Abit about me and my column.
Im a friendly, bubbly confident girl with an outgoing personality and a good sense of humour.
i am very ambitious and hope to one day have my own writing column. Im very sociable and enjoying spending time with my family and friends. I have a daughter who's 3 years old and i love doing fun activities together and making life long memories together :). I like going to festivals, bars, reading, and writing my blogs and advice blogs.
i like outdoor activities too aswell as swimming and watching my fav movies and tv programmes :)
i am a great listener and i am very open minded to things. Im very trustworthy and try and help give advice or just listen to people who confine in me. I have been through alot in my life and i would like to give advice and help others as best as i can. My column is to give people advice with whatever problems they may have, and i will try my best to help them. I will give advice from anything such as sex, relationships to parenting, friendship's, family to jobs and housing :)
so thats a little summary of myself and my aims and column :)
Website: carreyasmith thought of the day and advice blog
E-mail: carreyasmith@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: England
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Age: 21
Member Since: April 7, 2014
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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
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What this person is doing is wrong and i would advice you to go to the police before they get fed up and post them everywhere
I would also advice you not to ever under any circumstances send naked photos of yourself to anyone again especially over the internet, it could be anyone on the other side of the conversation. And although it may seem harmless at first but like you have now experienced people can get nasty and use the photos against you and blackmail you. The thing about these sort of people is that they feel in control blackmailing to make the person do what they want them to do. Dont give into his demands and send him another photo as that also give him more to use against you to gain his own way again as it won't stop there, i would advice you to say to him that you will not send him another photo and if he keeps black mailing you and if he posts them online then you will contact the police and press charges against him for harassment.
I hope you learn by this experience and don't do something like this again and i hope you all the best and i hope the other person sees sense and doesn't pursue blackmailing you.
Thank you for coming to me for help and i hope my advice helps you to the best i can
Carrey Anne x
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Its been almost 3 years and they have had there good times and bad times but today i didnt talk to her because I didnt want to fight and when we spoke she kept fighting with me... I feel like dying because she is my life and i am so stressed out, what should I do? (link)
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Feeling lost in a relationship can be very hard and stressful on someone, but you need to ask yourself is this relationship worth surviving and if so then you need to have a serious conversation with her, ask her why she wants to always fight with you? And if she wants the relationship to work. Once you know why she is acting like this whether you are doing something unintentionally or she just stressed whatever it is you will know what the next step is you also need to make her aware of how she is making you feel it is very important. But if you ask yourself if it isn't worth surviving then you need to make the next step of going your seperate ways.
Hope this helps and i hope it works out whatever you choose to do.
Carrey Anne x
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Hi, this is my first time using this site (link)
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Hello, what is your question you would like abit of advice on?
Carrey Anne x
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my g.f has very small hole she is 22 year old...my penis is not going in when m trying to insert...what shud i do to insert??
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Firstly i would say are you sure that she is aroused enough and lubricated enough for you to he able to insert because that might be where the trouble is. Every women\'s vagina expands to what goes in whether shes really small set or whether shes not, it will fit as long as shes well lubricant inside. I think that is where your difficulty is when your trying to have intercourse. I would suggest that you try abit more foreplay or use a lube and rub it around her vagina so it is wet enough for you to sex.
I hope this can help
Carrey Anne x
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Is it possible to get a rental car with 100$ in NYC? (link)
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Hello,
Im not from new York i am actually from England but i have done some research and from what I have seen you cannot buy a car for that price, that price is way too low to buy any car what\'s so ever, maybe try saving more cash to about £500 and you may be able to buy a little run about car. Or get a car on fiance, there are certain dealerships that do this and all you do is choose a car and pay for it monthly and sign a contract to say you will do so. If your in central new York is it worth having a car? Wouldn\'t it be easier to use the public transport as new York is a very busy place and always has traffic jams ect.
I hope this can help and sorry i couldn\'t give you anymore useful help than what i have
Thank you
Carrey Anne x
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my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
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Coronary artery disease (CAD) also known as atherosclerotic heart disease,[1] coronary heart disease,[2] or ischemic heart disease (IHD),[3] is the most common type of heart disease and cause of heart attacks.[4] The disease is caused by plaque building up along the inner walls of the arteries of the heart, which narrows the arteries and reduces blood flow to the heart.
