate it if he didn't text me, take care and whatever else and all he said was ok, and that was it. Does anyone have any suggestions or personal experience they'd like to share? (link)
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It sounds to me that you really aren't sure what you want. First thing you need to do is decide if he is worth your time and effort or not and stick with it. He can probably tell that nothing is going to last very long after all of these break ups and rekindlings. You said you loved him, if you still do and he is still the person you originally fell in love with I say give it a shot. But please don't give him all the power to control your emotions because then he will likely play with your head. You need to be your own independent person and not let him think you will do whatever he wants, you are doing it because it's what you want. I don't understand why you told him to stop talking to you but if you want a chance at keeping the two of you together you need to also stop with the back and forth confusion. I would assume he's as confused as you are and maybe doesn't want to deal with the drama that seems to inevitably come up. Remember it takes two to argue, and that arguments happen in every relationship so it's just that you'll need to decide if he's the one you're willing to argue for or if he's just wasting your time. A lot of people have that person they are back and forth about but eventually you two need to decide if together is better or worse for you. If you're happiest with him, give it you're all, and if you're not or the least bit interested in someone else then he is not your one true love. You can always just remain friends and if things being you back together in the future after trying with new people for a while then dive back in when you're both older and more experienced with the situation. And if you're friendship dies in the time of you two exploring your options then neither of you were who the other should spend their life with.
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there I remember you answering a question about my daughter visiting her incarcerated mother. I was looking at it again and wondering about this part
""maybe it will remind your mom how it feels when she punishes you. I think if we let this go when she comes home, things might be a little different.
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what did that mean exactly again? Is it just away to normalize things with her? (link)
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Yep, you got it! Just a way to normalize things and put it into prospective for the daughter.
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Hi everyone im young and have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I have never orgasmed before and I really want to for my own benefit and his. How do you move your vagInal muscles? Should you try to tighten up or do I try to completely relax? When he touches my clitorus it tickles more than feels good is that normal? Any suggested positions to try? And his penis is. It the biggest or thickest and doesn't go very deep inside but sometimes it does... But rarely... Does that have an affect? Please any answer to help us out!! I am desperate to orgasm for myself and I want him to think he knows what he's doing (link)
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Well it could be as simple as you trying too hard to climax. If during sex all you are thinking about is getting off and not the pleasure and intimacy then you may be distracting yourself. What I suggest is that you masturbate. Find places you enjoy to be touched and then show him next time he does something to you by moving him/your body to that position. Many girls are unable to climax from penetration and are only able to through clitoral stimulation. This is probably the case for you. If he is pressing too hard, or too directly/quickly on your clitoris it may just make you too sensitive to feel the pleasure. Gentle is key. Climaxing isn't something you can make yourself do, you need the build up and pleasure to have one, but you may just need to relax. Stressing yourself out over it is probably most of the problem. Good luck! :)
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a follow up to this
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=611553
does a parent still have the right to tell their kid what to do even though they went to jail? Since my daughter is thinking that. (link)
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Yes, of course. Especialy if the jail time wasn't for long and didn't add up to the crime committed. At no point should a child be abe to do s they please for any reason. Whoever is his or her guardian is, is in charge of them until they are old enough and mature enughto make deciions on their own.
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This is about my female teacher and I'm a female too.
sometimes i have caught her looking at me.Sometimes when we look at each other, either she looks away quickly or I have to break eye contact.
When she is teaching, 90% of the time she is looking at me.
When she makes a joke, or makes fun of a student in our class (when I say makes fun of someone, I don't mean that she's mean to the student.) she always looks at me after and smiles.
One time our class had to bring something for a shared lunch, and most of the boys forgot to bring something, so the teacher said to them that they had to sing a song, so the boys asked what song, and then the teacher said "girls just wanna have fun" then straight away she looked at me...
I brought cupcakes (I know, cupcakes are for younger people, not people in highschool, but it's the only thing I could bring lol) and the teacher had one, then I saw her take a bit of icing off of her cupcake and lick it off of her finger while looking at me then she smiled...like trying to be sexy?
