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Is he going to ask me out?
Okay so I'm 15, recently started year 11 and this boy has just asked me to prom (which is not until next July). He's quite shy and I think he only really asked me because his friends convinced him but apparently he REALLY likes me (he does go pretty red when he sees me and I catch his staring at me quite often).
Anyway, people are starting to say that he should ask me out but I'm not sure if he will - or if he even realises that I really like him... Since asking me to prom nothing has changed with us, we still act pretty much the same (although most of the year now gossip about us so we've been discussing that a fair bit).
We're both quite awkward people and I don't think he'll have the courage to say anything but I kind of want him to know I like him. I'm really not sure if he's likely to ask me out or at least ask for my number or something? Not sure what to do...
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Try to build your friendship and when the time is right, tell him. It won't be as uncomfortable when you're closer to him and it's a higher chance he will like you too (Or like you more). If you currently don't have a close friendship, try to build one. I know how hard it is to builf a friendship someone when you're kind of an awkward person (I was in this exact situation), but I believe in you :).
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One body language sign that someone is attracted to you is the constant looking at the person. So since he's doing this and the fact he blushes when caught staring, shows he has an interest. How his friends got him to ask you to prom is beyond me. Did you accept? You say you are attracted to him as well and want him to know. I find it kind of funny that he's asked you to prom but hasn't had the guts to ask you out now. Maybe he could do the other easier cus it is so far in the future. He wont get nervous about that until the time comes closer.
What you could do is ask him if he really likes you and wanted to go to prom with you or if he only asked to get his friends to quit pestering him and he didnt really mean it. And quickly add that you hope he truly is interested in you cus you're interested in him.
Get some kind of confession. If he's too embarassed to say anything like that to you, just tone it down and ask if he'd like at least to hang out with you as friends for now until he gets comfortable with you. He can always decide to tell you later.
All strong healthy relationships have a good friendship between the two people. Longtime happily married couples will say their spouse is their best friend. So try to find out what things you might have in common, a favorite band, type of movie, activities, do you both like dogs, invite him over to meet your pets? Keep trying suggestions until you find one he is comfortable with. Then add a new activity or thing you guys do together whether bike riding or walking the mall, etc. slowly his confidence with you should build.
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