Member Since: April 5, 2013
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my girlfriend of 3 years is constantly looking for fights. she says she gets mad when i don't give her attention and that's why she's always wanting to fight about nothing. when we start fighting she gives me the lowest blows though. she's always reminding me that she can get any guy she wants. which i already know but i don't need to be reminded. she calls me selfish and the worst boyfriend she's ever had. she's constantly telling me that if she wanted a crappy relationship she'd have stayed with her ex. not only that but she's very controlling, anytime i go out i have to pretty much ask permission. i don't like her talking to guys but all of her friends are guys and she knows how much i hate it but does it anyway. what do i do? i've tried so many times to let her go but i can't, i really love her. i just don't know how to get her to stop without starting another fight. (link)
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I'm sorry, why do you still want to be with someone who treats you like that?!!!????....Seems the more important question here
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I have a female friend..who is extreamly jealous..way to much to where she gets agravated when her husband even looks at another woman on t.v and mouths to him ."oh does that turn u on"and just other stuff that is not right. They have been at my house hanging out talking, listening to music..and she will spaz out for no reason and attempt to throw things at him. She actually hasnt done that yet but it has got to the point now to where I dont even want her at my house. Also she is so jealouse that she accused her husband of cheating and doing this or that..when she has been the one infact being caught talkn to her ex husband and who knows who else. We are all cool with eachother and all but also. I had went to her house without her there. just to hang out for a bit and have someone to talk to. MY boyfriend as well knew I was there. He didnt care but the friends wife is who would have spazed out if she new I was there with out her being there. She has told me noumerous times how her and my boyfriend talk all the time as she claimes and i dont care.. but I know she would care if I told her that me and her husband talked all day . Its like for her its ok but if her husband was doing it then hes cheating and trying to sleep with whores. I dont get it. I told him it wont change and she will continue to be the same. What else advice could I tell our friend to convince him he is better off with someone else. Thanks in advance. (link)
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He should divorce her and you should find a new friend
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I'm of shy nature, but I love making videos. I personally think I've got good ideas to entertain people with bad movie reviews, sketches, top 10, etc. The only thing is... I'm scared that people end up mocking me and/or dislike me.
I know you cannot be loved by everyone, but I'm scared I get more hate than appreciation. I really want to do this though, should I take a risk or being a liked youtuber is excessively hard? (link)
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You think drake or brad pit or Jennifer Lawrence give a sh*t what people say about them? Did that stop them from doing what they wanted? Not everybodies going to like you, but who cares. Don't ever let that hold you back.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Today is my 23rd birthday and he didn't even get me anything. I don't even want much just something to feel special but no. We have a long distance relationship and I had a party Saturday that he wasn't able to come to because he couldn't afford the 500$ ticket but he was able to go out that night and spend over 100$ on drinks. He told me he feels like an awful boyfriend but then today on my birthday he tells me he's going to the casino on Thursday... So I'm guessing he doesn't feel that awful. On his birthday I made a huge deal I sent him a care package, visited him, and bought dinner and some other things for dessert. But he can't even send a card or anything. Am I just over thinking this and being a brat? Or is it time to rethink my involvement in this one sided relationship (link)
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Dump him.....why are you wasting your time with him when he obviously doesn't waste his time on you?! Girl, better start realizing you deserve more than that. Don't settle for crap!
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Well I had sex for awhile now with different guys. Some guys I started bleeding with drops of blood not a lot but I don't know why? I don't know whats going on? I am scared to go get check out because my mom doesn't know nothing of this. So please help me (link)
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Make your own doctors appt...unless you're too young in which case you should tell ya mother, you don't have to tell her you're bleeding from sex , just tell the doctor. My mom and I aren't close so I understand about not going to her.
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hello everyone. I'm 15 female. Is there something wrong with me coz nobody had ever courted me so far. Like nobody since ever. I've had no boyfriend. I live in a city, im active in community and popular in our school.
Uhmm yeh I'm boyish type but I'm girly still. I play with guys on school and talked with guys always. Guys say that I talk like them and whilst girls on the other hand say that im still even girly. I have lots of crush in school and some of them know that I like them but they never courted me. Is there wrong with me? Coz I want to get a boyfriend. Thank you. (link)
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I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. You are 15, why do you need or want a boyfriend anyways? I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 19. Enjoy being single and young! Your time will come one day and you'll meet a guy!
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I am a 20 year old female. As the title sums it up, I really can't stop lying. I make up stories about almost anything and about the silliest things. sometimes I don't realize that I'm lying but now that I do I see how much it is affecting important aspects of my life. My relationship with my boyfriend is being jeopardized by this, and recently my lies have been catching up to me. I don't want to be this person, any advice on how to stop? (link)
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Maybe when you lose all your friends, and boyfriend and your family dislikes you, that will give you enough motivation to quit lying.....it's not hard to tell the truth.
