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Im 14/f. Is it possible for me to cum and get orgasms duting masterbating? (link)
Yes it is very possible.


I'm A 13 YEAR-OLD AND MY FRIEND IS ALSO 13.
Ok, so my friend is ALWAYs talking about, oh, I don't know... how she 'loves with all her heart' her 19 year-old boyfriend who has cheated on her numerous times, and she has done the same, or how she lost her virginity at 11, or guys that she's made out with at waterparks, etc. She is also incredibly slutty, but I'm her friend because her personality is good and she stands up for me... but the fact that all the guys in my class and in eighth grade love her and the older guys always tell her that they want to make-out with her, while I'm standing right there (and they ignore me), and she just laughs! all of this, plus my mental disorder (I claw at myself when I'm overwhelmed) makes me extremely insecure, but not in the way that I think I'm ugly, I honestly think I'm beautiful, but in the way that I feel left out and no guys like me.. I mean, one or two have called me sexy, but she (my BEST friend) has been in all these... 'experiences', I guess. and I just feel unwanted by guys. (ps: we're in 7th grade, and I would appreciate it if no one told me, 'oh! you're too young to care about that! I want REAL advice from people.) (link)
well,if you think you beautiful, thats all i think matters. the fact that your bestfriend gets all the guys and lost her virginity at 11, proves shes some what of a slut. dont put yourself in that position where you dont know if guys like you, im sure they do. but theyre most likely to busy seeking the attention of your friend, they dont realize it. by getting in her pants, it makes them look cool. trust me. im 13 too, and ik what its like. just dont let your guards down and do the same in which your friend is doing. instead of worrying about if youre getting the kind of attention your friend has, worry about the kind of respect and good attention you should have. hope this helps.


I have been dating this girl for a good 4 days but before we started dating she would hug on me and all that good stuff and now she does not and she would text me every day and now she does not sometimes i wont hear from her all day if i text her she wont text back some times and its like she is not even putting an effort into or relationship and there will be opportunities for us to see each other but she rarely takes it and just the way she talks and even texts me sounds well here is just one example. the other day we went on a double date and latter that night i sent her a text.
me: i enjoyed spending time with you tonight and i hope we get to be together more
her: i enjoyed it to. we had fun. i wish to hang out more to. goodnight
and its the hang out part that annoys me thats what she calls us spending time togrther she tells people we are togther but she does not talk or even really act like it and its to the point i want to just break up with her i dont want to but i just dont want to be in a relationship where i'm the only one putting an effort into it. what should i do (link)
i am in the same sticky situation. me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. And he hasnt treated me the same after the 4th month..my advice to you, is to just hang on. if you love her like you think you do, you'll do anything and everything to be with her. maybe try to talk to her...and if she avoids the conversation, consider breaking up. but jump jump right to breaking up, give it time, it can either go up or downhill. if your relationship continues on this pattern, pull the plug. just hold on and see what comes next.


A little background info, met my current boyfriend in September. Dated from then and made it official in November. During the dating time we both said we weren't seeing/talking to anyone else. During this time he went on a trip out of state and had sex with one of his best girl friends. The night he got back, we had sex and he asked me out officially. I was unaware of the fact he slept with his girl friend I actually just found out last night from a mutual friend. Not to mention he has slept with 2 other girl friends. All these girls are still around and they all hang out regularly. I feel so gross, I know we were not officially together when he slept with them but the one on the trip bothers me since we got together the day he was back from the 4 day trip. By the way, he doesn't know I know about him sleeping with his female friends and I can't bring it up without getting a mutual friend in trouble. Just don't know how to feel or if I should even bring it up? (link)
i think that you have the right to feel offended, and betrayed. even though you aren't officially "together" he shouldn't be fooling around with his girl-friends. especially the fact that he was fooling around with you. i honestly don't know how to tell you to approach the situation, but i hope this makes your thoughts clear up a little bit. 13/f




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