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What's wrong with me
hello everyone. I'm 15 female. Is there something wrong with me coz nobody had ever courted me so far. Like nobody since ever. I've had no boyfriend. I live in a city, im active in community and popular in our school.
Uhmm yeh I'm boyish type but I'm girly still. I play with guys on school and talked with guys always. Guys say that I talk like them and whilst girls on the other hand say that im still even girly. I have lots of crush in school and some of them know that I like them but they never courted me. Is there wrong with me? Coz I want to get a boyfriend. Thank you.
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I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. You are 15, why do you need or want a boyfriend anyways? I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 19. Enjoy being single and young! Your time will come one day and you'll meet a guy!
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Just means it's not meant for you to have a boy friend right now..believe me it will come when you least expect it.
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You say you're a little bit of a Tomboy yet you are also girly. That is like saying I'm a little bit country and I'm a little bit Rock and Roll.
Boys your age confuse easily. Meaning it depends how they see you as to why you may have boy friends and not a boyfriend. If they see you as one of the boys, as you say " yeh I'm boyish type," then they won't ask you out.
IF by being "Boyish" you mean you like to play sports or that you are very athletic, there is nothing wrong with that. Not knowing you I would have to say while you can be girly you may not look as girly as other girls. Your body may be more toned then other girls.
You may be more comfortable in slacks, Jeans and Polo shirts which would give off a more boyish look if you are toned up. You would have to work harder at looking girly with girlish hair styles, wearing dresses and skirts with blouses and sweaters.
This is all a guess on my part, based on what you have written. I don't know you but dressing the part is always good. Remember the old saying you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. In your case the honey is the dresses, skirts blouses and sweaters.
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I used to think there was something wrong with me sometimes. I used to look around and see that everyone was either in a relationship or had a crush on someone who actually liked them back. I'm going to list off a few scenarios why you may be in the situation you're in.
1. Your personality. Now I'm not saying you have a bad one but that could be the case. Or you could have a very dominant personality which a lot of guys get intimidated by. It's not a bad thing to be more dominating as a girl, I know the feeling of having such a personality. I hope you generally are a nice person, and a bad personality isn't ruining your chances of a boyfriend.
2. Boys are weird. A lot of boys don't show their feelings in the way that girls do, so there may be someone with a crush on you but you won't know. And sometimes as the most unexpected times they let you know.
3. You're "one of the guys". I know how it feels to be a tom boy. When I was younger and even now, I love to play sports with guys, hang with them etc. When that happens a lot of times they see you as one of the guys and it would be weird to date "one of the guys" if you understand what I'm getting at. It's like being friend zoned for us tom boys.
4. Just be patient. I know sometimes being single isn't the best feeling but trying to force something will be worse than having no one in the long run.
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