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i have been confused about what i should be, i am a female that is more comfortable dressing in male clothes, i act more masculine then i do feminine however i do have certain female traits that keeping coming out (maternal - from when i was a step mum). i have been reading up and considering going through with a sex change operation. the only thing that is holding me back is i want kids and want to be able to conceive naturally. (link)
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You don't have to get a sex change..I mean if you still would want to conceive naturally then you obviously don't want to be a man..You just feel more comfortable in guys clothes, that's fine. It doesn't mean you have to be a man..those female traits are naturally there. I feel like you should take some more time to think about things, and get to know yourself a little more. A sex change is a big deal, so if I were you I'd make sure I was 100% ready to do it.
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hi! my grandma had bone problems and i don't know how to spell what she had but you probably know what i mean right? in school they were talking about the same thing in health class and she said that if we ate calcium rich foods we would not get that disiease. great but how much milk and cheese can you eat?! are there any other foods that have calcium but maybe don't make you so fat? (link)
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Cooked kale, spinach, white beans, broccoli, red beans, pinto beans. Wild salmon also. Basically you just need to eat healthy..fresh fruits and vegetables. Eating too many acid-forming foods like flesh meats, dairy products, flour products, salt, sugar, and caffeine can pull calcium out of your bones. Sugar is best avoided completely. Although homogenized and pasteurized milk does have high amounts of this important mineral, it is not well absorbed or utilized in the body. Milk products often contain high levels of toxins like bovine growth hormones and antibiotics. You also need to exercise and go for walks and get plenty of sunshine. You will also need foods with vitamin D. Your body needs an adequate amount of vitamin D to properly absorb calcium through your intestinal wall. If you stress too much, calcium can also be pulled from your body, so don\'t stress so much and live healthily and you\'ll be fine. Dried fruits, nuts, and herbs also have calcium, and so do oranges.
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I have to fly out for a funeral and the airlines no longer offer a bereavement rate. :( I don't have much money, but I have to say goodbye. Is there a way to find a cheaper flight with short notice? They want over $1,100 because there is no advance notice, and I am a waitress and a student. Thank you for helping me. (link)
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You could get one for at least half that price if you go to expedia.com. Just put in your flight info and they'll search tickets for you..but you'd have to hurry and do it now because most of them will have 1 seat left since its short notice. It also depends if your in the US just going to another state or not..I don't know about flights outside of the US.
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im 25 yrs old.i've got a seat in medical school and bcoz of some reasons i didnt complete it and my parents doesn't know it .i didn't even tell them.only some of my friends know it and now a day has come that my parents are going to find out that im not a doctor! i cant show my face to them .want to take away my life!pls anybody suggest me the best way to die?' (link)
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First please be calm. I understand it would be a disappointment to your parents to know you lied about being a doctor, but this is no reason to take your life. Your parents would rather you tell them the truth I\'m sure. Call them and tell them how you\'re feeling. They will help you. There are lots of students that didn\'t complete their college classes and are in the same position as you. If you tell them what happened and that you were afraid to tell them, and that your feeling suicidal I\'m sure they would care about your well being more then you not completing your classes. There is no good way to kill yourself, because you would leave all your friends and family confused and hurting. Please get help, and don\'t harm yourself, its not worth your life. You\'re only 25 and have so much more to look forward to.
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So, I'm a 14 year old girl and I honestly can't cope with the way my parents tell me to live, I feel like I am trapped in my home and I can't do anything!
