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utterly confused: We are in relationships with other people... BUT...
Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 7:27 pm
To start out, I am 20/F. My boyfriend of 6 years is 21. We have lived together since we were really young, about 17/18 years old. Our relationship has been practically perfect, we have always been best friends and we get along great. This summer, however, I went away to work at an internship. This wasn't the first time we had been apart for long, in fact, we dated for a year long distance, so being away at camp was nothing compared to that. But at this internship, I met another guy. We became great friends, and felt a really REALLY strong connection to each other. He is married, and I of course am in a serious relationship, so we never let our relationship go further than really close friends... until the last night, we shared our feelings ...
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Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 3:47 pm
why would my ex boyfriend call me a bitch
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Cheating boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 1:46 pm
I've been dating my bf for 3 1/2 months I really adore him but I have a feeling he might be cheating. I'm really emotionally unstable and untrusting because of all my past relationships so its hard for me to trust. I saw a dick pic on his phone that wasn't sent to me but then he explained that he was gonna sext me one night when we were talking dirty etc. I got so upset and he got really upset and apologized for everything and said I was his world and he didn't want to lose me. He is always there to reasure me that things are ok and always answers questions when I have them. Also what bothered me was that he didn't shave for a week and said he was too lazy to (he usually shaves everyday), he changed up his haircut a bit because he said he w...
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Not sexually attracted to the man I love
Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 1:38 pm
20/f
So I've been dating this guy for almost three years now and he is the absolute best boyfriend he can be. He treats me very well, is always thinking of me and is very sweet. We've always gotten along and hardly ever argue about anything serious. The thing that's been bothering me lately is that I don't feel as sexually attracted to him as I once was. Every time I know he's about to make a move, I turn away or start doing something else and I don't even know why. I'm not ever in the mood for it anymore. I don't like to make out anymore or do anything sexual. I love him to death and I could see myself marrying him one day. I just don't understand how to make this better. I hate not being in the mood especially when he is. What sho...
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He broke my trust (english is not first language)
Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 5:07 am
Hi, im 21 years old girl. im loving him deeply. but he dumb me. he was very nice n was loving me but last 7 months he was cheated me. now i knw everything about him. but i still love him. i dont want to loss him but i really dont want to loss my self respect. feeling very upset n lonely. i wont b able to handle my self. please suggest me how can i solve this metter n how teach him that waht im facing. how can i get him back with that love.
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Husband walked out, took all the money and the car, left two kids behind (one is his) what would you do?
Posted Monday July 22 2013, 9:57 pm
I was married almost 4 years. We had our problems he stole from my son (his step son) would sell his video games and say he just found a bunch of money he stole a generator from my father and sold it and got caught he got two years probation. He walked out 2 weeks ago took all our money our only car my driver license.( i dont miss him or anything i think our marriage died along time ago) Left me with two children (we have one child together) and the bills i had a full time job but couldnt get back and forth to work i was walking 6 miles with my two kids back and forth to work. I got off work at 10 pm. My brother finally came and got me I didnt have any family there. I moved (12 hours away) I havent talked to him he hasnt even tried to conta...
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Sex.... Should I or Shouldn't I Give Him My Virginity For His Birthday?
Posted Monday July 22 2013, 2:14 am
16 Female
Both male and female answers.... but I mostly want a guys opinion on this! Thanks :)
I like this guy and he likes me. We are going out. He is 18 and I'm 16. He has already had sex. And I haven't. He wants to have sex, not right asap, but he doesn't want to have to wait so long for it. I understand what he means by it because I care about him and I don't want him to feel like he doesn't get pleasure in that way. He respects that I'm a virgin and doesn't pressure me into having sex, and that I'm nervous about having it. His birthday is in two months and I was thinking about giving in to him then. My one question is am I ready to have sex with him? Or do I just hold off on it. My other question is would his birthday be a good time to give him sex?
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How should I feel about our financial situation? What's the next step?
Posted Sunday July 21 2013, 11:39 pm
I know love is just supposed to be about love but realistically financial situations can easily ruin a relationship and I think it's already starting to tear apart mine.
Here's the deal. I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months of now and we're doing really good. He's become my best friend and I almost believe he's my soul mate as silly as that sounds.
We'd never really fought before last night but I finally hit a weak point with him on the topic of money.
He's 21 and his parents pay for almost everything. He lives in an apartment outside his parents home and they pay for his schooling and rent. All he has to pay is like $100 a month for car insurance on the car that was given to him also by hi...
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How does online dating really work?
Posted Sunday July 21 2013, 9:53 pm
My friends keep telling me to try online dating sites because its a good way to meet new people but I'm kinda skeptical about it. For instance if I do go on and I see someone I'm interested do I message them first or wait for them to message me. If I messaged a guy first would I look desperate. And how long do you talk to someone on these sites before you exchange numbers or decide to meet. Tell me what you think.
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What do I do on the days the flashbacks get a little too much to handle?
Posted Sunday July 21 2013, 7:21 am
My ex and I broke up a few weeks back. There are times when I feel really happy but because he's in my class in school, I always hide my real feeling i.e sadness at times and missing him. The thing is, he's upset because of his family issues. Though I'm not sure about it, I feel as ifhe doesn't miss me. The times when Im happy are amazing, I'm just myself. But what do I do when I feel like I'm stuck somewhere where I can't go infront without my past blocking out my future completely? I don't want to go back and relive the last four months in my head; but when the memories start rushing back, what do I do? There is a limit to which I can shut myself out and distract myself with work, friends, etc. What do I do in the times I feel as if there is nothing left?
