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what if..... it doesnt fit!?!
okay so im a virgin but my boyfriend isn't... I want to have sex with him im just worried that his dick will be to big and wont fit... (im very tight) we cant even fit two fingers in and he is kinda big.... what if it doesn't fit then what do I do?
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Women's vaginas are very stretchable and a women will expand to whatever goes in with the right sort of self made aka women's pre sex moisture or lubricant so i wouldn't worry about it not fitting no matter how small you are it will fit but the thing you mentioned about barely fitting his fingers thats not down to you being to small thats down to there not being enough lubricant down there. Before you have sex gave foreplay first and explore each other sexually that will get you aroused and wet downstairs and then go for the sex because if you just try and go for it without arousal first then it can hurt alot and can cause inside damage so make sure you prep first whether its foreplay, porn or whatever suits you both sexually but make sure there's enough lubricant before having intercourse
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The vagina is extraordinary.
It accommodates a many things..
If you're not over-fantasizing your b/f's penis, then, you're main problem isn't having sex...
You problem is the "prep for sex"...
If your a virgin and.....
If his dick is HUGE....
then penetration IS NOT THE WAY TO GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
You need dick flick clit teletubby thons...
before the whole sex thing..
Ease on down the road Dorothy said (Wizard of Oz)
Not "Blow that motherf**ka up! (Set It Off).
I hope you get it...
Take your time Doll
Good Luck
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I agree with Kittenlover. Once you have sex for the first time, it'll loosen you up and it'll be more enjoyable after that. If not, keep using fingers and eventually it'll get easier for you two to have sex.
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Everyone's tight at first. Just remember persistence is key. Only need to do it the once and you'll be fine. Tell him to be gentle.
Humans are designed to be able to 'fit' like that. How else would the human race survive?
If you can't manage the first time just carry on with the fingers abit to help loosen you. Other than that I wouldn't worry. Its not like you're trying to reproduce just yet.
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