They have these rules that I cannot go on my iPad/phone until 8pm every night, even at weekends I'm not aloud to use them. They say I'm to antisocial and I need to get out more, I go almost everywhere with them! I do go to town with friends aswell. They won't let me out of my town, I live in Barnstaple, devon and I'm not even aloud to Exeter or Bristol to go on a shopping trip with friends which is only about 2 hours away. Also I'm not aloud to be friends with a few people I know, one of them because there is a rumour going around that her mum is a prostitute and the other one who is my best friend and I still hang out with her secretly because she said something rude on Facebook like 2 years ago! It annoys me how I can't be friends with who I want to be friends with. My parents won't let me go out after school and I always have to be back home at 4pm if I go anywhere, which means I can't go out in the evening or at night and have a laugh :(
They also won't let me use social networks other than Facebook and Twitter, I want to be able to use snapchat, Instagram and tumblr but I'm not aloud to have it on my phone, another thing is that my dad still reads my texts and my messages with friends online!!! I'm 14 and I literally have no privacy! It's really annoying I want to just tell him "no, I won't give you my phone" or just not tell him the lock to my phone but he always makes me! :(
This is really annoying me now how I feel like I am stuck with nothing to do and no privacy at all :(
Anyone know what I could do? (link)
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I understand exactly how you feel, but just know that with age all of this gets better. You just have to prove to them that they can trust you. If that doesn\'t help..I\'d just try and sit down and have a talk with them and see how they react. I know you probably feel helpless, but they\'re just being over protective because this world is really cruel and they care about you. Sometimes parents go over board. If you could stick it out for 2 more years, you could just get a job and save up to get your own things..then they couldn\'t tell you when to use your stuff. ;) I also rebelled against my parents though so that might not be good advice haha. I would definitely sit down and talk to them about it though. Just tell them you\'re asking for a little more freedom..like instead of going home at 4 ask if you can come home at 6..just ask them to give you a little lead way to be able to prove to them that you won\'t lie to them or do something they wouldn\'t want you to. Then as time goes on you could gain more freedom.
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I'm from Berlin, Germany. I can read and write English almost as well as anyone else. Recently I have lost my dear identical twin brother, tragically. My father doesn't seem to care much, he didn't even blink when he died but I can't stop feeling this hole. I feel lost now, and confused. I can't cry for some reason. I'm depressed and alone. My mother is with my brother and my father is always at the bar. So what can I do to ease this pain inside of me? (link)
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If I were you I\'d go to a counselor and tell them how you are feeling. Like a therapist. Your father maybe dealing with things in a different way. He may not show you that he\'s hurting, but he may cry when he\'s alone. You said he\'s always at the bar, so maybe he\'s dealing with his sadness by drinking. Have you tried talking to him about your brother? It\'s important that you find some support and talk about the feelings you have. Make sure you take care of your self right. You have to get enough sleep, eat right, and exercise would help a lot. Also not crying may just be the mental state loosing your brother put you in. You probably are just numb. Emotional numbness is the inability to feel much of anything. Things that usually make you feel happy or smile produce a weak response or nothing. Also things that should , make us angery or even tears result in an apathetic response. It is a lack of emotion where there once was emotion. One of the causes can definitely be depression. This symptom results from feeling overwhelmed and overburdened by life\'s challenges to the point where you just can\'t feel anymore. You are too tired and weary to emote. It can also be a protection against feeling too much as in after a trauma. It can be the process of shock where we simply cannot take in the emotional reality of what is going on. The mind is protecting itself from too much pain.
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my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
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The vessels that supply your heart with blood rich in oxygen are called the coronary arteries. They\'re called that because they circle around your heart in the like a crown. Coronary artery disease is caused by buildup in your coronary arteries -- a condition called atherosclerosis -- that leads to blockages. The arteries, which start out smooth and stretchy, become narrow and hard, limiting blood flow to the heart. The heart doesn\'t get enough oxygen and the vital nutrients it needs to pump properly. From a young age, cholesterol-laden plaque can start to deposit in the blood vessel walls. As you get older, the plaque builds up, inflaming the blood vessel walls and raising the risk of blood clots and heart attack. The plaques release chemicals that promote the process of healing but make the inner walls of the blood vessel sticky. Then, other substances, such as inflammatory cells, lipoproteins, and calcium that travel in your bloodstream start sticking to the inside of the vessel walls.
Eventually, a narrowed coronary artery may develop new blood vessels that go around the blockage to get blood to the heart. However, during times of increased exertion or stress, the new arteries may not be able to supply enough oxygen-rich blood to the heart muscle.