While the symptoms and signs of coronary artery disease are noted in the advanced state of disease, most individuals with coronary artery disease show no evidence of disease for decades as the disease progresses before the first onset of symptoms, often a \"sudden\" heart attack, finally arises. Symptoms of stable ischaemic heart disease include angina (characteristic chest pain on exertion) and decreased exercise tolerance. Unstable IHD presents itself as chest pain or other symptoms at rest, or rapidly worsening angina. The risk of artery narrowing increases with age, smoking, high blood cholesterol, diabetes, high blood pressure, and is more common in men and those who have close relatives with CAD. Other causes include coronary vasospasm,[5] a spasm of the blood vessels of the heart, it is usually called Prinzmetal\'s angina.[6]
Diagnosis of IHD is with an electrocardiogram, blood tests (cardiac markers), cardiac stress testing or a coronary angiogram. Depending on the symptoms and risk, treatment may be with medication, percutaneous coronary intervention (angioplasty) or coronary artery bypass surgery (CABG).
There\'s an explanation of what coronary artery disease and the symptoms you can suffer. I would also say you are very young to get this type of disease and its not a good idea to look up your symptoms online as it will give inaccurate answers and make people think they have things wrong that isn\'t wrong with them. I would strongly advise you to go see your local doctor and have checks and tests to find out what\'s wrong with you as it could be only minor so i wouldn\'t worry yourself with things on the internet. Go see you doctor :)
Thanks for writing to me
Carrey x
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So, I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm pretty sure this isn't normal. It's usually every morning I wake up with soaked underwear, it doesn't smell that nice either. During the day it's nit so bad but it's still happening, it's very uncomftable. I find that whenever I need to pee I all of a sudden become very desperate to go and I can't hold it in for that long and if I don't go I can't hold it in. I don't want to have to wear a panty liner or something like that, any ideas on what this could be?
I'm too scared to tell my parents about it as I would be embarrassed and I really don't want to have to go and see a doctor unless I really have to.
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Firstly what is it that is soaking your knickers is it urine or discharge?
If it is discharge then you could have a urine infection which is very common in women of all ages. Does it hurt to pee? Is your discharge an off white color and are you passing urine more than normal and you stated it doesn\'t smell nice if all these sound like your symptoms then it sounds like you could have a urine infection and you would need to vist your doctor to get some antibiotics to get rid of the infection as it can progress into a kidney infection if left untreated.
If its not discharge and is just urine then you could have a incontinence.which is also common
There are two main types of incontinence\'s
• stress incontinence (leakage of urine when you cough, laugh, bend over or exercise)
• urge incontinence with overactive bladder (the sudden urge to pass urine, and maybe not reaching the toilet in time).
Many women have both types together and this is called mixed incontinence
Another reason is that if you are sexual active you may well of caught a sexual disease which you will need to vist your local clinic for.
It can be embarrassing for young girls to go to there parents or doctor but i would advice you to go to your doctor to get it checked out.
Its hard for me to answer your question in proper detail as i don\'t know what is soaking your knickers but i have tried to answer it as much as possible and i hope it helps
Thank you for writing to me for help and hope everything goes ok
Carrey x
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So my boyfriend & I recently discovered we both had chlyamdia. I got it cured. But my boyfriend on the other hand, hasn't yet. He went but they sent him somewhere else, anyways we were messing around we been using condoms since we found out but I was messing around & I was teasing him & didn't think anything of it but I just licked the top of his dick (the head) & just remembered you can get chlymadia through oral. I didn't think about it, but it was literally just a lick. Not a suck or anything. One lick! Lol he didn't cum or anything. Is there a chance I have a chlymadia? Please answer asap! (link)
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Firstly id advice you to get your boyfriend down to a clinic as soon as possible to get help to get rid of it before it progresses and can end up making him infertile, and cause later problems where he may not be able to get rid of the Chlamydia. And i doubt that just a lick can cause you to get it again but if you are worried i would also go to the clinic for a rest of mind. But i don't think you would of caught it again through just a lick.
Hope this helps
Carrey x
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Hello advicenators,
I am going to be buying a "new used" car pretty soon. I got a new job recently and I will be able to afford the payments. Im looking to spend somewhere in the $18-25,000 range. I don't want to buy something I'll regret with that amount of money. I have never bought from a dealership before.