Sometimes when the bell goes, she stands by the door and when I walk past, our bodies touch. There is plenty of room for her to move but she just stands there and obviously doesn't mind our bodies touching? (I'm too shy to say excuse me...)
One time she stopped talking to someone just to say bye, have a nice weekend to me.
When we were in the school library once, she sat next to me. Out of all of the free tables and chairs she sat next to me.
One time when this boy sat next to me, half way though the lesson she comes over to our table sits down next to the boy, and asks the boy why he's sitting next to me.
I don't know I'm just confused, what do you think? What's your opinion?
And I understand the never have a relationship with a teacher thing. (link)
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Sorry, my answer seems to have not posted, lol.
Hmm I mean those are very subtle things, so I would normally just brush them off. But being that it has happened so many times maybe it is intentional at this point. How old are you both? Do you have feelings for her? It is typically viewed at inappropriate in the school setting for a teacher and student to have any type of flirty relationship.
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15/f im going to the OBGYN becasue i think i hvae a problem with my vagina like a yeast infection or something. but i also want to ask the doctor about birth control and when i can get on it. i told my mom that if i dont want her in the room shes gonna have to leave, and shes like no you cant im staying and then she said i have no rights like she has to stay so like wtf...is the doctor gonna ask me if i want her there or not? or am i gonna have to be like can you get out? im not sexually active but i still want it to be safe but i also have cramps. so should i say i need the pill for cramps or becasue im sexually active? also how am i supposed to pick it up so my mom doesnt know about it or let alone pay for it like this makes no fucking sense and i hvae no money so i guess they would put it under planned parenthood. (link)
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You have every right to go in alone. If she keeps persisting, tell her that the reason you don't want her in the room isn't because you have anything to hide, but that it makes you uncomfortable to have your mother in the room while your vagina in being inspected. If you ask to not have her in the room I'm pretty sure they can't let her in. Its doctor patient confidentiality, and they can't tell her anything you ask them not to. Just tell the truth to the doctor. Tell her/him that you want to get on the pill to control your cramps, and also just to be safe for when you do choose to be sexually active. You will have to get it from a pharmacy though once they prescribe it, so since you can't drive it might be tough to get to the pharmacy each month to get it without mom knowing. A lot of them are covered by insurance, so just ask for a generic brand so that it'll be covered. Good luck girl! :)
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I am 16 nd I have recently started sleeping without a bra. I like the way it feel to sleep without a bra but I'm starting to wonder if it's a good thing or bad. I feel like my boobs are getting saggy and at my age I don't feel like that's a good thing.should I continue to sleep without a bra or start sleeping with a bra again.? (link)
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It is much better for you to not wear a bra to bed. They need some time to be free and not so contained. Wearing a bra to bed will not change how saggy or perky they are, the only thing that determines that is how big they are and genetics. It is much more comfortable to sleep without a bra, and its much better for you too. I've actually heard that sleeping with a bra on can increase your risk for breast cancer. I'm not positive on how accurate that is, but its a good enough reason for me to sleep without one on. :)
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more thing, what did you mean exactly by this statemne"maybe she can grasp that her mom is "learning her lesson" and may start to second guess punishing her daughter when she may not have really done anything wrong. That way she might see her sentencing as more of a learning experience for her mom, rather than a bad thing that she should tease her about. Does that help?
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I was just saying that maybe that way she will think that her moms jail time will help her mom realize what it feels like to be punished and maybe be easier on her daughter in the future because of it.
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If she mentions the thing where she said she likes the idea of her mother in jail because she is the one getting ordered around now, tell her how it is relate able to
Her feeling that way sometimes? (link)
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Yep, that's what I think. If she can't relate to it she wont understand it. Children have a hard time empathizing unless they've been in the same situation, so giving her that example, I feel will help her understand and be mature about the situation.