In some cases, a blood clot may totally block the blood supply to the heart muscle, causing heart attack. If a blood vessel to the brain is blocked, usually from a blood clot, an ischemic stroke can result. If a blood vessel within the brain bursts, most likely as a result of uncontrolled hypertension (high blood pressure), a hemorrhagic stroke can result.
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I have a FAFSA loan thing that I have to do for school. Do you know how long I have until the deadline for it to be turned in? (link)
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Each state has a different deadline..so you could either look up your state deadline online..just type it into Google, or you will have to talk with your financial aid administrator.
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my parents don't love me nd my boyfriend also cheated me i want to commit suicide what should i do.. i don't have any hope even my brother talks to me in a dirty way i can't spend even a single minutes in my family and now a days my friends are also ignoring me and not talking with me properly (link)
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I understand how you feel, I've been there before. You just have to ignore negative people even if they are your family. Don't commit suicide, I've tried that before..its not worth it. I'm sure your parents love you, they might just have problems of their own and can't show you in the right way that they love you. Even though you didn't ask to be born..but hey you have your own life to live so don't let anyone take that away from you. You're stronger then this. Friends can be made everyday, if they are treating you badly then they don't deserve to be your friend. Same goes for a boyfriend or girlfriend, they don't deserve you if they are treating you badly. Just keep in mind life will get better. For now try to not be so hard on yourself and don't take everything your family and friends say to heart..they may not realize how badly they're hurting you. Also if you are being physically or verbally abused you can talk to a school counselor about it..tell him or her how you're feeling right now. If you want help you have to bring it to the attention of others. Everyone may not even realize you're feeling this way. There are people out there that can help you.
Things can and will get better.
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Hi! Is there a way to make complex fractions simple enough that even *I* can understand them? LOL! You may have guessed math isn't my strong suit, yet I have to pass this class. Can anyone explain the process? (link)
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http://www.basic-mathematics.com/examples-of-complex-fractions.html Here is a link explaining simple complex fractions.
http://www.wikihow.com/Simplify-Complex-Fractions
This link provides different way to solve the problems so keep reading until you half way/ completely understand whats going on and work with that method.
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Hi! 15/F.. I'm sorry if this story *̩s all over the place!? "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ Virgina *̩s very itchy! So 2day I went to the bathroom and I saw like almost a rash kind of red around the opening. I can't think of any thing that it could be? A Guy fingered me like 3 weeks ago and its been itching since. I'm to scared to talk to "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ mom about it? Any advice?? (link)
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You most likely have a yeast infection..but yeast infections can happen even if youre not having sex or doing sexual things..you need to tell your mom and get to a doc now before it gets worse. The doctor can give you an antibiotic and cure you quickly. Make sure you drink lots of water, and to ease the redness and itchiness, go to the store and buy some vagisil. if it swells ice can help a lot. I know this may seem crazy but make a vinegar and water solution..like mix vinegar in water and its a natural anti yeast liquid. find a spray bottle and mix it together ..spray it down there every time after you pee, it helps kill the yeast. Wear loose fitting pants and underwear..the more closed up the area is the worse its irritated, so try not to wear thongs or tight jeans for a while..Heres a link to yeast infection symptoms, see if yours match up.. http://www.webmd.com/women/tc/vaginal-yeast-infections-topic-overview
Regardless of all the tips I just gave you, make sure you tell your mom about it because she's going to think your health is more important then anything. And if it's not a yeast infection and something more serious, you need to know and get help with the problem your having.
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I am a Christian and I'm working on being a better one, but I'll be the first person to admit that I'm far from perfect. I have debilitating guilt and shame about my past and even the way I came to Christ, even though that sounds strange now that I'm writing it.
I feel like everyone else has really great, inspiring stories and I have kind of a cowardice one. Long story short, I wanted to come to God for years, but thought that I was too bad to do so. Like God wouldn't want someone like me. I didn't have the courage to find out if that was true or not until I was sick and thought I might be dying soon. When I found out that you can be forgiven for anything, I asked Jesus into my heart. (I'm fine now BTW).
