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What the hell was I thinking??


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 12:51 pm

22/f. Not that any of you can read my mind, but any kind of insight would be wonderful. I apologize for the length here, but I need help.
Okay.
When I was 18, my boyfriend at the time had just broken up with me. He had been emotionally abusive, and quite good at convincing me that I was unattractive. Even so, as the vicious cycle goes, I thought I loved him. So these friends of mine said, "You're hot, who cares what he says? Let's do a photoshoot and we'll show you, and you can show him what he's throwing away."
So we did. But, uh, it got carried away, pretty much, and turned kind of pornographic. Like, straight up shots of my *ahem*, and things...I didn't even remember it getting that carried away. I was de...

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I found my old tamagotchi!


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:40 am

i just got my old tamagotchi to work again. i have the v3. i was wondering if there is anyway to turn it on silent? or something like that? and is there anyway that i can change the username? not the name of my pet, but the screen that says users name.

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He wants to use a condoma and I don't want to so WHY?!


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:33 am

lets go with me and my boyfriend have been having sex im on birth control and when i started going on birth control me and him started not using condoms and i dont really like using them. well the other night he was like i wanna try a condom with lube ok lets try then again last night he used a condom and i was just thinking why again? so i was like um no were not using those i dont like them and hes like really and i go yah. then no b.c i didnt want him to get mad. now all i was thinking hes having sex with someone else wtf! and i felt like if i asked him that hed filp b.c it might or most likely not true. so basically the mood was torn and he got mad b.c i left him hanging and now its weird. and i was like if your going to change the way ...

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weird dream?


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:32 am

ok so i had this extremely weird dream i think it might be a sign or something but i was talking to this guy for a while things were going well until i found out he was telling his friends the things we would do together (mind you we did not have sex) so i got pissed off and stopped talking to him for a while then i kinda brushed it off because i know all guys like to brag to there friends but then again it was somewhat disrespectful anyways recently he has been texting me and so i had this dream that i was in his car and then he dropped me off at his h.s. and left and never came back i remember being really mad and felt rejected in the dream....i don't know it just was really weird and when i woke up it kind of made me think, i'd love to h...

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Do I have mono? or am I psyching myself out?


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:23 am

my lower left quadrant hurts very badly and i lost my voice. i think that i might have mono because some girls on my cheering squad has it, and my best guy friend had sex with someone who two days later caught deadly mono, and he was all over me and did not mention til later that he might be carrying mono. but i did not kiss him or sip off of his cup, yes he breathed on me, and so did one of the cheerleaders that has it. i'm scared that i have it and school is starting up tomorrow and i don't want to be absent the first few weeks of school. when i was little, my twin sister had mono and so did my older sister and i shared a roo with my twin and i still never got it. do you think i am immuned to it? or do you think i caught it when i w...

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sexual intercourse?


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:22 am

alright i am a 16 year old girl turning 17 next month going into my senior year, i feel like everyone in my grade has had sex, i feel a lot of girls feel so nonchalant about it all. I have had a boyfriend and i personally don't think i am ugly, i have never had sex before and i haven't met the right guy i feel i could do that with but i feel kind of insecure i feel that i should of had sex already considering im almost going to college i feel kind of like a loser i don't know i just wanna hear your thoughts on this & what i should do? please no hateful comments :)

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Boyfriends Music


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 9:47 am

Hi, I am 18f and I have a boyfriend the same age. He has one type of music that is his favorite, which is metal... and so that is all he listens to. My dilemma is that I don't really like metal (I can listen to it, but I don't care for it) and the music I listen to (pop,rock,country,almost anything but metal ironically), he doesn't really like. How can we make it so that we both like eachothers kind of music so that we are both happy in a vehicle or at a party? I would really love for him to listen to some of my music that has good lyrics, soul, and a catchy beat rather than head banging stuff all the time, you know? Cuz I believe we could connect on another level if we have music that sets the mood for both of us (hard to have a romatic se...

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I think I may suffer from depression? :'(


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 7:08 am

Ok so im a 14 year old female that is bisexual
This kinda all started late last year,
I don't really understand what's wrong with me, if I'm going insane or wat, but last year I had this little obsession of texting a girl then telling them I liked them and stuff and they would get freaked out so then I would move onto the next. I think it might of been a bit of a high I was getting off it..

Now recently i have had a break up with my girlfriend who meant the world to me and I can't stop loving her,. Every morning I wake up with a really heavy feeling inside me and all I think about is her.. When I'm really down I sonetimes cut my wrist, not very deep but enough for them to bleed.

My moods are also ...

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My Boyfriend Is Sleeping With Someoen Else At Work


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 7:04 am

i been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and years we also work together i only found out he was sleeping wit some one eles that we work wit i went mad i posted it up on facebook and mention both there names he went to t boss and showed him texted messages i sent him in anger sayin i was goin to confront her they both went to hr and reported me i after getin transfered to another site that i cant stand i lost alone and dont know wat to do i want my job back were i was but can they do that it dident happn in t work place i ant even seen her

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What exactly is an orgasm?


