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this is a question from my bff
Okay so I love a guy loads. I get horny every time i see him and I wanna have a sexual intercourse with him but im under age should i shag him and put a condom on or wait a while? Btw he is not underage and Im on my period and he's hit puberty
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If you are not from the u.s. where the federal legal age of consent is 18, you need to find out for sure what it is where you live. For example, though 18 is the legal age in US, it varies by state laws, some are 16, some 17, and some 18. Canada's legal age is 16. So depending on your age and the laws where you live, you may actually be of legal age.
If you are not, it doesn't matter if you went after him first or him after you, the fact that he's of legal age and you underage can and will put him in jail. If you love him lots as you say, it would not be a "loving" thing to do to him to entice him until he loses control and his better judgement and goes for it with you, and then ends up in jail. Thats not something you ever do to someone you love, endanger them or put them in awkward situations. So my guess is that this is more of an infatuation and sexual attraction than it is true love and all due to your hormones overwhelming you. In sucks but since you're likely under legal age, all you can do is masturbate. Sex toys aren't illegal for minors, only going into shops that also have pornographic stuff on display, is illegal. So if you can get your hands on vibrators or dildos from elsewhere, I know many have mentioned seeing them at a shop called Spencers, then get yourself one. Pharmacys have many body massagers by homemedics, that can be used for clitoral stimulation, just not for internal. So there are limitations, but I am sure you can find something. The easiest would be to let mom know that you need a sex toy and have her buy you one. Yeah, its embarrassing...but moms will understand...they were teens who were horny too once without many options. I had 3 daughters and I asked them if they wanted me to buy them one. All were too embarassed and turned me down. I should have bought them anyways and just given it to them.
Since you mention being on a period, I assume you're not wanting to find out if period sex is okay...it is as long as a womans partner is not grossed out by it. You mention the period thinking it means you are safe from getting pregnant which leads me to believe that you were not planning to use birth control. If you're underage, and decide to engage in sex with another underage male, its a misdemeaner against both of you if anyone decided to file charges.
There are many girls underage who write in who have already engaged in sex, do not plan to stop and are afraid of getting pregnant, many who write who think they may be pregnant already. If you're gonna be one of those girls who are going to do your own thing anyways, no matter what we suggest, then at least go to Planned Parenthood or the equivalent in your country where you can get free condoms or discount birth control.
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