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How to end it, without breaking his heart.


Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 1:19 am

I've been dating my current boyfriend for over a year now, annd I love the kid to death, but lately I seem to have lost a lot of my feelings towards him. And we were planning on breaking up in a few months anyways when we both go away to school, but I feel if I wait that long, its not fair to him, because I'm not fully in the relationship.. I just need some advice on how to break things off with him without completly breaking his heart, because he gets fairly attached when hes in a relationship, so the easiest way to do it would be best. -17/female.

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the story I can't tell


Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 12:35 am

I have a deep need to write about what my life was like and how I felt when I was a kid. I have kept diaries and journal-ed a lot and this compilation of my history is something I want to put down. I know it is theraputic and self-expanding and difficult at time to do this but I am even more afraid that if I am honest and the deeper parts of my childhood that were unhappy at best, will really upset my mother. It sometimes makes me feel paralyzed and I freeze on the spot hearing her voice saying "Why are you telling that? Must you bring up these things and betray me like this? How dare you.". I know good writers plow through and I suppose just have to decide to not care one whit what anybody thinks about what they write, they will ...

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anyone majoring in fashion merchandising?


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 10:21 pm

I am graduating this year and am considering majoring in fashion merchandising. I've always been interested in fashion and I think I could be good with business. I don't have like a super awesome style but I'm very interested. anyone have any advice on it or info? thanks a ton!

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How to tell a guy u like him without pushing it


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 9:57 pm

i really need help
how do i tell a guy i like him without sonuding pushy or nervous

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Dont know how to answer a question!!!!!


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 9:52 pm

Ok so our school dance is coming up and this really sweet guy asked me out to the dance. I wanna say yes but I am afraid everyone will make fun of me. HELP!

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Awkward in person


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 9:01 pm

Okay so I know that whole "it's only awkward if you make it awkward" phrase will probably apply here, but anyhow: I have a crush on a guy in my class. I'm 99% sure that he likes me back (he constantly stares at me and does all that body language stuff). But the problem here is that I never really get a chance to talk to him. I say little more than "hi" to him everyday, somethings a few sentences if I'm lucky. But online I've talked to him for hours. I'm afraid that I'm getting into the bad habit of not talking to him in person and that it might become awkward? We're going to the same party next week and I want to know how to talk to him without being all weird. He always makes me feel nervous at first, but when we start ...

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laberdodels at home while were at school or work


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 8:49 pm

are laberdodels ok by thier self for acouple hours.

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Jobs in Illinois that hire at 14 y.o


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 8:14 pm

I am a fourteen year old female turning fifteen in December so relatively soon. I want to get a job at like a store preferably or perhaps a movie theatre or ice cream shop.. So if I got a work permit where could I work?

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I don't feel sympathy for others...


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 8:13 pm

14/f

I wouldn't say I'm a bad person. I don't like the fact that I don't have sympathy. But it's difficult. If it doesn't really concern me I don't feel sad for your sake..

For example..Today one of my classmates boyfriend's killed himself and she is pregnant with his child.
We are reading a book called Tears of a Tiger in class and it has a shit load on suicide and depression and guilt and death in it. And while discussing it she burst out crying and ran out of the room.

I know this is a terrible situation for her but I just can't muster any sympathy. I could fake it but that's just pretend..

I don't know what's wrong with me.

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itunes backup


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 6:14 pm

when itunes asks if you want to backup your library, what exactly does that mean? if i decide to do it...will i be able to access my purchases on another computer if mine were to break? please help! (and try to describe it as if you were talking to an 8 year old lol)

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matching clothes for saides aka school dance


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 6:01 pm

kay so i have a dance coming up next week and its called sadies aka girls choice dance and the girls have to choose out matching outfits for them and i dont know what to do.
the theme is going hollywood soo any ideas let me know!(: please and thank you! (:

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acne scars


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 5:39 pm

i have acne marks. the brownish ones. what's a cheap drugstore lotion or something that i can get that will fade them?

i have sensitive skin.
and i want it to be guaranteed to work.

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Ballet Flats for men


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 4:22 pm

What would be gender neutral ballet flats that a man could wear everyday?

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For people who have two dogs!


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 2:50 pm

Ok I have a 3 year old westie And a 15 week old Maltese. Both are females. I got the maltese at 8 weeks. The two have sniffed eachother and sat next to eachother but that's it. My older dog was in her cage and the little one was running around she went by her cage and they both got down and that playful way. But the big one growled and almost bit the little one through the cage. What should I do? When is it ok for them to play? The Maltese is only 2.5 pounds and the big
one is 14 pounds.

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planing on quitting


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 12:07 pm

Iv came to a point in my life where I'm deciding to quit smoking but my main concern is stress .that's why I smoke .working two jobs and dealing with people all day becomes stressfull for me .I don't smoke at home just at work and iv been hideing this from my wife for quite some time .the cologne the gum mothwash you name it .but its realy taking its toll on me ciggerets make me tired and I'm ready to quit now so I need help .what's the easist way to quit

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Clear retainers.


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 9:19 am

I just got my braces of a week ago, after 3 years and was given new clear retainers, but im really concerned as my bottom row of retainers look like they havent been molded to my teeth during getting the mold taken because there are no contours in them, my top row are fine and fit perfectly but i feel like my bottom row of teeth are moving slightly already as the bottom set are quite a bit slacker than my top set. What should I do, because i do not want my teeth to be crooked after 3 years of braces !!!

Thanks in advance !!

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Best Funny Jokes To Tell Friends?


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 6:40 am

I want to tell my best friends some funny jokes but I don't really know any good or funny jokes that my friends would like or laugh at. Got any I can share? THANKKKKKKS

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guilty feelings


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 2:10 am

For some reason whenever I am enjoying a perfectly happy moment and then my mind starts to analyze and go all..."why are you so happy, remember when...or what about this overdue bill or that mistake you made 10 years ago or..even...the dog needs a walk and you have not taken him and he is probably wanting to go...blah, blah, blah. I mean, insane stuff that makes me laugh out loud sometimes at the ridiculousness of it, but still, that little voice pops up and drives me nuts...why is this always butting into my happy space? I'm not Jewish or Catholic (joke) but it would be a great excuse, but is there some normalcy to this or should I just pack my Bin bag, as in "Looney" and maybe take up herion or extasy....dang, anything to shut that thing up, dude.

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self conscious


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 12:16 am

on the inside, i am an insecure person. people who really truly know me know that, many do not. i am constantly saying negative things about myself. people think that im doing it to get positive feedback and responses. to me, ive always put myself down since i can remember. the only reason i do it is because it makes me feel comfortable to point out my flaws before someone else has time to criticize them. how can i try to control myself from saying these things. its basically a reflex at this point. and i have been working on my insecurities over the years, and although they have dwindled, when it comes down to it, i am just a self conscious person at my core. basically, i just need some advice. how do i stop myself from criticizing myself openly? how can i ever really like myself? thanks

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Bipolar relationship


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 12:01 am

Ive known this guy, ill call him ricky, for about five months and we hit it off really good. About a month ago we realized we like each other so we started talking. We hung out almost everyday and things were great. He introduced me to his family, I introduced him to mine. Now let me tell you about April. April doesn't like Ricky because she gets a "bad vibe" from him. Rocky isn't the greatest person but I know everything about him, April just assumes things. Well ricky doesn't like April because she always tries to argue with him. I recently started hanging out with April and my relationship/friendship with Ricky is falling apart fast. I'm not sure what to do anymore. He called me a couple of days ago and told me how he thinks I'...

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