|
friends wife wants me to have sex with her
my friends wife wants to have sex with me because she is not sexually satisfied with her husband what should i do please help me.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Do not have sex with her, is she really worth your friendship with her husband? I would tell her that you are not willing to have sex with her as she is your friends wife and its not worth losing your friend over, id also tell her she needs to speak with her husband and discuss with him what the problem is and why shes bot feeling satisfied, and if she carries on asking you then i would tell your friend. Tell her your the wrong person to do this with and of she isn't happy to consider maybe ending the marriage as it may hurt your friend his wife leaving but her cheating on him with you will hurt him more and can also leads to later in life trust issues for him.
]
Do not have sex with her. Instead suggest she talk with her husband about what her sexual needs are. The biggest problem in a marriage is a lack of communication, especially concerning our sexual needs.
Sex between a man and wife is a learned experience if it is to be a successful experience. The only way to know if one is pleasing the other is to communicate. She should be teaching him how she likes to be touched; where she likes to be touched. She may be more clitoral than vaginal. How is he to know this if she does not tell him? Maybe she stills likes a little seduction in her sex life instead of; "hey babe lets mess up the sheets" or words to that effect. This is not going to happen unless she communicates it to him. The same goes for him, he needs to tell her what he likes and does not like. Most importantly what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Meaning nothing in the way of a sex act between them is off limits or weird as long as they both consent to it; if either one says no then it is no.
Maybe the missionary position with her on the bottom does not do it for her any more. She needs to speak up. I'm sure they both have some fantasy or two. If they talk about them they may just be able to try acting them out. Whatever turns them on is fine in the privacy of their bedroom provided it is mutually consensual.
Instead of agreeing to have sex with her tell her what I have written. Communicating will save her marriage where having sex with you might end her marriage. As a last resort they could consult a sex therapist. There would be no shame if they felt they needed to. As I said sex is a learned experience and there is no shame asking for help.
]
Well obviously don't sleep with her.
You should talk to her and tell her that they should try new things or go seek professional help in that area.
Just don't get involved in their marriage.
]
This is just my opinion, but maybe you can subtly tell your friend some ways to improve his performance. Or have his wife do it. But DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIS WIFE. Let her know that you will not betray your friend like that. And if she continues to persist, then I think you need to tell your friend.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
]
More Questions: |