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 3:37 am

How does it feel?
And What can i do to get one?
Okay well i'm 18/f and i'm not even sure if i ever
gotten an orgasm.
I've only had sex with one guy we dated since i was 15 and have been dating since. We started having sex after six months of going out and we did it at the park cause we had nowhere else to. And afterwards we just had sex and stuff it kinda hurt but felt sort of good.Then we would have sex at his house and stuff and it would feel good but i don't know if i ever had an orgasm. Someone once told me it was like a climax feeling, but i've never felt that. My friend told me she first got hers when her boyfriend went down on her. But i'm traumatized because one time at the park i told my boyfriend to do ...

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Friends w/ benefits to boyfriend drama


Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 1:45 am

Lets say you are friends with benefits with a guy, but you have never talked about the status of your relationship with each other, as in you were clueless whether he was having sex with other girls as well (but the girl does mention to the guy she's been "talking" -hint hint nudge nudge, know what I mean- with other guys).

Over the course of the months, they become best friends, and then in a relationship. Whilst in the relationship, neither guy nor girl has cheated or done anything remotely bad. But guy didn't realize that girl had slept with other guys since she met him, and gets mad. He forgives her, but girl feels horrible and regretful about her past, and guy is horrified and embarrassed by it, because its a ...

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Why are my emotions fading?


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 11:44 pm

Recently my emotions have been decreasing. My emotions used to be normal, but lately it seems as though they are altering. Some examples are when someone would die or get injured badly I would cry, but when my grandma past away a month ago (who I was very close to), I didn't feel anything. Not happy or sad just nothing. Another example is when I'm with my friends. I used to be happy every time I was with them and now it's blank. I'm finding myself faking laughs or being happy. It's not depression because I'm not sad I'm just, blank. I'm starting to feel like a robot. What should I do? Sorry for making this long.

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What should I do if I want to be refered to as male in high school?


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 11:32 pm

I'm a chick that feels like I was placed in the wrong body (I'm 15). At school it bothers me when I'm called by my real name and gender, but I don't know what to tell people because it would most likely be awkward for them (I'm also the quiet one). It obvious because of how I dress and act. I just don't know what to do. What should I do in this situation?

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jobs hiring


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 8:28 pm

what jobs are hiring 15 year olds in springfield illinois


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feeling lost and confused


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 7:31 pm

Hello,
I have been married for 2 years. My husband seems to feel the need to have female friends. One female friend he has known a very long time and they are like brother/sister.I am actually fine w/their friendship. Today I want out of town and he told me she was going to spend the night at our place as she lives far away. I told him I felt very uncomfortable w/any female spending the night while I am not there. So now he is mad at me,does not see my point and thinks I am wrong for my views on this.
I do have an issue w/his other female friend. They worked together for 1 year and have seemed to develop a very close friendship. I found out that he was holding money for her, they would have lunch at work together. There were r...

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Dried Feet.


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 7:16 pm

I have really bad dried feet. Bottom of foot, inbetween toes, on toes, and top of foot. I've tried scraping my feet with a scissor after I showered and I even put vaseline on my feet with a sock at bedtime. Does anyone know what to get at a drug store or at Bath and Body Works that actually work? Does anyone know any routines on what to do or any materials in the house I can use? And how long does it take to get smooth feet?

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Sexually Confused...


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 5:17 pm

I am a fifteen-year-old student. Just a small-town girl. Living in a loooonely world~ XD Just kidding. I have an amazing boyfriend; we've been together for a solid ten months, and I know I love him with all my heart.

But I've started asking myself a lot of questions lately. It all started at a summer boarding program, in which I was a part of the Theater program. It was basically me locked in a room with fifteen other unique, creative people. This was the first point in which I really noticed a change.

We were playing Truth or Dare. After having so many stereotypical dares (kiss this guy, hump that pole :P :P), everyone just decided to start kissing everybody. I, not really awkwarded out, joined in, making sure...

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the best painless way to commit suicide


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 4:57 pm

Am wanting to find the best and painless way of commiting suicide.

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My Mother's Jealousy


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 3:50 pm

I am getting a Masters in Psychology. A lot of my motivation has been to make my parents proud because they always complain that I'm lazy and they are sometimes scared that I won't succeed in life. So it really hurt me with I overheard my mom tell my grandma that I walk around like I'm on a high horse; as if I demand constant praise because I got into a Masters program which I think is rediculous! I think she's jealous of me because my life is awesome and she, in turn, hates her job and has to deal with a lot of crap from my dad. How should I handle her negative feelings toward me?

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making out at the movies for the first time


Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 3:39 pm

how do u make out with a guy at the movies this is my first time n i need to now what it means an how to do it

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