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Need to die


Posted Sunday October 13 2013, 9:59 am

Please tel the way to die?

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What does it mean when your ex makes fun of you infront of his friends


Posted Saturday October 12 2013, 9:37 am

So bascially, it's been a while since this guy and I broke up. In fact, I've been busy and happy- which means I haven't been thinking about him much. But just yesterday, one one of my very close friend and common EX friend ( to him) told me that just a few weeks ago, He had been talking about me to her as well as to another common friend ( a guy). The thing is, the break up had been pretty ugly.After I found out a few things he'd done, I did not contact him at all. I avoided him. When he tried talking to me, I didn't respond. I slapped him. I know all of this seems gruesome but while we were dating he would go to other girls and say a bunch of stuff to them AND bitch about me. He asked my best friend to come on his side by saying that he li...

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How can I stop crying about my boyfriend?


Posted Saturday October 12 2013, 2:01 am

I don’t even know where to begin writing this but I’ve been a complete mess for the past 3 months and need to do something.

In July, my nearly two-year relationship ended with the man that I whole-heartedly thought could be the one. When I say that, I should also mention that I am not a person that believes there is a “one” for anyone, but he was my one. We met in school; we were in the same major at a large university and transferred at the same time. We quickly became very close friends. I didn’t want a relationship at all, and wanted to focus on school, but after 3 months of being friends he basically gave me and ultimatum saying he couldn’t be friends with me because he felt so strongly about me—and I did to...

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How to give my 14 year old boyfriend a boner


Posted Thursday October 10 2013, 10:09 pm

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is to we've been dating for a year and he's seen my breast and I've seen his you know. So I want to see him with a boner. Like actually see it. So how do I give him a boner . Please don't say anything about my age please and thanks!!

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Boyfriend or not?


Posted Thursday October 10 2013, 12:37 am

Hi, I am a 14 year old girl. I haven't really had any boyfriends and I'm not so crazy about them because in my opinion, all they do is stress me out and cause drama but I'm getting tired of my friends ALWAYS ditching me for their "crushes" and their boyfriends. I have my eyes on these two guys and one of them is soo sweet and really cute but the other..he's really popular but I'm not, so I don't see that happening between me and him anytime soon. Honestly, I like being an independent individual because I have more freedom and I don't have to worry about making my partner happy everyday or how I act and look. I mean..I'm the person EVERYONE ends up replacing anyways plus, I hate the way my friends treat me sometimes..they'll always...

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How should i tell him?


Posted Wednesday October 9 2013, 7:19 pm

okay im 13/f and now i am in a current relationship wiith this boy that have been asking me for a long time. So before then he would do a little flriting with girls. But now were together he was fliriting with my best friend. While, i was right in front of him. So i avoided him the whole week and he wondering why i am. But i want to tell him to stop but, i cant tell him in person cause we be around alot of people in school. So please help me.
Thanx

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Dating advice needed!


Posted Wednesday October 9 2013, 12:35 pm

So I'm going on a second date with this guy.
At the end, what it the correct way to say goodbye? I'm asking because I've not got much experience-and I've always just given a quick hug.
Do I kiss him on the cheek (seeing as he's paying for me) Do I go for the lips (or is this to full on) or just leave with a simple hug?


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Must my boyfriend give me Money?


Posted Wednesday October 9 2013, 5:51 am

I'm 20 years old and my boyfrriend is 24.We are both employed.He never spoils me nor take me out.I only get a present on my birthday.Every month ends he takes his sister 's kids to fancy resturants at the mall,pays the kids 's hair ,gives her sister some cash and the kids but He never does those kinds of things for me.Sometimes I feel like im just a sex made to him and when I tell him how I feel He says I must not copy what is happening on other people 's relationships.What must I do.

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In Love but Doubting Myself


Posted Tuesday October 8 2013, 6:59 pm

So I am a freshman in college, and my boyfriend, Matt, is also a freshman at the same college. We started "talking" at the beginning of our senior year. He wanted to make it official pretty early on but I was still hung up on the last guy, Parker, I was with.

The last guy I was with I had been best friends with for four years. The last two years of our friendship we started hooking up (never sex) and it just made everything more complicated. He basically saw me as just an easy hook up. At least thats what I feel like. He told me once that he cared about me as more than a friend but that he didn't want to do anything about it. For my entire junior year, his senior year, we hooked up secretly. I told myself I could ...

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My partner and I rarely have sex


Posted Tuesday October 8 2013, 3:40 pm

I am a 23 year old female and I am in a same sex relationship. My partner suffered sexual abuse as a child and rarely wants to have sex. She did not have a problem having sex with other people she has dated but I am her first long term relationship and after the first 3 months, our sex life slowed way down (we've been together for a couple of years now). We typically have sex once a week and it honestly feels like she does it so she wont lose me, not because she wants to. I have tried to be compassionate and understanding of her situation but I am getting desperate. I am a very sexual person and I am getting tired of being rejected all the time. Every other aspect of our relationship is great except for this one so I would rather not have t...

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why do i get so nervous when I like it!!!