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so you are saying frame it in a way that makes it feel more lighter for my daughter? (link)
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Yea, I think that would be safer. If that's not what you want, and you want to make sure she understands the severity just be sure to make it relateable to her life. Like how I said relate her mother's jail time punishment, to her life of being grounded. And say how sometimes the punisher doesn't realize that the punishment doesn't equal the wrong doing. Saying that her sentence wasn't exactly fair and relating it to her getting grounded for something that she didn't think was that serious. Whatever you choose to do, the most important thing is to remember to think like she would to be sure she fully understands rather than just hearing what you say and taking it how she wants to.
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Hey well basically at a disco a few weeks ago i kissed this girl and know we've been texting lots and we both kind of like each other i think.im 15 and usually just hang out with guys from my school and if i was to hang out with girls i wouldn't know what to do.i want to ask her to do something but i cant think of anything to do that we could do without it being a date.does anyone know any sort of activities we could do like with a few other people aswell.and what do u do when u go out with girls im really in experienced and dont know how to do.any help much appreciated and please no hate (link)
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You guys could go bowling. Usually on weekend places have late night cosmic bowling where they play popular music with strobe lights and music videos so its much more fun that typical daytime bowling. You can get a group together for that. Or if it is nice out where you live, maybe mini golf. If you have a group of people it wont seem like a date no matter what you do, like getting ice cream or going out to some informal dinner or a mall trip. You could go laser tagging, or to an arcade. Maybe if you want to be cute, but not have it be a date, bring other people but pay for her. If you're trying to avoid spending money, you could get together some friends who enjoy the same game (board or video) and play that. Hope this helps some! Good luck! :)
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"When she said the part about being happy that someone else was telling HER what to do, maybe just tell her "maybe it will remind your mom how it feels when she punishes you. I think if we let this go when she comes home, things might be a little different.
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didn;'t fully get what you meant in this sentence. Can you explain? Thanks (link)
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Yea, no problem. I just meant that when she's saying that she's glad her mom is in jail because now someone is telling her what to do for once, it sounds like she feels like her mother is always bossing her around just to exert power over her rather than for a good reason. So if you tell her that her mom's visit to prison is the cops punishing her unfairly like she feels her mom is always doing to her, maybe she can grasp that her mom is "learning her lesson" and may start to second guess punishing her daughter when she may not have really done anything wrong. That way she might see her sentencing as more of a learning experience for her mom, rather than a bad thing that she should tease her about. Does that help?
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I bought this new Easter dress from rue 21. It'd white lace at the top and a salmon-y color at the bottom. Well the problem is I need shoes but not sure what matches that. I already have some tan sandals from last year would that work?? (link)
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I would say white shoes would probably go best with it, but I'm sure tan sandals would work fine with it too. Have a great Easter! :)
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So I am 17 years old and i have been dating this guy for 6 months. All we have done is make out, he is a very horny guy and he always wants to do more and more. He wants to do everything, i think im nervous because i don't want him to think I'm bad at it. I am nervous about giving him a blow job because i have never done that before, and i am nervous about sex i just want to please him but i want to be good at it too. any advice as to what i should do?? (link)
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Well only do any of that if you feel ready of course. But if you are ready and the only thing holding you back is being good at it think of this... you can't get better at it until you do it. Putting it off just because you are afraid you wont please him isn't going to make you any better when you decide to. If he's as horny as you say, I think anything will please him. But you will never know until you try, and once you've done it a few times you'll understand exactly what to do. Make sure he knows it is your first time doing all of this and to give you pointers. Tell him you want to know when you're doing someting well so you will keep doing it. Talk about it ahead of time too and find out what it is that he likes. Everyone is nrvous about having sex for the first time, but it is important that when you do decide to go through with it that he knows you area virgin. Tell him to be gentle with you and you will tell him if something hurts or feels good. If he is a virgin as well he will be very cautious anyway. It is important that you aren't too nervous because if you are you will tense up your body, which will tighten your vagina and make it hurt when he is inside of you. As for a blow job, all that you really need to know I'm sure you already do know... no teeth, and suck as well as using your tongue. Have fun ;)
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