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Should I tell the guy I like him?
Hi,
So I like this guy from my work, and I think he may have liked me as well, but then when he recently he found out about my age, I noticed that he has been cautious ever since. ( I'm 17 and he's going to turn 23) . I want to tell him that I like him, because I don't want to beat around the bush anymore.
But I don't know if I should, cause what if he rejects me and then our relationship at work is going to change cause its going to feel awkward .. And what if he doesn't find me interesting enough. I'm so unsure of what to do because I want to tell him to get it off my chest , so that if I could at least know then I would be able to stop wasting my time " thinking maybe ? What if he likes me ? " yenno? But at the same time I'm worried that I'd be wasting my breath because what if we're on totally different pages in life ...and so there's no point in telling . Do u think its a good idea ?
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Dear "Should I tell the guy I like him?",
You have a 5 1/2-6 year age difference with this guy, which is completely fine! But...on the other hand, do keep in mind that you are a minor. If he does lay his hand on you, he COULD get in trouble. So maybe that's the reason why he has been cautious. If he is being cautious around you and you tell him you have feelings for him, I think you're going to make the situation worse. And you definitely don't want work to be awkward! I'd say stop thinking about him and keep him at arms length. Perhaps it's better to just be friends.
Signed mooshoomary
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