Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


Viewing Questions

Love Life
Romance a mess? Welcome to the club! Ask your question here.


View: Search Options...

Relationship bond seems to be fading


Posted Tuesday September 10 2013, 9:41 am

Hey..
I have a question to ask.I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. Problem is,I don't feel that chemistry anymore.
We used to hang out at least once a week and over the weekends too.That has changed to him being busy all the time leaving us limited or even no time together.
We would text or call,but that has changed to upto three days of no communication unless it's liking each other's posts on facebook.
It has gotten to the point where I feel like it's one-way. It's like anything that needs to happen has to be my effort. Sometimes it works but sometimes he ends up cancelling.
I know they say that at this point my boyfriend needs space..or he may be contemplating a break-up..or he may be...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

Do I leave or do I stay?


Posted Tuesday September 10 2013, 12:14 am

I've been married for 6 years to this great guy, but I know he's not the one I'm supposed to be with. I've been trying to decide for years whether or not I should stay or go. I have another guy I just started seeing that wants me and my children to move in with him. But he also knows I'm not ready for that move right now. He's great with me and my kids, he works and has time for us too.
My husband is always on his computer or sleeping, yes I understand he works 3rd shift but still he needs to spend time with us, but he's never going to change. What do I do? I am so confused and heartbroken over trying to figure this out.

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

type


Posted Monday September 9 2013, 11:16 pm

How do i know what type of guy is right for me i havent found mr right and im halfway through high school and had 1 true boyfriend the other 2 were not real just a scam to make people think that i had a boyfriend

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

My boyfriend is bored of me but he loves me


Posted Monday September 9 2013, 6:00 pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 nearly 4 years, and I have felt something had been abit odd with him lately. I checked his Facebook and found messages of him talking to friends saying that he thinks he's bored, his going crazy, he loves me but feels trapped but doesn't want to be single again and is thinking of cheating on me. I'm so heart broken about it, I don't know what to do , maybe I thought making our sex life more exciting and try having sex in different places. I hope it works and we have done exciting things before with sex I don't just lay there :-( I also found pills that help with erection problems, so he's obviously tried to do something about it but I don't want it to get to a point where he cheats on me and ruins our re...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

Confusing Crush :(


Posted Sunday September 8 2013, 6:22 pm

Ok, So i'm a freshman in high school, and i met this guy about three-four weeks ago (before school started) at a school club/group we are both in. He is a freshman like me and AMAZING!! I didn't think we would end up friends but we did and i realized a few days ago i like him. (last week was our first week of school)and we had a football game we performed at. During the game he asked if I had facebook, i said yes and he gave me his info so i could send him a friend request. Later, when we where all packing up he asked for my number. After he left (he left way before me) he sent me a text. We talked for a while, and he told me he was sort of dating a girl in the band (all 3 of us are in band) i asked sort of? and he said they decided to ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

I dont know if i should ask her out!!!


Posted Sunday September 8 2013, 10:41 am

So I think i am/was friend-zoned by this girl i always liked, this year i decided to do something about it, so first i found myself a wingwoman(WW) so WW told her that she found out i liked her, and just yesterday WW asked her what she would say if i asked her out, and the girl i like responded: "I'm not sure..."........what should i do?? should i ask her out??

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

Does guy only want sex?


Posted Sunday September 8 2013, 1:22 am

Female, 20
Hi, so I've been talking to this guy for a long time now. I first added him on facebook because I thought he was cute, he's a couple years younger than me. We've never hung out in person but we've texted and talked on and off for years now. Sometimes he calls late like 2 or 3 in the morning and I don't answer cuz I don't want to send the wrong message, and I haven't really made an effort to hang out during the day I really don't know why. I'm shy. But I wanna know why he continues to pursue me it's been years! We don't have very intimate conversations either its just chit chat. Is he just looking for sex? I'm a single mom so I am super careful with men. Oh and a side note, if I get into a relationship we stop talking but I...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

i don't know if she likes me or not


Posted Saturday September 7 2013, 11:44 pm

hi i like a girl i'm in 8th grade people say this girl likes me but she says she likes me as a friend but occasionally i hear her say that i'm cute i just don't know what to do

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

Is it okay for a Freshman girl to date a Junior guy?


Posted Saturday September 7 2013, 8:44 pm

I'm going to be 15 in 2 days & I'm a freshman. Although I'm a freshman I don't look like one & I'm not immature like the rest of the freshman. All my classes are with Juniors basically because I'm in advanced classes. This Junior guy who's 17 & I have been hanging out everyday during lunch & we actually met during summer at the mall but I had no idea he was going to be in my new school. I find myself falling for him since he's so nice unlike the rest of the guys at this school. He has morals & he's so respectful. Would it be okay if we went out?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

i need help i took a bunch of pills what will happen to me?


Posted Saturday September 7 2013, 8:25 pm

I just took 22 advil pm and 5regular asprsin what will happen

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

Jealous of an ex


Posted Saturday September 7 2013, 8:05 pm

So i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago and he has been coming to my house talking to my sister and he refuses to talk to me. I know i deserve it but im starting to become irritated. HELP!!

