adviceman49 answered Thursday April 4 2013, 10:56 am: This is what masturbation is all about; relieving sexual frustration and learning about your bodies sexual likes and dislikes. Masturbation is a normal part of life, according to a recent survey over 85% of the population masturbates. It is also part of foreplay when having sex though then it is called mutual masturbation when one partner does so to the other. If a boy has ever fingered you he is masturbating you.
In the privacy of your bedroom, with the door locked so you are not disturbed or intruded upon, through masturbation you will learn about your sexual needs and pleasures. You will learn where you like to be touched and how you like to be touched while at the same time relieving your own sexual frustration in a manner that is safe from pregnancy.
When you are older and ready for a sex life you will then be able to teach your partner how to satisfy you. Yes, sex is all about learning and teaching. We need to learn about ourselves and then when time comes we need to teach are partners what we like and dislike. They need to teach us about what their likes and dislikes are as well. This is how you make love. Anything else is something else and not very satisfactory. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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