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Does he like me or not?
I just started speaking to this boy and at first conversation he was extremely nice! And he said he would speak again with me he said i was hot too, we agreed to do silly stuff, like he'd teach me the break dance and stuff like that but after like 3 weeks he never popped up again.. We started speaking again when I moved to the same town like 4 days ago, I go out and 'hang' out with my mates and stuff around the street but they don't live in the same town so they get a bus home, and I have to walk home every time, so I was walking home and him and 2 friends were behind my on bikes because he lives close to me, but he started saying my name in a high pitched voice and slowly and his mate was like 'stop being a pedo' and the next day, he said 'hi (insert my name here)' from across the street when he was with his mates and we started speaking after that, he says talk later, but he doesn't I had to start the conversation and I hate that there's nothing I hate more than that, but I might have gone into too much detail but I just need advice ! Whether he wants me to speak to him or not ! Please I don't know what to do? :/ and he's 2 years older so I really don't know :( help please! :'( thanks for the answers in advance!:)
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This guy obviously isn't a guy nor a real guy for that matter. Seems just to be interested in making his friends see that he has a girl who's dying over him. Leave him alone, and watch he'll get his act together...if he likes you.
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I think it's kind of in the middle. He might not like you, like have feelings for you but he is definitely interested in you.
When you talk to him, does he sound distant or bored? Or does he actually keep the conversation going. If he keeps it going, then there is a good chance he likes talking to you. So even though you hate initiating the conversation, maybe that's what you'll have to do to get what you want.
When most guys are interested, they'll talk to you first every once in awhile too. So hopefully he'll start a conversation with you soon as well.
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right now it seems you are in between the first two steps of a relationship, beyond initial staring at attraction but not quite fully into communication. You can make yourself available to speak to but he has to have enough personal want and desire to seek you out in communication to determine if he likes you enough to date. Also you will be doing the same thing at each stage. If he is interested for example but you decide you are not, you break it off. This is all about finding what you like and don't like in guys so you can make the best choices when you get to the final stage, life time commitment. If you are the one always going after him, you could say after a while, "Look Joe, you showed some interest in talking to me in the beginning but as of lately show no interest in talking to me. I have to start any communications we have. Either you are interested enough to talk more to decide if you might be interested in dating or you are not. Let me know now so I don't keep trying to talk to you if you are not interested."
It is not being too forward, you are not being pushy because these stages are normally fairly short. Only cus people are shy or don't understand relating to the opposite sex does it get drawn out longer. Here are all the stages to help you in the future. Copy and save somewhere on your PC to refer to in the future.
The steps towards a relationship
Attraction: Whether just plain looks or a pheremone attraction. It doesn't mean that either one "Likes" the other yet so it is important to go beyond the staring at stage to conversation.
Conversation: Now you are talking and find that you like the persons sense of humor, how they think, their beliefs or way of living life...this is the teaser...either you decide you want to learn more in depth about the person or you decide you don't have enough interest from the conversation to want to learn any more. Someone not interested stops talking to the other and looks elsewhere. If both want to learn more about the other, you start dating.
Dating: Dating is not all about calendar appointments to go to a movie or out to dinner, or out dancing. It is a time to learn what you like and don't like about the opposite sex. If there are too many dislikes, start over again with someone new. Or take this to the next level.
Steady relationship: This is meant to be a time where you have plenty of opportunity to spend in each others presence getting to see how they handle themselves 24/7 under all sorts of conditions, their good days, and bad days. Many choose to live together at this time. There isn't much that can be hidden when you live with someone, like their housekeeping habits, what their usual diet is, any mood swings, and by now there should be a good idea of what their normal sexual habits and needs are. You don't want to get matched up with someone who is the opposite libido level of yourself.
Committed relationship: Here there are vows and oaths made to each other, a professing of mutual love and devotion for each other and it goes beyond words to living it out daily in how one treats their partner. This person will be your life mate with a marriage license or without one.
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Hmmmn I think he does like you... or will soon, if that makes any sense.
He's got intrest in you if he's the one initating the conversation, but you don't have enough evidence to prove he actually has a crush on you yet.
Just try to be his friend first and flirt a bit. See where it goes from there.
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