Member Since: March 30, 2013
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Hi,
So I like this guy from my work, and I think he may have liked me as well, but then when he recently he found out about my age, I noticed that he has been cautious ever since. ( I'm 17 and he's going to turn 23) . I want to tell him that I like him, because I don't want to beat around the bush anymore.
But I don't know if I should, cause what if he rejects me and then our relationship at work is going to change cause its going to feel awkward .. And what if he doesn't find me interesting enough. I'm so unsure of what to do because I want to tell him to get it off my chest , so that if I could at least know then I would be able to stop wasting my time " thinking maybe ? What if he likes me ? " yenno? But at the same time I'm worried that I'd be wasting my breath because what if we're on totally different pages in life ...and so there's no point in telling . Do u think its a good idea ? (link)
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Dear "Should I tell the guy I like him?",
You have a 5 1/2-6 year age difference with this guy, which is completely fine! But...on the other hand, do keep in mind that you are a minor. If he does lay his hand on you, he COULD get in trouble. So maybe that's the reason why he has been cautious. If he is being cautious around you and you tell him you have feelings for him, I think you're going to make the situation worse. And you definitely don't want work to be awkward! I'd say stop thinking about him and keep him at arms length. Perhaps it's better to just be friends.
Signed mooshoomary
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So i am 17 and a Junior in high school. I never really have had an official boyfriend because i am so picky. I have known this guy for 4 years and he is a really close friend, just this year I started to develop feelings for him he says he has had a "crush" on me since freshman year. He is very physical, he is always wanting to do more and more but i always say no because we aren't dating, but he lacks emotion BECAUSE he is also talking to this freshman in college which he is obsessed with but she pretty much plays him. Just yesterday i was getting to just end whatever we have but he started being really sweet and i told him he needs to choose, he said he didn't know who he would choose then he was like "you know i love you right and it wasn't for her i would be dating you" and i just rolled my eyes and he said "i swear to god i do." I just don't know why he is doing this to me and i don't know what is going on through his head. Help me understand?? Thank you. (link)
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Dear "I have no idea whats going on in his mind",
This boy is playing oreo. He is smack dab in the middle. It looks like he is using you for action and is emotionally stuck with the college freshman. I say still be friends with him and let him be. He sounds like a complete douche, not a worth boyfriend for you. Let your first boyfriend be special, not someone that is head over heels for some college freshman.
Signed mooshoomary
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I am i 14 year old female and for the past few years my friends who i have known since i was 3 have been constantly been making fun of me and especially now that we are in high school its worse. They do it as a joke and it really hurts my feelings and i tell them most of the time that they're hurting my feelings and they say they'll try and stop but they never do. I can't deal with it anymore please help (link)
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Dear "I'm being bullied by my closet friends",
Friends are family that you choose and I'm pretty sure you don't want your family to hurt you. If your "friends" are really hurting you and not listening to your plea to stop, cut the umbilical cord and lose them. Plus you're just 14, you'll find plenty of friends! All you need is to be happy with a bright smile, and if you can't find it with your friends then forget them.
Signed mooshoomary
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I am in need for advice. I like this guy that i go to school with. I guess he knows that I do. We have talked a couple times. Ever since he found out about me liking him he hasnt talked to to me. Its as if he was avoiding me. Everyone says that he is this shy guy and that he is probably just scared to talk to me because I am very attractive and intimidating to talk to. He has told people that he just doesnt know how to talk to me and that hes nervous. I have caught him getting quick glances of me and doing lots of cute and stupid things around me. Just recently i asked for his number. I texted him once and it took him hours to text back. People have told me that he does do that a lot. How can I get him to be more comfortable around me without being aggressive or nor passive? Prom is coming up too and I would like to go with him. :) how can I get him to like me? (link)
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Dear "I like a shy guy and he knows it",
Truth be told, he is not that into you. Okay, so he's shy I get it. But ever since he found out that you liked him and he STILL didn't do anything about it. He is probably just a turd washed up on shore. And if he is THIS shy and you want to ask him to prom? He will probably be shy and awkward there too. My advice to you is...let the boy go. He is not the only boy on the planet so no need to go all out and like him. You'll find someone else.
Signed mooshoomary
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I bought this new Easter dress from rue 21. It'd white lace at the top and a salmon-y color at the bottom. Well the problem is I need shoes but not sure what matches that. I already have some tan sandals from last year would that work?? (link)
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Dear "I have a new dress but I need shoes to match",
I know this is last minute because Easter to tomorrow. First off I would like to say your dress sounds very pretty. In my personal opinion I would wear white flats with your dress to complement the white lace part. Again sorry this is a little late.
Signed mooshoomary
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Ok so I know I get really turned on and I all that's fine but I don't know why my nipples won't get hard I'm like really embarrassed by it and idk is there just something wrong with me. I don't know it makes me so uncomfortable I guess with my boyfriend. I just don't know what to say when he asks why they don't either. I just have responded that I'm falling apart. And nothing works right in a joking way of course. He takes it as I'm joking but that's kinda what it feels like a lot of the time.
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Dear "What does it mean that my nipples don't get hard",
First off I would like to say there is nothing wrong with you. In fact I would like to congratulate you. You have boobs! Most girls don't, so you should be proud about that. Secondly, so what if your nipples don't get hard? Maybe that's a good thing. I mean you don't want your nipples to poke your boyfriend's eyes out right? And it's not like you have a third nipple so it's nothing weird and it's nothing to worry about. Plus if your boyfriend likes you and is turned on by you, I'm pretty sure this little thing like nipple harden is going to stop him from liking/loving you. Don't be uncomfortable with yourself, because if you do it just gives others a reason to be uncomfortable with you too.
Signed mooshoomary
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