What are some tips? What are some things I should look out for (Any salesmen tricks I should be wary of, or extra things that I shouldn't be paying for?) I'm a girl in my 20s that knows pretty much nothing about cars (other than how to fill up oil and change a tire-the basics) and I totally expect to be taken advantage of when it comes to cars. I'm not stupid but there's a lot of car stuff I don't know.
So anything helps, really. I'm going to do some test drives this weekend. I've researched and decided on a couple of different makes and models based on extensive internet searches and reviews. I would like to be prepared before I go.
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Hello,
My first tip is i would shop around at all your local dealerships and find the place your going to get the best deal from, also make sure the car has recent mot and tax on and has also not done too many miles on the clock. Always buy a car with Full Service History.
I would also advice you to go to main dealerships and not little company ones as your more likely to get your moneys worth and not conned at a major dealership.
Have a look about only too that can always help.
But my main advice is make sure your chosen car has good service history as then your also he saving money when you get your car serviced as you dont want to spend more money on servicing your car then what the car cost.
Sorry thats all the tips i can give at the moment and i hope this help you with finding yourself a car and good luck. Thank you for coming to me for help.
Carrey-Anne x
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What to when your mom calls you a hore and stupied and you buy a gift for her and she throws it in your face and threatens to beat you with fishing pole (link)
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My first questions is how old are you? And does your mum have a drinking or drug abuse problem to make her this aggressive towards you? As sometimes its not you as a person it can be the substance abuse people are taking that can make them that why but there are alot of free call lines out there where you can get help and advice from people. I would also call the police if the hitting starts again, no matter what your mother should not be hitting you.
Hope this help
Carrey Anne (England)
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okay so im a virgin but my boyfriend isn't... I want to have sex with him im just worried that his dick will be to big and wont fit... (im very tight) we cant even fit two fingers in and he is kinda big.... what if it doesn't fit then what do I do? (link)
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Women's vaginas are very stretchable and a women will expand to whatever goes in with the right sort of self made aka women's pre sex moisture or lubricant so i wouldn't worry about it not fitting no matter how small you are it will fit but the thing you mentioned about barely fitting his fingers thats not down to you being to small thats down to there not being enough lubricant down there. Before you have sex gave foreplay first and explore each other sexually that will get you aroused and wet downstairs and then go for the sex because if you just try and go for it without arousal first then it can hurt alot and can cause inside damage so make sure you prep first whether its foreplay, porn or whatever suits you both sexually but make sure there's enough lubricant before having intercourse
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Me and my boyfriend have just started dating, and he already wants a kid. I am 17 and he is 18, I love kids, BUT I'm not 100% I'm ready. I am a girl to likes to go out and have fun. Any suggestions on how to handle it? (link)
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Firstly you both have only been dating not long so having a child isn't a wise idea as having a child can cause alot of pressure into a relationship but the main thing is it sounds like he is moving abit fast in your new relationship and that you do not want a child is a fair statement for your age but you need to talk to him about this if you want to carry on in this relationship and just tell him your not ready for a child you feel your to young and want to live life abit more before you consider children, and ask him does he truly think its wise to have a child so young and in such a new relationship? Can you financially bring a child up and support a child? And that will make him think more realistically about the decision. Hope it goes well
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my friends wife wants to have sex with me because she is not sexually satisfied with her husband what should i do please help me. (link)
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Do not have sex with her, is she really worth your friendship with her husband? I would tell her that you are not willing to have sex with her as she is your friends wife and its not worth losing your friend over, id also tell her she needs to speak with her husband and discuss with him what the problem is and why shes bot feeling satisfied, and if she carries on asking you then i would tell your friend. Tell her your the wrong person to do this with and of she isn't happy to consider maybe ending the marriage as it may hurt your friend his wife leaving but her cheating on him with you will hurt him more and can also leads to later in life trust issues for him.
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can you get a STD from male masterbation (link)
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Most definitely cannot catch an std whilst masterbating. Masterbating is one the most safest ways to have sexual pleasure so i wouldn't worry yourself about that. But if you have had sexual intercourse with another person and you are worried about having an std then i would go and visit your local sexual health clinic and get tested just for your peace of mind.
