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I don't know what's gonna happen or what is going on or if somethings wrong
I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and I'm scared something is changing between us. I'm not sure if there is or not but I'm really scared there is something wrong. Well we just got back from a camp we went to together but I wasn't with him much at camp but something just feels different like I feel like he thinks there's something wrong but I don't want to tell him cuz it could make things worse and I love him soo incredibly much like we're so in love but I don't know about him... Wht should I do? Should we like hangout and see how things go?
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I know this feeling. This is the honeymoon phase ending. The part of the relationship where everything is new and shiny and its exciting because you're still getting to know the other person. Well, once you know someone, that excitement sort of dwindles.
It doesn't necessarily mean that you love each other less or that he's not in to you. Maybe just talk to him, ask him if there's anything he wants to talk about and how he feels about the relationship and all that. Let him know you love him.
I've been in the same relationship for a while and I find that, as a female with irrational female thoughts and feelings, it's necessary for my mental well being to have these talks with my boyfriend every now and again. Just to make sure that everything is ok and to calm myself when I feel like something is wrong. I generally find that nothing is wrong and that I'm panicked for no reason.
When you love someone it's normal to get a little freaked out when you think something is wrong, because thinking about losing them is unbearable. But talk to him and be honest about how you feel and everything will be ok!
Best wishes to you :)
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If you're scared something is wrong and you don't know what it is, it's better to talk to him about it. If you can't communicate in a relationship, then the relationship won't last.
But if you'd rather hang out with him and see if he acts weird or anything, then do that. If something seems out of place, then bring it up.
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I suggest you hang out with him. Maybe since you weren't with him much at camp he thinks that you were ignoring him. I hoped this helped somewhat, Good Luck :)
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