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I'm a girl who likes a girl Well, I like this girl. I've gone to the movies with her. I hug her all the time and hang out with her. I'm a girl too, and I think that she is straight. I want to know if she feels the same as me, but I don't want to creep her out. What do I do? All advice welcome xx
F/13
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Hi! I'm thirteen and I am extremely girl-crazy, and I know how it feels to like a girl who is (probably) straight. It stinks, doesn't it?
I don't know if you are gay, bisexual, or straight but curious. But I will answer this assuming you are gay or bisexual.
I think it is your choice whether you tell her you like her or not. Telling her directly that you like her might be a little risky, so I think you should give her a few hints and see how she responds.
You can try wearing rainbow jewelry, or you can bring up an LGBTQ issue with her and see how she reacts. If she acts disgusted about it, then she is probably straight and homophobic. But if she reacts well, then she is either bi/gay or just supports the LGBTQ community.
Commenting on the appearances of girls (or even commenting on your friend's good looks) is another idea.
I found a couple articles that I think might help you a little with finding out your friend's orientation and giving her hints:
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I guess what I'm trying to say is that you should give her some hints. If she doesn't respond well, then you should move on to liking someone else and stick to being just friends with this girl.
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