Getting to my problem, my dad will not stop judging me, or my family for that matter. He judges us for missing church and any sins we commit. He'll imply or flat out say that we won't go to Heaven because of certain things that he himself does.
I hope this doesn't sound like I'm being hypocritical and judging him, but he's got problems as well. He talks hatefully to my mom, he does rotten thing to people, he uses filthy language, he lies, he takes our things that don't belong to him and these are the kinds of things he judges us for. He'll come home from church and act this way. I've never habitually done all of these things and I've repented, but when I drop the ball, he's all over me. I'm not saying that my dad's a terrible man or that he's not going to Heaven, but I don't feel that he's in a position to look down his nose at me.
The worst is when he judges me for missing church. I admit that I've been bad about that, but church isn't the only place where I worship God with other Christians. I've heard that you don't have to go to church as long as you worship somewhere. It's not in the Bible. It's not that I don't like church, it's just a long story of why I don't go every single Sunday.
He's confident about his own salvation and that of certain people close to him. He just judges his household. It bothers me that he thinks I might not go to Heaven when he and some of the people close to him are no better than I am. It just plain bothers me that he judges me at all.
One reason I think it bothers me is because it makes me feel like such a loser. It brings back the guilt and shame I mentioned earlier. It also makes me wonder if I'll ever be the Christian I need to be. If my own dad doesn't have confidence in me, how strong of a Christian can I be?
What do you think of this situation? (link)
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First of all judging some one is a sin..The only judgement you should be worried about is God's. Last time I checked you are supposed to have your own relationship with God..not a relationship through your dad to God. He's just trying to keep you and everyone else in his control so he can cover up the things he's guilty about. No offense but this is why I'm not christian..its all based on making people fearful to gain control. But that's my personnel opinion.
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hello everyone. I'm 15 female. Is there something wrong with me coz nobody had ever courted me so far. Like nobody since ever. I've had no boyfriend. I live in a city, im active in community and popular in our school.
Uhmm yeh I'm boyish type but I'm girly still. I play with guys on school and talked with guys always. Guys say that I talk like them and whilst girls on the other hand say that im still even girly. I have lots of crush in school and some of them know that I like them but they never courted me. Is there wrong with me? Coz I want to get a boyfriend. Thank you. (link)
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Just means it's not meant for you to have a boy friend right now..believe me it will come when you least expect it.
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http://s1189.photobucket.com/user/mikafae/media/263376_499768680072896_917131201_n.jpg.html?sort=3&o=1
thanks! (link)
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wavy is prettier, looks more natural on you
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My boyfriend have been together for around 2 and a half years and we moved in together 8/9 months ago. Over the past few months things between us have started to go downhill pretty badly. We argue several times a week (mostly about things like house work and money) and our sex life is terrible! We treat each other horribly and don't show each other any respect.
I love our life together and when we are getting along things are great. Up until this point we were planning our long term future together but now I don't know if we have one at all. It all came to a head last night and we now haven't spoken for around 24 hours, something we have never done before even after arguing. We're at a total stalemate and I don't think either of us knows what to say anymore. Should I just give up on the relationship? (link)
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If you both are in love with each other seriously, it just sound like you guys need a little break..its tough living with another person even if you are compatible. Relationships are hard work.
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What's the least painful way to commit suicide?
If I'm gonna do it is not a question. I don't want to waste my time reading more speaches about not doing it.
I just need someone to tell me. Now.
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There's not a least painful way to commit suicide because no matter what you do, you're going to be miserable while doing it. How ever if you choose to try and get help and live through the hardest times, you could live your life and not be miserable through it. Understand that death is unchangeable but life has plenty of opportunity to get better and be what you want it to be. This is coming from some one who's tried before and was unsuccessful. I look back on things now and I realize how much of a mental shit hole I was in. You gotta push through it, give your self the chance to see the days where everything isn't so bad..Yes life might still be challenging but you'll be better prepared to deal with things, and you'll grow into a stronger person. No matter what you're thinking now..someone out there needs you..we're all in this universe together and everything we do effects the next person, you harm yourself, you harm everyone even if they don't realize that. Just tell yourself emotions are temporary, death is permanent..its not worth taking your own life over. Believe me.