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So my ex and I only dated a few days. He was too clingy and I didn't feel anything, so we ended it almost 2 weeks ago. Well I decided to change my number because he had it and I didn't want him texting me. Well today (Which is Tuesday), I logged in onto my old account to get one of my friend's numbers and I saw that he left me a voicemail that was sent on Thursday. It was just something random but like still, I don't really want to be in contact with him really. And earlier today, he asked me why I haven't talked to him recently and I just said "Well we're done"... And he said something like "I think you're lieing and that you cheated" and then I kinda just walked away. If he talks to me again, should I just tell him to like leave me alone? It might sound rude but honestly he's not getting the message that I don't want to talk to him. Advice please ASAP thank you :) (link)
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I feel like there's details left out....but if you want him to leave you alone be forward and honest about it with him.
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Hey advicenators! I need to find a nice but also cheap hotel room for a friend's suddenly announced wedding, but my experiences with believing the reviews on the usual sites has been pretty mixed. Is there any chance some of you live around there or have traveled around that area and can suggest something nice and also affordable? If not, what would you do in my situation?
Thanks!
P.S. You need a travel category! :) (link)
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Google? Airbnb? Make my friend find one and pay since their wedding was sudden?
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i want to no wat damage can be cause when u mastorbate
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Everytime anyone masterbates......an angel dies........I've killed thousands .
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What's the least painful way to commit suicide?
If I'm gonna do it is not a question. I don't want to waste my time reading more speaches about not doing it.
I just need someone to tell me. Now.
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If you were going to do it then why are you asking for advice online when you could've just done it? So you obviously don't want to do it....now why don't you start trying to process whatever it is you're going through that's making you feel this way like the rest of us humans do and ask for help? What's really the issue?
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my boyfriend wants to insert his penis in my ass.. but im not allowing as we are only 17! now he just wants to touch his penis on my ass.. im not ready for that also as im scared of precum.. he cannot take a condom.. so he has asked for using plastic instead of condom. is it ok to allow him to cover his penis with plastic bag and let him touch my ass?is it safe? (link)
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Uuuummmm, if you're not comfortable with it then no...and why can't he use conforms? Is he allergic? A plastic bag is not sanitary nor effective. Your bf sounds like an idiot no offense and if he is so fascinated with Anal sex maybe you should ask him if you can try it on him first with a large dildo. But most importantly y'all are 17, shouldn't you be doing science fair projects and history reports instead of f'n around??!!!
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It's stupid how people in normal financial situations like me are walking 10,000 miles in autism awareness walks and my friend's grandma who is old is voulenteering in soup kitchens, and my PUBLIC school that is good but middle classed has an entire service club helping people but rich kids sitting on money bags spat at poor one's and saying how they hate their parents fit not buying them a third private island, and young rich men are too lazy to work long hours in a hot room claiming they are allowed to enjoy the money and nobody else can have it, and big private schools with fancy this, and fancy that can't give back, and my mother says that if we become rich she will give some to poor. I may live in a rich country but that doesn't mean everyone is rich. In my school's service club (green key) is currently helping a woman who can barely move. Why can't those with money to give? (link)
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I like to pretend that in a different life the rich people switch roles with the poor people. I know it sucks, there's people out there who complain about not having the newest model yacht and then there's the folks who are trying to figure out where to get their next meal from. You can't be resentful or hateful about it, the only thing I'd say to do it practice kindness and patience. They may be rich but you don't know what their struggles may be. Life's not fair, you just have to do what you can to survive and make sure you're enjoying it, not wasting it on being jealous or angry.
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I'm sorry, shallow jerk who thinks she's better than everyone else because pathetic losers worship her,I don't need to have the “queen b" notice,I only put the B, standing for something, say I'm cool, and have approval by others. I prefer my 5-8 real friends, than 45-69 friends who really don't like me. I read the blurb for a middle school guide, just for some help, but found out it was just about how to be popular. Please, people, what is the point? What is your deal? I'm not saying that if a popular girl who seems nice offers to sit with me at lunch, I'll say no, in fact, I'll say yes. But why try so hard with bitches who don't want you? (link)
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That's why I don't have a Facebook, or twitter or whatever you kids have these days. Only person you need approval from is yourself. Don't let them bother you....keep doing your thing!!
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So my bf & I met when we were both 18 & got together a couple months later. I had cheated on my previous bf with him, but I felt so bad about that I told the very next day (we just kissed,& it turns out to be my current bf's first kiss), & when I told him he asked why. After my first boyfriend & I broke up after 3 months on & off. Less than a month after we'd been broken up, I started dating the guy I cheated with-who turns out to be my steady bf since late 2010. I took his virginity in January 2011, & all was well for a while. Then he started lying over stupid things (where he was, that he had to go home, who he was with-said he was with his friend Kyle, but he was with a girl he "used" to like,& talk shit on me)..or "forgetting" to tell me things, & making the same promises over and over. It doesn't help that he never seems sincere & using uses a sarcastic or mocking tone, & usually extremely critical of me. I do love him so much,& he's my first,& we have had a lot of good times, but I don't know what to do anymore. Help please?? (link)
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I'll be honest.....you need to dump him. He sounds like an asshole and why you put up with it is questionable. Maybe it's karma for you cheating on your previous bf but it sounds like this dude isn't just talking to you. There are millions of other guys out there, don't ever settle for a shithead. You deserve better.
