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Is it okay for a Freshman girl to date a Junior guy?
I'm going to be 15 in 2 days & I'm a freshman. Although I'm a freshman I don't look like one & I'm not immature like the rest of the freshman. All my classes are with Juniors basically because I'm in advanced classes. This Junior guy who's 17 & I have been hanging out everyday during lunch & we actually met during summer at the mall but I had no idea he was going to be in my new school. I find myself falling for him since he's so nice unlike the rest of the guys at this school. He has morals & he's so respectful. Would it be okay if we went out?
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I don't see it as a problem at all. It's only a two year age gap and it's not like you're in middle school and he's in high school.
If he's the type of guy you'd be interested in dating, then go for it.
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Happy birthday and sure as long as he is respectful but if he tries to force you into his monkey business at least 3 times drop him
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Honey, only you can determine whether it will work or not. I think you are too concerned as to what other people (peers and adults included) may think.
Every person is unique and must be judged based on just themselves...no comparisons to others.
There is such a thing as biological age vs chronological age. Biological age in some people looks only or both looks and maturity can be far ahead of their chronological age.
I have a niece who for example will be graduating as she turns 16.
You met this summer before knowing you'd be in same school, I'd say it sounds like it was meant to be. Yes, the good guys are hard to find. What matters more than age is the maturity level of the guy and how he treats you. If he is more concerned with upholding you and supporting you in everything that is important to you, never raises his voice to you, even when having a bad day, makes good choices, then anything you ever face together, you should be able to work through, even if its opposition to your ages.
Good luck dear
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