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secret sex with boyfriend at 13
Im 13 and my boyfriends turning 14 soon and for.his birthday we want to have sex, but we have no place to do it. Im never trusted to leave the house so im always inside and hes not aloud inside my house. We really wanna try even though were too young. We just need help about when and where we can do it. I thought about school but they have cameras everywhere and i live next to the school so i cant just go somewheres else. Im really stuck and i need help asap. We may be young but we just want to try. Any ideas? Im open to anything.
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Having sex with a partner is only one piece of this journey you began when beginning to go through the first changes of puberty. There is much more to it. Since it looks like there is no place to try it let alone a time when you two can be alone together, I suggest focusing on all the other aspects of your sexual debut. This includes things such as getting familiar with your bodys sexual areas, inside and out. Get used to looking at yourself down there in a mirror, touching yourself inside. Do you know what your cervix feels like? Have you discovered your g-spot yet? Have you tried clitoral stimulation to achieve an orgasm? Its not about losing virginity or losing anything but about gaining all sorts of experiences.
I have a favorite you tube channel I share with teens. The videos are many, all short 3-4 minutes, on positive sexuality and relationships with focus on young people and the gal is in her early 20s and really researches and knows her stuff. Has worked together with Planned Parenthood.
Here's some of Laci's links. I recommend eventually watching all her videos. Save her page and go back often. You'll be referring to it lots over the next 5 years and beyond.
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Well if you don't have a place to do it, you obviously can't. Plus you really shouldn't do it somewhere that's not a bedroom. You're not old enough to get a hotel room either so I don't think you have any other options.
Besides that, I doubt you'd want to remember your first time having sex in a school or some other lame place. Have some class :)
Also, you're 13. I'm guessing you're not on birth control? You don't want to get pregnant so if you actually do go through with this, which I advise that you don't, you need to be on birth control. You don't want any accidents..especially at 13.
I also think that you won't enjoy it since it will hurt like crazy for you. You're 13 so you're body is just barely developing. That means that it will definitely hurt.
So it won't be that great of a memory, you'll probably regret it, and it'll hurt a lot. So reconsider until you're older, have protection and actually have a place to do it.
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Do not have sex with your boyfriend. You are 13 years old. That is way too young. You just want to "try" it. That's a dumb reason. Anyone on here will not give a 13 year old advice on when and where to have sex. Do you want to get pregnant at 13? No you do not. You both are way too young to be having sex or even thinking about having sex.
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