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kissing
So I'm 13 (almost 14) and I dated a guy a year ago and he moved so we broke up. But when he came back we hated each other and then things changed and we liked each other a lot a lot and we started dating again. Now we've already kissed like 5 times and I'm wondering how do you kiss someone with out saying anything to them for a long time and like how do you kiss them? Like not pecks. Any kissing advice? Opinion or thoughts?
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You did say you kissed 5 times already. So if you are asking how to do it after the fact, did something happen where either you or he or both of you didn't enjoy your kisses? If you are asking what advice more on different ways to kiss, kissing techniques, that are lots of cool you tube videos and articles that give tips on different ways to kiss. It's entirely up to the two of you as to what you both will like or not. For example, not everyone is into french kissing with the tongues. Some like it just a little.
If its a matter of both of you not knowing how to initiate a kiss and neither of you are talking to each other, thats kind of awkward. Usually a couple is doing something together. It will feel less awkward if lets say you ask if he'd like a shoulder rub and give him one and then move to play with his hair and while doing so, talk, say something, like "I really enjoyed it when you kissed me last. I'd like to experience more of kissing you, Then come around to face him and kiss him. But to see him across the room, walk up to him, not even say hi and go straight for a kiss is kinda strange.
At your age, one thing to focus on is learning how to talk to and better understand the opposite sex. You can not assume anything because a guys words and actions may mean one thing to you but mean something totally different to him. So to avoid any miscommunications, just start talking to him. Girls at naturally better at this than guys so why dont you start the convos and lead up to talking about showing of affection, through holding hands, kissing, snuggling up and hugging. Good luck dear. If I guessed wrong at what you were asking, just asking again more clearly as to what you want to know.
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