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is he two-faced?
Posted Sunday July 21 2013, 12:10 am
My boyfriend says he loves me sooo much. We've been together 6 years. He jokes around a lot. He's cheated on me in the past, I know this may sound bad but today when I went to the store I set up a voice recorder before I left. He was beggin me to go boat riding. But told his friend on the phone he'd prefer I didn't go so he would have more fun and look at bikinis. I confronted him and he says it was said as a joke, I really don't know what to think... any advice? Btw we are in our 30s
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No trust, and Paranoid
Posted Saturday July 20 2013, 5:16 pm
Hi,
21/m
Me and my girlfriend (sort of) have been together for about 5 months. She wasn't officially my girlfriend until a couple months ago. Then she felt that it was moving too quickly, so we went back to just being boyfriend and girlfriend in all but name.
My issue is about the lack of trust now. Everything seemed fine (even switching from gf and bf to not) until recently. She met someone at work - someone who helped her with a job application, and they seem to text each other constantly. And I see her smiling at her phone, and it makes me paranoid. I asked her who she was textong and with a smile on a face (the smile someone does when they're blatantly lying) she said no one. I asked her a ...
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In Need Advice ASAP
Posted Saturday July 20 2013, 12:30 pm
28 year old female.
I need help! I dont know what to do. Yesterday my boyfriend of almost a year used my phone to check his facebook messages. Well he left it logged on and I didn't realize it until I got a notification on my phone saying I recieved a message. Not realizing at first that it was his facebook I went to check. Immediately I realized it was his after opening the message but then I noticed my name and started reading. I discovered that he has been talking to this girl for quite a while telling her my life story my secrets and thoughts. I also discovered that he has been waiting for me to fall asleep atleast twice a week and sneaking over to her house. The after reading that message curiosity got the best of me and...
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Dreams of my ex? I want them to stop :(
Posted Saturday July 20 2013, 10:49 am
My ex and I were together and engaged for two years. It's been 8 months since he left for being unhappy, and almost 4 months since I've had any kind if contact with him, verbally & physicallly. I recently, maybe a month ago, blocked him from Facebook and anyone who contacts him because seeing his name is not helping me move on. I will admit, I am fine without him although I do wish we could be back together, but I've accepted reality and understand that will never happen.i think about him almost everyday but for some reason I keep having dreams about him. First it was him comin back saying he made a mistake. 4 times. Then it was us being back together and me crying because he was yelling at me. Then last night he told me he wanted back ...
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I want more attention from my boyfriend without nagging or being clingy.
Posted Thursday July 18 2013, 11:02 pm
21/f
My boyfriend and I have had to do long distance for the past 1 1/2 months because his family an friends live far away. It's been going well, but it's to the point where we know eachothers routine completely. I could tell you what he's doing any hour of the day. We have about 20 days till he comes back. I really want more attention from him. But, I don't want to sound clingy or annoying. He is much busier than I am, and I've been doing well occupying myself with whatever, but it's getting to the point where we are more just checking in, etc.
So, what can I say/do to show that I want more attention? (without nagging!)
Also, how can I spice things up so it's not just the same old routine?
Thanks!
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My boyfriend says him cheating wasn't that big of a deal
Posted Thursday July 18 2013, 12:58 pm
My boyfriend of half a year cheated on me and started dating the other girl for a month. He came back and was so apologetic... For about a day. I forgave him and he stopped apologizing now two weeks later we were talking about how I wouldn't be going to his birthday cause I'm going on a cruise with the family and he got mad but I told him I scheduled it when we were broken up and I had no intention on talking to him again. He then said "well it obviously wasn't that big of a deal because we're talking now". He said this even though he knows how much it broke my heart for him to cheat on me... I hung up on him and now he's mad at me... What do I do? Do I have a right to be upset?
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Does he like me or not?
Posted Wednesday July 17 2013, 7:47 pm
I just started speaking to this boy and at first conversation he was extremely nice! And he said he would speak again with me he said i was hot too, we agreed to do silly stuff, like he'd teach me the break dance and stuff like that but after like 3 weeks he never popped up again.. We started speaking again when I moved to the same town like 4 days ago, I go out and 'hang' out with my mates and stuff around the street but they don't live in the same town so they get a bus home, and I have to walk home every time, so I was walking home and him and 2 friends were behind my on bikes because he lives close to me, but he started saying my name in a high pitched voice and slowly and his mate was like 'stop being a pedo' and the next day, he said ...
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I want to be my ex- boyfriends friend again
Posted Tuesday July 16 2013, 8:47 pm
So back in May my boyfriend and I broke up. I've gotten over him and now have a new boyfriend. I sent him a friend request back a few weeks ago on Xbox but he declined. We go to the same church but I don't go there often. I really want to be his friend again and I know he might too. How can I work this out. (he has a new gf btw and I just want to be his friend)
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Young engagement
Posted Tuesday July 16 2013, 5:05 pm
I wanted to know how young is appropriate to get engaged
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When a guy looks into your eyes
Posted Tuesday July 16 2013, 6:34 am
So there is this guy who I like and i'm not sure if he likes me. We are strangers but we see each other almost everyday and everytime we look at each other, we look into each other's eye and only the eye.
Twice we looked at each other in the eye on different days and it lasted for quite a while.
Does it mean anything?
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