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Whats he thinking about this?!
20f. joe -18, almost 19
this might be long but i know this will bug me so i need an outsiders perspective and i will return the favor!
so I've been friends with joe for about 5 years now, we call each other best friend. we use to be really close but we started fading within the last yr, i've always had feelings for him and i still hate texting him first, etc. he graduated high school and moved 4hrs away to go play hockey beginning of sept. since he is really good. i haven't seen him since end of july. i said i wanted to do a road trip and go watch him play sometime this yr. we weren't friends on facebook and he adds me two nights ago. i accept him and write: joseph how were we not friends on here? i hope everything\'s going good ..i miss you!! text me, i'll let ya now when we're thinking about coming to see ya. he texted me tonight, this was our convo:
him: whats going on
me: joseph i miss you! how are things going, tell me everything.
him: there going pretty good. its a lot of work but not bad
me: i'm sure your getting into good shape. have you had any pre-season games, how do you think you guys are gonna do this yr?
him: yea we had five. we should be pretty good
me: how are your teammates, do you have any hot ones for your best friend
him: Haha i don't know you would have to see that. but there nice.
me: i love how much help you always are! can you just come home i don't want you there anymore (trying to be cute about it ha)
him: how come? haha
me: because i can't even remember the last time i saw you ..don't you think that's kinda sad? then you just leave me!
him: yea i wish i could come home too
me: well me tara (my friend) and nate (my cousin, his friend also) wanna come in november when you guys play omaha so i'm thinking that's when. unless you wanna quit and come home i mean that would be ok too ;)
him: i can't quit haha that would be fine if you came then. its a ways from now tho haha
me: haha i know i wouldn't want you to quit but it is far away. you will just be more happy to see me though won't you don't even lie
him: yep i would
me: hey don't sound so excited. i don't wanna come anymore i'll just send tara and nate.
he never responded after that. i was obviously joking about my last comment. he knows how i'm sarcastic but after i sent that and he never responded i was like crap i shouldn't of said that. what should i do? just not text him and wait awhile? wait for him to text me? do you think he got mad i said that or what? if i texted him tomorrow like i was kidding about not coming he would probably just be like "i know" and make me look dumb. i'm worried now!! and i'm so lucky to be close with him, all the girls want him they act like he's a superstar and i feel special he actually texts me when i want him to. all these girls write on his facebook and he never responds but always does to me ..but seriously he's the most down to earth guy you could ever meet. i tell him everything because he's the only guy i trust. we talked about having sex next time we saw each other before he left (5 yrs of knowing him .. i insisted we had sex ..i cant resist him any longer) ..and i was like well be ready then next time i see you ;) don't comment about us having sex, but if he doesn't come home and the next time i see him is when i go there in november i'd be up to doing it then ;) how can i kind of bring this up to him to get him excited and remind him about it? or do i not and just see what happens when we get there? i wanna see how he feels about it though. i was thinking about saying "because i haven't seen you in so long and because i want you ;)" something like that when he asked why i wanted him to come home. i actually think he was thinking i'd say something like that. i don't like to blunt like "so would you be up to having sex when i came there?" i like to be more flirty and get the point across like that.
ugh i don't know! any suggestions???!
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Wow, that was a lot of reading.Sweetie, I think that you love this guy. My advice to you is to not be serious about talkin to him about sex. Just joke around about it and if you end up spending any alone time with him, make the first move. I have no idea what he could've meant about it's a ways from now tho..maybe he was talking about the end of the season? Or just joking about how far away he is? I truly have no idea. As far as the sex goes, I find no problem in you wanting to have sex with him. You are an adult and you can make your own decisions. Just be careful.
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