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how to do "it"?
okay so im a virgin and my bf isn't.... I want to have sex with him but I don't know what to do.... I am not scared im very excited.... I just need tips on what to do? any advice please???????!???!!???!!!!??? (im 19 btw)
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What you need to do is just have good communication with your boyfriend. For your first time, you're probably not going to be doing any complicated positions or anything so you just need to be relaxed and confident with your boyfriend.
Make sure he uses enough lubricant and definitely make sure you guys use protection. Also, make sure you're on birth control. You don't want any accidents.
As long as he's careful and gentle, you'll be fine.
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The best thing to do is to tell your boyfriend you’re a virgin. The reasons for this are two.
First and foremost you want him to be gentle and to make this special for you. If he is of your same age he is most likely not all that skilled himself and sex is somewhat of wham bam affair.
Second; be he your first and only sexual partner or the first of a few. In order to have a good relationship with anyone communication is important. Communication in a sexual relationship is also important for sex to successful for both of you. You both need to communicate your sexual needs to each other. At this point for you, your need is to be gently taken into the world of adult sex. Later once you are comfortable having him inside you. You can them explore different avenues of sexual needs but this takes being open with each other as to your preferences and desires.
IF you do this both in and out of bed you will have a successful relationship. Most relationships fail because they are built on poor foundations. If you build a relationship strictly on chemistry sexual needs. One day you’re going to wake up and find you have nothing in common and the relationship flounders.
Before you have sex with him you should see your doctor and be on the contraceptive pill and wait until it is affective. You're and adult know you do not need parental permission.
Your doctor will tell you when the pill has taken effect. Also NEVER have sex with anyone unless he wears a condom. This not only provides extra protection against pregnancy but provides protect against the transmission of many STDS and the HIV/AIDS virus. Remember when you have unprotect sex with someone you are having sex with everyone he has had unprotected sex within the past. IF he will not wear a condom for you then he does not have the proper respect for you and you should not have se with him.
When I was your age the girls had a saying; "No rubber, no lover." It was just that simple. No condom they kept their legs closed.
I hope your first sexual experience is everything you hoped it to be.
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