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My boyfriend says him cheating wasn't that big of a deal
My boyfriend of half a year cheated on me and started dating the other girl for a month. He came back and was so apologetic... For about a day. I forgave him and he stopped apologizing now two weeks later we were talking about how I wouldn't be going to his birthday cause I'm going on a cruise with the family and he got mad but I told him I scheduled it when we were broken up and I had no intention on talking to him again. He then said "well it obviously wasn't that big of a deal because we're talking now". He said this even though he knows how much it broke my heart for him to cheat on me... I hung up on him and now he's mad at me... What do I do? Do I have a right to be upset?
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I truly believe that he spoke these words to you because he was upset. He wanted you there for his birthday and caught a tantrum because you are not going to be. It is fine for him to be upset, however, he was insensitive to your feelings, which is not ok. Yes you have a right to be upset because your feelings were hurt. In retaliation you should of not hung up the phone because it adds fuel to the fire. The best thing for you to do is talk to him about how you truly feel so that you both can move on and grow as a couple. On the other hand, from what he said, it seems like he is a bit immature. In mending your relationship you may realize just how immature he really is. So don't be surprised if you realize he is not what you truly want. I hope this helps.
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Break up with him and cut contact.
You should never take someone back after they cheat. The reasoning for what he said is because you basically told him it was okay. He clearly doesn't respect you, As much as he may of apologized, It doesn't change anything.
He's a loser, Sorry but it's true. If he was into you then he would never think about taking a risk to loose you.
Move on and cut him loose, He's a liar and a player.
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