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like him alot but theres distance between us..
Hey everyone! So im a girl and i really really like this guy named jacob who is my age but he lives about 30 min away and we go to different schools and wouldnt be able to hangout alot.. weve hungout all weekend and we have had such a good time together! Hes such a gentleman, old fashioned, so sweet, kind, nice, cute, and funny!:) he makes me laugh and smile all the time.. he likes me too but then theres the distance to think about.. i think it could work but im not sure! should i go for it? Or just stay friends?
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If you put things in perspective, you'll see why there's no reason not to go for the experience as I will explain next.
I dont know why most young people think of dating and relationships at their age as finding the one person at their age whom they will end up with in a "Life Time" committed relationship whether married or not.
Dating really is about the experiences...plural..so more than one relationship experience. While in one, it's hard to imagine it ever ending and moving on but the objective is to experience the good and not so good to better know who the perfect person for you is. Two wonderfully sweet people can be together but if that romantic spark or chemistry is missing, it won't last forever. Then again, a small percent of people meet their lifetime mate in their teens so I know it's possible.
So given that fact that it is important to experience relationships, there's no reason not to, not even the distance, especially since you feel attraction and get along well together.
At some point, you will be driving or if you have
your license, have access to a car or have a car
of your own so that you can much easier visit each other. A half hour away when you have a car and can drive is no deterent at all for a possible relationship. When I met my second husband, he lived 40 mins away from me. I didn't mind the drive to see him because the relationship was worth it. Enjoy your guy. He sounds wonderful.
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