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Bleeding and afraid to tell my mom
Well I had sex for awhile now with different guys. Some guys I started bleeding with drops of blood not a lot but I don't know why? I don't know whats going on? I am scared to go get check out because my mom doesn't know nothing of this. So please help me
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Bleeding is usually a bad sign, but when I had a similar problem, I found out it was from not having enough lubrication.
Go see your doctor, if you can't see a gynecologist, I recommend going for STD testing at a free clinic. If that isn't an option, go see your primary care doctor and they can give you a basic pelvic exam.
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Make your own doctors appt...unless you're too young in which case you should tell ya mother, you don't have to tell her you're bleeding from sex , just tell the doctor. My mom and I aren't close so I understand about not going to her.
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Sweety, if you're young, you shouldn't be having sex. Sex can cause so much problems. For example, you could get pregnant and not know who the father is.
And of course you should tell your mom. She is your mother for a reason. Out of anyone else in the world, she should be the one you turn to when you need help. A mother will never neglect her kids. It doesn't matter how angry she'll get at you, she'll help you because she gave birth to you and she loves you.
People like us, online helpers really can't do much. Take my advice and go to your mom.
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Hopefully you are over the age of 14, if so mom does not have to know anything about this. By a Federal Law called HIPPA you can see any doctor of your choosing without her knowledge of permission. It does not matter that you may be seeing a doctor under the family medical insurance. The fact that her insurance is paying for the doctors visit does not negate the law.
Briefly under the HIPPA law it states that young people 14 years of age and older cans see any doctor for anything related to their reproductive systems with total confidentiality. Meaning no doctor who sees or treats you for anything related to your reproductive system can discuss the exam, findings or treatment with anyone including your parents without your expressed permission in writing.
This also means mom can no longer be in the exam room with you whenever a female exam is being done to you. To receive the benefits of HIPPA all you need say to the doctors nurse or staff is that you wish to invoke your rights under HIPPA.
If you want you may go to any women's clinic and be seen and treated for whatever this problem is. All you need is proof of age that you are 14 or older. While you are there since you are sexually active I suggest you ask for a prescription for birth control medication. Under the HIPPA law they will write you a prescription if you ask for one.
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You could see if another close adult would take you to go get a check up. I don't know the laws in each state about things like this. If you don't want to tell your mom you have sex, just tell her you've been bleeding down there..you can tell the doctor you've been having sex and they won't tell your mother. Anything you say to a doc is confidential. No matter what kind of trouble you would be in you should make sure to get an appointment with a doctor. I'm sure you mom would rather you healthy.
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