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

Sex


Posted Saturday September 7 2013, 12:00 am

I want sex with a female (13 male)

[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]

I cheated,,,not sure how to deal with it/move on


Posted Friday September 6 2013, 9:09 pm

I cheated on my Boyfriend. We've been dating for almost 3 and a half years.
I didn't sleep with the guy, we've made out twice (we're both in a relationship). So I suppose, I've cheated twice.

I feel all sorts of emotions, including guilt. I don't know how to deal with it. I don't know how to deal with the temptation and I don't know how I should deal with why I feel all this temptation and a need to cheat in the first place. Dealing with guilt and other emotions is another thing too...


If anyone could offer me any advice on this subject, it'd be much appreciated.

Thanks

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

boyfriend is not interested in physical contact


Posted Friday September 6 2013, 3:34 pm

my boyfriend and me were in the same school 2 years ago. after i shifted we were still friends until he proposed and we were in a long distance relationship. i am 16 and he is 17. he is very supportive and nice . we had several ups and downs but he wrapped it back together...it took a long time but he did. i love him very much and as a girl i want to have some physical relationship with him i.e. i want to talk to him about it and maybe chat . once i did so, he reacted very awkwardly and stated that he DOES NOT LIKE these things. i was hurt and he soon made up for it and said he liked it and we did it a few times on net. but now we are back to the same condition. he does not fly kiss, does not touch, does not talk about anything physical. he...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

Should i, or shoudl i not?


Posted Friday September 6 2013, 12:38 pm

So, i liked this girl for over a year, my first year i think i got friend zoned...This as we all know is bad news. But a new girl came to school and she got close to the girl i like fast and she got close to me too, so i asked her to tell her that she found out i liked her. The response was a smile. I'm still waiting for another response that i asked...but the question is... What should i do???Should i ask her out???

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]

BOYFRIEND SUPPORT


Posted Friday September 6 2013, 8:00 am

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months now,and I recently found out that I was pregnant.
I don't feel that it is right for me to keep as I still have alot to do with my life. I am 24 and he is 25.
He on the other hand thinks we can work things through and he says he will take care of me and the baby.
My problem is,he is always so busy with and he sometimes doesn't keep in touch unless I do.I look at things now,three weeks into my pregnancy and I really don't believe how he behaves now will be any different to when I am 9 months pregnant.I love him and I want to one day have children with him,just not this one. Maybe when we are married and he will feel the full extent of this responsibility. Right now I feel ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

I'm Questioning My Sexuality


Posted Thursday September 5 2013, 8:55 pm

I'm a thirteen-year-old girl. In elementary school, I was mostly attracted to guys. I sometimes had crushes on girls, too -- but I always tried to ignore the feeling.

It got even worse in seventh grade, when I had a major crush on a female teacher. I couldn't always concentrate on my work because I was staring at her and thinking about how much I wanted to kiss her. I soon decided to accept the fact that I saw girls in the same way I saw guys.

I've identified as bisexual for a while now. I recently started dating a girl who also identifies as bisexual. I have dated a couple guys in the past, but I was never really happy with them. Having a girlfriend now makes me realize how much I love being with a girl.
...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]

AM I waiting for the right guy?


Posted Thursday September 5 2013, 6:26 pm

I am a 38 year old black female. I am dating a 55 year old white guy. He is in a loveless marriage. He says that he is afraid of his wife but wants to leave. He says that he loves me and wants to give me a baby. He lives in a different city and wants me to move there by getting an apartment near by. We have never been intimate besides discussing intimacy on the phone. I really don't know what do. I really love him but am concerned if he is really going to leave his wife. I don't want to be a single parent. I really want children. He said that if I get pregnant, he will marry me. Should I wait for him?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

Hey! :)


Posted Thursday September 5 2013, 2:50 pm

I'm the girl that previously wrote a question "Proper advice, please" about the guy that im into that is into clubbing and that kind of lifestyle and honestly, i feel kind of bad that i didnt reply to anyone elses question but yours, but i have to say that you made me really open my eyes, what you wrote hit me and really got to me. and i want to say thank you. :) He contacted me yesterday, i told him i was out with my friends and he kept asking how i was going home, and what time and to tell him when i get there, so i said okay but i never did, then he wrote me saying did you not get home or are you waiting for me to ask you if you did? so i told him my battery shut and he was like "no it didnt, i just saw you online a few mi...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

kissing


Posted Wednesday September 4 2013, 9:45 pm

So I'm 13 (almost 14) and I dated a guy a year ago and he moved so we broke up. But when he came back we hated each other and then things changed and we liked each other a lot a lot and we started dating again. Now we've already kissed like 5 times and I'm wondering how do you kiss someone with out saying anything to them for a long time and like how do you kiss them? Like not pecks. Any kissing advice? Opinion or thoughts?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!


All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker