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Hi i am 17 my boyfriend is 22 do u feel it is ok but we start talking when i was at the age of 14 an he was 19 (link)
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Listen, if he's good for you and you feel this has been a good relationship then dont let anyone tell you otherwise. I do believe that age matters. But in this case, it really isnt that big of a difference. If the only reason your asking this question is because everyone is making a big deal out of it then dont bother paying attention to them! But, if your asking this because you feel like theres something wrong in the relationship or feel uncomfortable then you shouldnt keep it going. all it matters is that your both happy with the relationship! i personally, dont think its a bad thing that he's 5 years older. as long as you treat each other right :)
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Okay so I live in Canada, I am a 16 year old girl. My gym teacher has a student teacher that has come in to study for his apprenticeship and get his teaching degree. He is 25 years old and is really nice to me. He is great looking and I'm not talking from adolescence but he truly cares about me. He shows it in an every day activity. He has said I'm his favorite student and we talk in a very intelligent way. He has helped me with my problems and we always have harmless flirting. For instance, I'm a competitive soccer play and am in the soccer module this semester. He is my teacher and we always go one on one. Of course I always get the ball but its really cute. I know this is illegal but we have developed feelings for each other . He's really not my teacher and he goes back to school next month. What do I do next? Any advice accepted. Negative or positive (link)
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I know it may seem like you two are meant to be, but you really have to look at the facts. and im sorry im telling you that the person you have feelings for isnt right for you, but that is what i honestly believe. That is a nine years difference! Take if one of your friends had a romantic relationship with their teacher that were nine years older. How would that make you feel? to me, it seems a bit wrong. Not saying he's a bad guy or a pervert. he may genially like you. im just saying i think you should forget about it and move on. yes, you can still talk to him and be friendly, but you shouldnt be flirty or anything like that! who knows? maybe he really isnt into you and you just like him so much, thats what your thinking. but honestly, i dont think you should be with him. i think you should find someone around your age, and someone thats not your teacher.
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i asked a question about, 2 days ago about weather i should be sexually active...i have to come to realize that i shouldn't, but theirs one thing. we have been together for 5 months as of Thursday. But, I'm only 13 and hes only 14, and wants to have sex. I've told him multiple times that i don't want to but he continuously talks about it. And he seems to get irritated when i say no. i don't want to break up with him, nor do i want him to break up with me...how do i tell him no so that he finally stops talking about it, without getting irritated? HELP! (link)
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Listen, your doing the right thing by waiting. You guys are still very young, and not every teen relationship lasts. Sure some do, but you shouldnt be taking the chance at this age. Just simply tell him the truth. that you feel that your both too young and you'd rather wait.
you said your scared to tell him, because if you do, he may break up with you. then thats not the right guy for you. The right one would wait because he loved and cared about you! you shouldnt be worried about telling your boyfriend that. think about this...
yes you both are attracted to each other and are both into one another, but what do you guys really have in common? Are you two even compatible? A lot of teens get confused between finding someone attractive and actually liking them. the choice is yours in the end. but make sure he doesnt force you into it. your stronger than you think! good luck.
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A little background info, met my current boyfriend in September. Dated from then and made it official in November. During the dating time we both said we weren't seeing/talking to anyone else. During this time he went on a trip out of state and had sex with one of his best girl friends. The night he got back, we had sex and he asked me out officially. I was unaware of the fact he slept with his girl friend I actually just found out last night from a mutual friend. Not to mention he has slept with 2 other girl friends. All these girls are still around and they all hang out regularly. I feel so gross, I know we were not officially together when he slept with them but the one on the trip bothers me since we got together the day he was back from the 4 day trip. By the way, he doesn't know I know about him sleeping with his female friends and I can't bring it up without getting a mutual friend in trouble. Just don't know how to feel or if I should even bring it up? (link)
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Listen, this guy is obviously no good for you! he sleeps around not for love but for pleasure. Something tells me you really like the attention he gives you and not actually sure what to think about him as a person. You like the idea of him because he's into you. This isn't a real relationship. You need to be with someone that not only treats you right, but also to have a relationship with someone that you know will not cheat. because honestly, thats just simply wrong. Your friend told you for a reason! You dont even need to tell this guy why you dont want to be with him. Just simply say you made a mistake and you would just rather be friends. In the end its your choice. but really, this relationship wont do you any good if you continue it. there will just be another accident waiting to happen! i wish you the best of luck!
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