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I need advice: I feel like I am the only one putting effort into our relationship.
I have been dating this girl for a good 4 days but before we started dating she would hug on me and all that good stuff and now she does not and she would text me every day and now she does not sometimes i wont hear from her all day if i text her she wont text back some times and its like she is not even putting an effort into or relationship and there will be opportunities for us to see each other but she rarely takes it and just the way she talks and even texts me sounds well here is just one example. the other day we went on a double date and latter that night i sent her a text.
me: i enjoyed spending time with you tonight and i hope we get to be together more
her: i enjoyed it to. we had fun. i wish to hang out more to. goodnight
and its the hang out part that annoys me thats what she calls us spending time togrther she tells people we are togther but she does not talk or even really act like it and its to the point i want to just break up with her i dont want to but i just dont want to be in a relationship where i'm the only one putting an effort into it. what should i do
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Ok, well it's only been for days and you're considering breaking up with her.
My advice? Talk to her. Ask her why he is acting like this. Don't text her about this. Face to face talk. Don't accuse her of anything, don't say that she is a problem. Just calmly ask her why she is acting like this.
I mean it's been a few days so maybe there's more to it. Just give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she's having some other problems and they've been occupying her mind.
If this continues on, then reconsider your relationship. Right now, you need to talk to her. Communication is important or the relationship will not work.
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i am in the same sticky situation. me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. And he hasnt treated me the same after the 4th month..my advice to you, is to just hang on. if you love her like you think you do, you'll do anything and everything to be with her. maybe try to talk to her...and if she avoids the conversation, consider breaking up. but jump jump right to breaking up, give it time, it can either go up or downhill. if your relationship continues on this pattern, pull the plug. just hold on and see what comes next.
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