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I Can't Get Over My Crush.


Posted Tuesday August 6 2013, 11:49 pm

I'm a thirteen-year-old girl, and I have a major crush on a guy who I met at a place called Camp Stevens over a year ago. I really need to get over him, but I can't.

Here's what happened: Last year at camp, we were good friends, but I started having feelings for him. I was embarrassed and didn't want him to find out. But right before we left, he told me that he liked me. I hugged him and said I liked him back. But I wasn't able to get any of his contact information.

Even after that week at camp was over, I still liked him. I wanted to have a way to remember him, so I wrote a novel about our week together at Camp Stevens.

I just went back to Camp Stevens a few weeks ago, and he wasn't there. I cri...

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Guy not calling when he said he would


Posted Tuesday August 6 2013, 10:05 pm

Hi So I hooked up with this guy the other night and we texted all weekend and he said he was looking forward to hanging out with me next week and that he would call me on monday. It is now tuesday and he still hasnt called me. Who texts to say they are going to call and doesnt? It seems like a lot of effort when he could have just not talked to me after our fling.

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like him alot but theres distance between us..


Posted Monday August 5 2013, 9:16 pm

Hey everyone! So im a girl and i really really like this guy named jacob who is my age but he lives about 30 min away and we go to different schools and wouldnt be able to hangout alot.. weve hungout all weekend and we have had such a good time together! Hes such a gentleman, old fashioned, so sweet, kind, nice, cute, and funny!:) he makes me laugh and smile all the time.. he likes me too but then theres the distance to think about.. i think it could work but im not sure! should i go for it? Or just stay friends?

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Why do guys talk to you in the first place if they not really interested?


Posted Monday August 5 2013, 6:09 pm

There's a pattern I've been noticing with guys lately that starting to get annoying. I would meet a guy I'm interested in and they seem like they are interested back. We would talk everyday and they would be engaged in the conversation, asking, questions, even complimenting me. Then they stop talking everyday then it becomes like once a week and the responses are mostly one word answers. They also seem to flake out on me when it comes to hanging out. Its very annoying. I feel like I'm wasting my time keep meeting guys that leads to nowhere. If they are not really interested why just say it up front. I would prefer that instead of talking to someone for 2 or 3 weeks and then when its time to hang or something they not around anymore or take ...

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i like this guy, idk if he likes me back


Posted Monday August 5 2013, 2:29 pm

So there's this guy who's friends with my ex, and I like him. Eh, we got closer over the summer and he's starting to show some affection towards me but I have heard stories of him getting blowjobs from other girls. We cuddle and watch movies together in bed but I'm not really sure if he likes me or not. I'm not particularly good at reading people's emotions so yeah :/ Does he want to get sexual with me or something, or is he being sincere?

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I don't know what's gonna happen or what is going on or if somethings wrong


Posted Monday August 5 2013, 1:16 pm

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and I'm scared something is changing between us. I'm not sure if there is or not but I'm really scared there is something wrong. Well we just got back from a camp we went to together but I wasn't with him much at camp but something just feels different like I feel like he thinks there's something wrong but I don't want to tell him cuz it could make things worse and I love him soo incredibly much like we're so in love but I don't know about him... Wht should I do? Should we like hangout and see how things go?

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I like my boyfriends best friend, who is also my friends ex!


Posted Monday August 5 2013, 9:37 am

Lets call him 'nick'.
I met nick years back when he was with my friend. Apparently there was a 'thing' between us then. I dont remember and I only found out about this 'thing' recently. I just remembered thinking he was really cool and we got on well.
Years later and im in a relationship with nicks best friend. Were on the brink of splitting up. So through my boyfriend ive seen nick a few times, not many.
When im with him he barely looks at me, and I basically have a huge crush on him. I feel like a teenager. He is normally very confident, even my boyfriend has commented on how awkward he is around me. He either likes me or really doesnt.
My boyfriend has always made comments on how alike me and nick are, but ...

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Why do I get angry with my boyfriend so easily when I'm not with him?


Posted Sunday August 4 2013, 8:44 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now. We're very in love and getting our own place soon. We both work full time jobs and he talks about wanting to marry me all the time.

For the last two weeks I had been staying at his apartment pretty much 24/7 but yesterday when he went to work I went home because I felt weird knowing that his parents knew I'd been there so much and I didn't want them to think I was living there and using him. He begged me to come back over last night and I didn't (because I wanted to show his parents I wasn't living there ,his parents pay for his apartment which is outside their house).

I explained all of that to him and he was okay with it after some convincing. Then ...

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Break up support


Posted Sunday August 4 2013, 9:54 am

I've been in a relationship with him for 2 years, all long distance. At first, we were great together. The distance didn't even touch us. We planned visits all of the time. We even decided that I'd visit for a 2 month period to just spend time together. It was awesome.

However, I ended up losing my job and became in a bad situation financially. He suggested I come stay with him to test out the waters. Look for a new job. If we worked and I found one, I was going to stay. We were both really excited for this. Maybe not ready to "move in" but it was just a test run. And I could go home at any time.