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I am involved with a married man (or was, or is?). Last week we spent two days together. On the second day, he told me it was over. He couldn't see me again, he hated the fact he was cheating on his wife, and it was killing him inside. We held each other and cried and said our Goodbye's. I felt as if the world came crashing down on me. I told him how sorry I was that we got involved in something that was against both our morals. He said he wanted to remain friends but we had to stop our flirting, texts, and messages.
The weekend went by and I barely ate or slept. Today he calls me (we work for the same department, different locations) and tells me he's not sure he's done with me yet. That he just wants an extended break. Why did he change his mind?
Some back story (without going in too far). I am married also. We started out as friends, talking back and forth at work to resolve the same problems. We are both over forty, with children, he loves his wife, I am with my husband because I am too afraid to be on my own (not financially, just physically alone). This is both our first, on cheating on our spouses. I've done massive research on why people have affairs, what happens in an affair, how does an affair end. I know that women believe they're in love, when they are really not (thanks to hormones!) and for men it's a break from the obligations of married life.
My problem is, now I'm in it, blind and dumb, but we click on so many levels (more than just sex). Why didn't he just end it and be done, why do you think he changed his mind?
Before you reply to my question, I know I am wrong, I know he is wrong. We are two selfish individuals, I deserve this, we are going to hell, etc. Try to refrain from putting me down more than I already do. (link)
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He doesn't have any self control over his desires, much like you. Ultimately he's just using you to fill in the boring parts of his life. And he is taking advantage of his wife by living with her happily married, while she is not getting 100 % commitment from him. Seems like he doesn't care for you as much as his wife, because he's willing to break ties with you on a whim. He's not afraid to loose you, but I'm sure he'd hate to lose his wife over you. It seems that you are helping him with sexual pleasure..thing is you fell in love and he is not in love with you. You also must have some self esteem issues he's aware of for him to have the audacity to call you and say I don't think im done with you yet, as if you're an object. It's even worse you would except this treatment. I think you should see a therapist and get some things figured out about yourself. You must know your self worth. He only wants to "remain being friends" so he can wind you back in when ever he wants to have sex with you. He's just playing with your emotions..and he may or may not be aware of this himself if he has any self esteem issues.
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Ok, so here is a strange question for you: I asked my brother what he most wanted for his birthday and he said just that: "A bolt carrier group would be nice." Now here is the problem: I don't know what that is. Yes, I searched it on google, yes I found a picture in image search, and no, even looking at it I have no idea in the world where you would buy one or what exactly it is. Anyone know what I should do? (link)
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The bolt carrier group is the part of a gun that forces expanding gases to push the bullet down the barrel and out the muzzle. The firing pin is typically part of the bolt group. However, some firearms, such as a break-open shotgun, simply have a firing pin and not a bolt group. Other guns like bolt-action rifles, semi-automatic rifles, and automatic rifles have bolt groups that are a moving assembly of parts.Just ask him exactly what kind of bolt carrier group he needs, and you should surely be able to find one in a gun store, or online at Amazon.com or Ebay.com
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Well I had sex for awhile now with different guys. Some guys I started bleeding with drops of blood not a lot but I don't know why? I don't know whats going on? I am scared to go get check out because my mom doesn't know nothing of this. So please help me (link)
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You could see if another close adult would take you to go get a check up. I don't know the laws in each state about things like this. If you don't want to tell your mom you have sex, just tell her you've been bleeding down there..you can tell the doctor you've been having sex and they won't tell your mother. Anything you say to a doc is confidential. No matter what kind of trouble you would be in you should make sure to get an appointment with a doctor. I'm sure you mom would rather you healthy.
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I am currently working towards moving to Cali by december. I want to pursue singing and maybe some acting. I am currently working on a demo tape to hand out to people. What are some ways I can know about casting & where to look & where to go about pursuing music. Any suggestions would be awesome as this is a recent choice of mine. (link)
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what ever you do, don't wear triangles or pentagrams. Don't give into hollywood.
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