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i dont have an orgasm at all during sex or with foreplay is there something wronge with me? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you at all, alot of women experience not being able to orgasm. Explore yourself sexually what feels better and what doesn't and also try different positions and foreplay techniques and find out which way you enjoy most. Or it could be down to you not being aroused much before intercourse, try foreplay first and then sexual intercourse that may help you. I do agree with as we dont know your age it could be down to you being to young ect but i would try different sexual techniques to help. There is also lots of advice on the internet that help women who cannot orgasm.
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I fuck my wife on her backhole and she got bleeding she is a degree student and will she become pregnent ?? (link)
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Firstly no your wife most definitely will not fall pregnant if you are having anal sex, as a women's anal isn't connected to get cervix or womb what so ever so i wouldn't worry about that and she probably bleeds due to not enough lubricant or due to how you are having sex, for example position, how rough your going ect. But it is nothing to worry about a few women can bleed by having intercourse in this area it is normal but if it continues after a certain amount of times or length of time then i would advise to go to the doctor just incase she has piles or something.
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Hey! So I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 23!
So my boyfriend if about 5 and a half years decided to join the navy. This is amazing news and I am very happy for him! He went to normal bootcamp about 2 weeks ago and I've really missed him. I know I have a long road ahead though because his scores actually qualified him to continue after bootcamp and go to California for BUDS, which if he completes will further him on his way to become a navy SEAL.
I'm really happy for him and think this is awesome! Plus I'm just finishing up my senior year in college and will be applying to PA school in December so I've definitely been busy! We've done long distance so I'm used to the not seeing for a bit at some points but am a little scared of not knowing the process.
Has anyone known someone whose gone through this and can tell me if during BUDS they have weekends off? It's 7 months long and I'm wanting to maybe visit! I know I can ask him all of this in a letter but I'm still waiting for my first one. And I also don't want to stress him out too much cause he has so much on his plate.
I wouldn't trade him for the world and I know that this process is just beginning but I thought the support from y'all would help :) I'm really lucky to have such a good family and friends and that I'm a fairly independent person.
Any kind of advice/support will help! Thank y'all for reading and responding! (link)
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I wouldn't stress yourself out about it too much as its only the beginning and if you stressing now what are you going to be like when he gets i to the navy? Long distance can be hard and put pressure on the relationship especially when its lengths of time. He will be able to get a weekend off for you to vist if its 7 months long. But the best advice is to keep yourself busy and maybe try and ring him or get him to ring you if thats possible and that will keep your mind at rest, regular contact whether is over the phone, or internet is always very reassuring. I was with someone in the army and he would go away 9 months to a year at a Time sometimes and i found it hard but what made it better what the regular contact we had whether it was once a week it put my mind and rest. But keep up the support your giving him and it will all fall into place one way or the other, but try and find out about the regular phone calls or internet if he has access ect and your find yourself relax alot more :)
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Today is my 23rd birthday and he didn't even get me anything. I don't even want much just something to feel special but no. We have a long distance relationship and I had a party Saturday that he wasn't able to come to because he couldn't afford the 500$ ticket but he was able to go out that night and spend over 100$ on drinks. He told me he feels like an awful boyfriend but then today on my birthday he tells me he's going to the casino on Thursday... So I'm guessing he doesn't feel that awful. On his birthday I made a huge deal I sent him a care package, visited him, and bought dinner and some other things for dessert. But he can't even send a card or anything. Am I just over thinking this and being a brat? Or is it time to rethink my involvement in this one sided relationship (link)
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No you are not being a brat or over thinking this and you have every right to feel that the relationship is all one sides, Before you start considering whether to end your relationship or not i would raise the issue you have within the relationship with him and explain how you feel that you make the effort and that you feel he doesn't make the effort and see what he has to say. You never know he may have a surprise for you as its your birthday. I also think that the long distance is putting some pressure on your relationship as i can relate to this. But you will be able to decide whether you should carry on with this relationship or whether to end it by what he has to say when you raise the issues you are having in this relationship. And on the money side of thing maybe he has a good explanation as to why hes going to a casino when he told you he had no money, but on the other side him going out and spending only £100 and not being able to afford the £500 ticket to your party is a big difference in the price so maybe he had enough to go out but just not enough to get to your birthday, i would speak with him before you make any decisions that you may later regret. I hope this has helped x
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