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My partner and I rarely have sex
I am a 23 year old female and I am in a same sex relationship. My partner suffered sexual abuse as a child and rarely wants to have sex. She did not have a problem having sex with other people she has dated but I am her first long term relationship and after the first 3 months, our sex life slowed way down (we've been together for a couple of years now). We typically have sex once a week and it honestly feels like she does it so she wont lose me, not because she wants to. I have tried to be compassionate and understanding of her situation but I am getting desperate. I am a very sexual person and I am getting tired of being rejected all the time. Every other aspect of our relationship is great except for this one so I would rather not have to leave the relationship. But if I don't figure out how to improve our sex life, I'm afraid I'm going to have to.
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I understand your problem and also your partner. It is very hard for a girl to get over such type of abusive past. I think go for a psychologist both of you. Your partner have to get over from her past.you should be with her and supports her mentally.sex is important but it is just a part of our life and needs.but love is more important.so be with her.GOOD LUCK!!
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