But he became frustrated. I was taking too long. And to be fair, I was. Out of financial fear. Not anythin...

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Would it be wrong to have sex with my ex?


Posted Sunday August 4 2013, 5:12 am

well im female/19.

Me and my ex boyfriend are still in contact were still friends, and well we have them conversations where we always talk about the past, like we bring up memories and our sexual experiences together..
we've spoke about us having sex again, he was the last guy i had sex with to be honest.. and well we both want to do it would it be wrong? cause inside it's something i really want to do and i would o it over and over again, like i know it would be just sex but since he's my ex we both know what we like, and I have that feeling that by us having sex feelings would be there he once said it himself..



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Is he still attracted to me?


Posted Sunday August 4 2013, 1:13 am

so there is this guy who I have had a lot of eye contact with twice we even locked eyes for quite a while and suddenly, he started to avoid eye contact with me
It's like when I look at him, he wouldn't look at me anymore.
Could this be because he lost interest in me?

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my boyfriend is an immigrant. are immigrants allowed to get married?


Posted Saturday August 3 2013, 4:04 pm

His name isnt jason but im gonna call him that Jason came here from Ecuador and i wanna know are immigrants allowed to get married? :/

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just looking for advice


Posted Saturday August 3 2013, 12:35 am

My husband and I haven't been separated very long but our marriage was over along time ago we stayed together for the kids. Didn't even sleep in the same room for over a year. I moved over 12 hours away. Long story short I am in love with my ex. My sons father. Every time I see him I get butterflies we talk so good together every thing seems so perfect when we talk. I'm not sure how he feels though. He gives kind of mixed feelings. I have known him for 7 years.

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Relationship/ and career help,


Posted Friday August 2 2013, 10:04 pm

F/16
Okay i will be going into college in 2 years, and i Really want to study for a field agent, but my boyfriend doesn't agree with me. He wants me to have a job where i can spend some time with him, and our future kids. He says i need to find a job where i'm going to have time for him, and be able to spend time with the kids, not a job that i will probably never be home, or always have to travel places and blah, blah, blah. We are planning to get married and have children, but anyways. I really want to become a field agent, and i don't know if i should look for another career to satisfy him, what should i do, i don't want him feeling sad ???. : /
Thanks very much-

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Ex boyfriend hates me?! :(


Posted Friday August 2 2013, 3:19 am

So my bf broke up with me about a week ago saying he wasn't really ready and wasn't that interested he said we were friends for now but he blocked me on IG and doesn't respond to my kiks and he didnt defriend me on xbox. Then today, his cousin texted me and said to take him out of my bio (one of my back up IGs I haven't been on and I had him as a friend) he doesn't like you anymore. And all if this has made me so depressed to the point that I wanna kill myself because he really loved me and showed me that he cared and he changed my life and I really loved him. I really want him back so badly and i want him to talk to me but what should I do? Thanks.

(Btw: we were together for 3 months :/)

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How can I tell if she is gay?


Posted Friday August 2 2013, 1:02 am

15/f Hi so I like this girl right and umm how can I start talking to her and ask her if she's gay???

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my boyfriend's ex wife wont stay out of our lives


Posted Thursday August 1 2013, 10:57 pm

his ex is so disrespectful she always wants to know what is happening between he and i. anyone else having this problem? she is 53yrs old

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Should I be worrying?


Posted Thursday August 1 2013, 10:41 am

Hi, 20/M

Me and my girlfriend (all but name) have been going through a rough patch recently.

I saw some messages on her phone at like 1am from a guy that she was introduced to at work. He sent her a pic of herself, and sent messages like "I'm not the type of guy that has sex with just anyone". I told her that I saw them, and it really upset me. Not only do I find it to be inappropriate to be texting someone else at 1am, but what really upset me was that I left hers, because she claimed to be too tired, at 12am.

We spoke and she apologised, and she said she didn't see it like that and understood why I was upset.

There is also this other guy, who is the boyfriend of a mu...

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I found out i guy is about to ask me out and i sorta like him but im not qu


Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 10:00 pm

so found out a guy is about to ask me out and i sorta like him but im not quite there yet. But my sister has been texting him and told him that i like him, which is sorta true. But i also feel bad for him because he is from a broken home. I am 14 and a girl from C.A.

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What should I do?/Does she like me?


Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 10:00 pm

Ok so... there's this girl I like. But she happens to be my best friend. So i think i'm friend zoned. But she's been giving me signals that have made me think differently. Like whenever she's around me she always gets as close to me as she can like when we watch movies she scoots over as close as she can. She also touches me a lot and grabs my hand (not holding it) whenever she wants me to come with her somewhere. She also wants me to go anywhere she goes and when were in a big group of friends she's always next to me. Theres many more things she's done that makes me think she may like me but those are the big ones. So I asked my other friend who happens to be her best girlfriend if she thinks she likes me. Her friend told me that she doesn...

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