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I truly loved a girl name preethi she lives in Coimbatore im Arun maheedhar in same area because of her situation and completion of her parents she left me we both doin masters in Coimbatore the day of her proposal is Nov 8 th around 7.30 in the evening then our life was awesome for few days like upto Dec 30 th the same year 2013 I was last seen her at Dec 30 th 2013 evening I dropped her in a market place and I left with tears and my tears still not stopped today april 6th 1.14 am I was feeling very sad abt the memories I tried to erase her memories but I can't I tried many things but only fail remains in love in carrer in life only her memories left with me now I want to die with that same memory but I don't want any resurrection after this life it's enough I'm now not fit for my life. Her birthday is April 9th so on that day I pray for her life for last time and I want to die with those memories please tell a way for a quick painless death (link)
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Sir.....first off it's never wise to kill yourself over a lady. We have all experienced what you are going through. I'll share a story of mine with you. I fell in love with a man while I was in the military. We loved each other very much. We were always together. He got me pregnant. At first everything was ok. I was excited to start a family with this man I deeply deeply loved. One day he tells me he doesn't want the baby, a family, anything to do with me and to get rid of it. Long story short I have no children but we are friends to this day. And it took a lot of therapy for me to deal with everything and a lot of time me and him took to apologize and forgive each other. People are complex creatures. We have so many emotions going at one time and it gets very overwhelming. And love is a very complicated thing. But don't end your life because of this one situation. Everything happens for a reason. One thing that has always stuck with me is that god..or whomever you believe in...is testing you when he throws hardships your way. You want to give up at the first bump? Or do you want to concur the trial and learn from it and come out a better stronger person? You focus on what you need to to finish school, in school correct? You think she feels the same or do you think she's moved on with her life?! Toughen up !
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I have this guy I've been seeing and he decided that he was in love with me the first time we talked on the phone. He was calling himself my boyfriend and telling me he missed me and loved me on our first date. Now he calls and texts all day, he leaves me voice mails crying when I don't answer my phone. He sends me texts accusing me of ignoring him if I don't answer right away. He's driving me crazy I don't know what to do. How do you break up with someone who is constantly accusing you of being the problem in the relationship??? I've only known him a month and he's talking about our wedding having nightmares of losing me waking up screaming. Does this sound unusual to anyone else or am I just relationship challenged? (link)
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Yea you need to drop that fool....hes crazy. Just tell him youwere born with a dick and hopefully he will go away
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Well I've Been Dating My Boyfriend For A Year && He's Only Brought Up The Subject Of Sex Twice && I Feel As If I Need To Lose My Virginity To Him Just To Make Him Happy But I'm Not Ready He's 18 && I'm 15 What Should I Say To Him To ? (link)
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Uummm........Why is an 18 yr old with a 15 yr old?
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Hi, I posted a question not too long ago about getting a job babysitting. I followed the amazing advice that was given to me, and I think I might have a job at a day care. Thats what I'm asking about.
I'm 19, and I think I got the job. She said she'd call me back in a week or so after my fingerprints came back and background check; I went to my old work, and my old manager there told me some lady called asking about me, and that she told the lady very good things.
But what I'm really wondering, is how much do people at a daycare get paid in TN? I heard is $5, and I've even heard $9. I'd ask the lady, but to me thats very rude.
I also wanted to know, what goes on at a daycare? What is a daycare for??
The place I might be working at has kids from 12wks to 8 years.
How does that work? Will I watch all of them? Or be divided into a certain age category?
Because what my boyfriend told me is that they might put me with 6-8 year olds since they are the easiest, but I really wanted Toddlers or their 6-10 month age group.
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Any tips?
I know she wil answer my question next week, but I'm really anxious and I'm worried.
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Hope you got the job! Your lifes going to suck!
I got paid $11 when I worked at a Day Care.
And I got shit on daily! good times good times
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I babysit until midnight for this woman, so she can't drive me home. Her kids are in bed and they have school the next morning, so shed have to wake them up. So, she has one of her coworkers drive me home. He's really nice.. But, he's gay. I feel really uncomfortable about it. I sensed it the first time he drove me home, he said a house was pretty. And then I told him I liked country music and he said, So reba? I think she's country i know she has a tv show... And well I haven't ever heard a straight guy say anything like that! So I decided to facebook him and well it turns out he is in fact gay and in a relationship for 20 years with a man.... What should I do? I just feel so weird about this! The bible says homosexuality is a sin and I'm associating with someone who is choosing to live in sin with a man! (link)
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someone should smack yall in the face with a damn bible.....you ever think about if YOU make him feel weird? No...no you didnt...its 2013 mine as well start accepting the world or go back into your bible bubble.
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