Posted Monday October 7 2013, 7:40 pm

okay I'm 14 & I'm messing around with this guy. I really like him & he really likes me. The thing is that when me & him are together & we r touching & kissing & sometimes he lays me down I get really bad nervous, he knows my boundaries & wouldn't dare cross them. He knows that I get nervous & he trys not to make me feel so nervous but it happens. When I get nervous he is like "Baby its gonna be okay" & I know that he really does mean it. I like the feeling, it makes me wet & well ya know but why do I get so nervous!!!!!

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this is a question from my bff


Posted Sunday October 6 2013, 2:56 pm

Okay so I love a guy loads. I get horny every time i see him and I wanna have a sexual intercourse with him but im under age should i shag him and put a condom on or wait a while? Btw he is not underage and Im on my period and he's hit puberty

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What does we need a break mean. What does that's good mean


Posted Sunday October 6 2013, 3:10 am

The boy friend wanted to take a break from the relationship of 5 months he had certain issues in his head about us
To much to fast and feels smoothered we need to take a break
But 2ninutes before he said thst he sent me a text from the site where we first met and sent me a fluirt thinking it was funny

We saw each other tonight with his son
When I told him I him I missed him he paused and then said why we text everyday
I responded I miss you anyways it's one thing to text everyday but its different from when you don't see them
I want to know if taking break also means breaking up

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Stressin through the roofs


Posted Saturday October 5 2013, 12:03 am

So sats are tomorrow. Im a senior so tomorrow is a really important day for me. Im pretty much stressing out so much already. The thing is that a week ago my boyfriend and i have gotten into a huge fight. And i brought up the topic of if we should break up. So were st that stage where we arent broken up but doesnt feel like were together. I previously mentioned he sai i changed him like changed his smoking habit his cussing habit and his rebelling habit and mch more andthat now he wants to be himself. I do want him to be himself and i absolutely enforce my no smoking though and he understands this. But lately weve been not talking at all like just barely. Its so scary cause i should wory about sts right now but i also worry abput my relatio...

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Family (mother) isnt ready to give my hand in marriage :'(


Posted Friday October 4 2013, 10:17 pm

Good evening, My questions is my mother isn't ready to speak with my boyfriend in order for him to ask for my hand in marriage. What can I do? This all started this past summer, by me being pregnant and then having a miscarriage, now he wants to make things right by asking for my hand, however my mother isn't ready to speak with him, especially when it comes to permission to marry. She has beaten me down ever since the incident, her along with my sister. And now that we want to marry, she won't even speak to him. I feel like Im torn apart by the man I love, and my family. Im 22 years old and I've let her and my sister control most of my life. I feel like she's pushing me away towards the things I want. Im heart broken as it is. If I could ...

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SOS ...just have a couple of hours..


Posted Friday October 4 2013, 2:19 pm

heyy...
i just have a couple of hours to meet my boyfriend..the thing is that i like him so much,i finally met someone like him,he's amazing ..so every time we have sex,it's like a routine,known positions all the time,its getting boring not just for him,for me too ..so i need something new,something creative and wild :3 something that's gonna blew his mind away... plzz help

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Clingy ex-boyfriend


Posted Friday October 4 2013, 5:56 am

This is my 16 year old sisters problem, and I need to give her some advice. All advice appreciated!

A week or so ago, my sister ended her 2 year relationship with her first boyfriend. They were both very sad about the breakup, but it was a case of "love him" not "in love with him" any way, ever since he has been texting her a lot, more than friends would. She doesn't want to get back together with him, but that's what he is suggesting. He's acting like they are still together, but they are just friends now.

Any advice?? <3

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Is It Just a Phase?


Posted Thursday October 3 2013, 4:43 pm

Hi, I'm a thirteen-year-old girl who likes girls. I just don't see boys in that way. When I think about my future, I see myself marrying a girl rather than a guy.

So, this question is strange, but I'll try my best to have it make sense.

I don't really remember who I had crushes on in elementary school, but I remember that most of them were boys. I had crushes on girls sometimes as well, but when I did, I tried to ignore the feeling.

When I started middle school, I started to become more and more girl-crazy, and I thought about guys less. I decided to embrace my feelings and be myself.


Now I don't like guys at all and only want to be with a girl. I also have a girlfriend now...

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Is he going to ask me out?


Posted Thursday October 3 2013, 1:28 pm

Okay so I'm 15, recently started year 11 and this boy has just asked me to prom (which is not until next July). He's quite shy and I think he only really asked me because his friends convinced him but apparently he REALLY likes me (he does go pretty red when he sees me and I catch his staring at me quite often).

Anyway, people are starting to say that he should ask me out but I'm not sure if he will - or if he even realises that I really like him... Since asking me to prom nothing has changed with us, we still act pretty much the same (although most of the year now gossip about us so we've been discussing that a fair bit).

We're both quite awkward people and I don't think he'll have the courage to say anything...

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I'm a girl who likes a girl


Posted Thursday October 3 2013, 7:08 am

Well, I like this girl. I've gone to the movies with her. I hug her all the time and hang out with her. I'm a girl too, and I think that she is straight. I want to know if she feels the same as me, but I don't want to creep her out. What do I do? All advice welcome xx

F/13

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